Guest guest Posted June 20, 2007 Report Share Posted June 20, 2007 hello! i joined this group very recently. i have a problem which is disturbing me for a long time .....and i do not know what to do? i have a friend at work, working with me.... i met her everyday..... the problem is ......i feel she does not do her job honestly...... i found lately that she ......... lots of unhonest things at work....... i am afraid to tell her it is wrong....she should not do such things......because she believe that what she is doing is correct........ she will not listen.... please tell me what to do...... it becomes very difficult for me..... to find your friend doing such things ..... without caring for others.... and her bad actions.... thank you in advance.... waiting for a prompt answer " breeethe " <breeethe wrote: Dear Jessica, Anger is a result of feeling you have lost something. Yoga and meditation take you out of the personality into the infinite which allows you to understand that your " loss " is a perception and that in the infinite, you have not lost, but gained everything. When practicing yoga and/or meditation, it brings you into the present moment. Moment by moment. Here you can feel at ease. Good luck. This is a wonderful site and if you practice, you will benefit. Namaste' Gina -- " jessica " <lildarkpixie21 wrote: Hello I am new to the group but I was hoping to get some help on an issues. I have been have problems with my temper, and stress the past few months. It was recommended to me to try yoga and meditation but i am not really sure how to get started and are these common things that help with anger? ________ Click to find great rates on life insurance, save big, shop here http://track.juno.com/s/lc?u=http://tagline.untd.us/fc/CAaCX09teGy2UyayDSSC0BaSf\ n7NG4Ma/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 21, 2007 Report Share Posted June 21, 2007 Hallo Just for a while forget to try to change her. She will not understand but rather become more stubborn. Just be loving to her. And do not cling to her. If the relationship can not hold, do not hold her back. Perhaps you want to change her only because you want her to become your friend. But this creates strong tensions! Then it breakes. Be loving to her. Perhaps your love to her will change by its own her lifeattitude. If not, you can only change yourself. Grow in Love. Perhaps the you find a better woman to become your friend. I also know such people. It is almost impossible that they change. Almost impossible. Do not think you must be her savior. Some years ago I wrote a text on relationship. But it is in german. The text is in the attachemnt. Perhaps it helps you. Do not go to much into dispair because of her. It is enough when she suffers because of her lifestyle. Perhaps today she suffers not yet. But then maybe already tomorrow. Why you should then suffer too? Love Stephan * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2008 Report Share Posted September 25, 2008 yeah thank you shahin;in these last ramadan days;you are so helpfull..thank you verymuch..love..ali..2008/9/25 alayafire <ari.reza Perhaps Shahin the Quran has a mathematical secret! Indeed God's revelations are manifested for those who have attained certainty to strengthen the faith of the faithful. Let's appreciate the following fact/blessing: The Arabic letters that compose the Arabic word " Al muddaththir, " or " hidden secret " used in 74:1 (to hint to the nineteen-based miracle of the Quran) are: A/alif, with the gematrical value of 1 L/lam, with the gematrical value of 30 M/meem, with the gematrical value of 40 D/dal with the gematrical value of 4 TH/theh with the gematrical value of 500 R/reh with the gematrical value of 200 The gematrical value of the word is: 1+30+40+4+500+200=775 7+7+5=19 The chapter, by its title, deals with the 19-based mathematical miracle of the Quran. The digits of the gematrical value of its title " The Hidden Secret, " or " Al-Muddath-thir " or " the 19-based mathematical miracle " add up to 19. paula > > Hi Ali, > > Do not worry about searching Quran to learn that usury is bad. You > have found good verse. So we know that is bad and less than 10 times > God has repeated this to us. (you dudes, do not do usury, it is bad.) > God usually does not say dudes, i simplified it. > > But the same guy, the GOD, spoke about telling lie 600 times (a bit > more). > > Comparing number of times that IT is pushing it to tell us something, > is a kind of clue for us to know that: > > <If usury is that bad and IT repeated 10 times, then lie should be > VERY bad that IT is talking about it 600 times.> > > This kind of reasoning was my intention. > > have a happy day > > Shahin > === > -- A.Arslan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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