Past Life and deep Love

[Guest guest]

SAT NAM,

Its very relieveing to see such fabulous discussions on this forum, especially

the recent ones from Awtar and others..

 

After reading that I was tempted to ask about what I am going through.

 

I am meeting many past life soulmates of mine and I am very sensitive to others

feelings towards me.

 

when we look into each others eye we reflect the very very intense deep deep

love between us and that we have shared.

 

After meeting them, Its very hard for me to be separate, feel like staying with

them, and always want to experience that deep deep bright/shinning love. but we

cannot since we all have families and committments.

 

Missing this deep love brings intense sadness and I recognize the holes in my

heart that were left when we had departed in our past lives. I experience

burning sensation and sadness holes in my heart.

 

I am struggling to find that same intense love within me? between me and GOD,

many times I cry for it.

 

Awtar, GRK and many others,

What are your thoughts on this? Is romantic love different from God's love ?

I really want that love , the deep deep love always...but how?

 

Thank you lot,

Akkama

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Deer Akkama:

 

Your yearning is your own guidance!

 

Romantic love is no longer satisfying after a while because it is

based on projection not on love. Once true love is found in one's

heart and once our connection to true love is stable, the love we feel

for others is free of attachment, free of hooks.

 

Your yearning that comes from your experience with dear friends is

your awakening to something deeper than romantic love. I say awakening

even though I know you have been experiencing this for years now.

 

Your sadness is no longer necessary. It comes from forgetting that

nothing is taken away from you when you leave your friends. Instead a

remembrance of deep love has been given to you! The sadness comes from

your expectation that the love you experience comes from reuniting

with your friends. That reuniting is just the trigger to remind you

what is in you! The love you feel by being in the presence of others

comes from deep within you, triggered by your openness to them and

your history with them. Your experience of leaving that space is not

due to not being with them but due to your expectation of 1) where the

love experience comes from and 2) therefore where it should stop.

Change your expectation. Learn to see that the source of love is God

within, and that it is always there. There is no need for it to stop.

When you have a chance to be with others and be reminded of that deep

love, also remember its true source! When you finally make the shift

of awareness, and it will come by grace, not by will, you will know

true love!

 

Blessings,

Awtar Singh

[Guest guest]

The only thing I can offer is to please don't focus on what you feel you don't

have. That blocks all good and positive energy from entering and healing. You

do have love, it never fails, fades or dies. (It does change, shift and grow.)

That would be like saying the sun doesn't shine at night, when it actually does,

but we just don't see it!

 

Open yourself up to the positive energy, the love that you have and let it

shine, let it flow from you to others daily, spreading the blessings and the

blessing and love you will receive will be ten-fold.

 

~ hari nam kaur

 

akkamahadevi avanti <akku96 wrote:

 

SAT NAM,

Its very relieveing to see such fabulous discussions on this forum, especially

the recent ones from Awtar and others..

[Guest guest]

Sat Nam to everyone,

I felt the same experience 5 days ago, I was on chat and I knew a man by

e.mail...after one day we stayed 15 hours on calling, the day after we decided

to meet each other and something of special come!!!

I saw his eyes and I start to cry...I cryed for 1 hour or more, he cryed too. We

start to kiss each other we were under a big church and the bells started to

sing....but was night about 11 pm.....

I understood that I sow his eyes in another person and I felt to much love in my

heart. He doesn't praticse yoga but he is buddhist, and he told me that when he

saw my eyes in chat he felt " I have to call her, I need to meet her... " . So for

two days I cryed a lot when I was thinking about him. Now we think that we are a

couple...

I can understand you. Sat NamOnkar Kaur (Paola Natangeli)

 

 

Kundaliniyoga: akku96: Fri, 9 Nov 2007

06:55:43 -0800Kundalini Yoga Past Life and deep Love

 

 

 

 

SAT NAM,Its very relieveing to see such fabulous discussions on this forum,

especially the recent ones from Awtar and others..After reading that I was

tempted to ask about what I am going through.I am meeting many past life

soulmates of mine and I am very sensitive to others feelings towards me.when we

look into each others eye we reflect the very very intense deep deep love

between us and that we have shared.After meeting them, Its very hard for me to

be separate, feel like staying with them, and always want to experience that

deep deep bright/shinning love. but we cannot since we all have families and

committments.Missing this deep love brings intense sadness and I recognize the

holes in my heart that were left when we had departed in our past lives. I

experience burning sensation and sadness holes in my heart.I am struggling to

find that same intense love within me? between me and GOD, many times I cry for

it.Awtar, GRK and many others,What are your thoughts on this? Is romantic love

different from God's love ? I really want that love , the deep deep love

always...but how?Thank you

lot,AkkamaTired

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[Guest guest]

Sat Nam,

 

 

 

That was beautiful Awtar. The following is on the same theme. This is what I

am teaching in my workshop in Encinitas, CA this Sunday Nov. 11. I wish you all

could attend! Anyone close enough to join us, let me know.

 

 

 

Emotional energy always moves and needs an object for its desire.

 

 

 

We generally focus our love outside ourselves. When our emotional energy is

projected outside ourselves, we project neediness. We are trying to find a union

outside ourselves to substitute for the union we must find within. This creates

problems.

 

 

Don't we know!

 

 

 

When we find something or someone that satisfies us temporarily, we become

attached to it. When we cannot find what we think we want, we become depressed

and agitated. When we are deprived of our external object, we are traumatized

because we no longer feel whole. Auric separation creates deep anguish. Our cup

overflows with tears.

 

 

 

Our emotional body needs something to love. Loving Spirit and loving our

physical body and its sensations gives our emotional body something to do. When

we love both Spirit and Matter we contain both spiritual and emotional energy in

our physical body. Our love creates an alchemical reaction by which we embody

Spirit and spiritualize matter.

 

 

 

Then we are able to love without attachment, because we are always loving Love

itself inside ourselves. We become very magnetic. And we feel very satisified.

And we can truly love because we experience what Love is.

 

 

 

It requires spiritual discipline to reach this state of consciousness. So we

practice this while we do our KY and meditation. It is a beautiful practice.

 

 

 

Blessings,

 

 

 

Guru Rattana :+)

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

i an intrested in learning about my past life.i am in chennai. who do i

approach.?

 

akkamahadevi avanti <akku96 wrote:

SAT NAM,

Its very relieveing to see such fabulous discussions on this forum, especially

the recent ones from Awtar and others..

 

After reading that I was tempted to ask about what I am going through.

 

I am meeting many past life soulmates of mine and I am very sensitive to others

feelings towards me.

 

when we look into each others eye we reflect the very very intense deep deep

love between us and that we have shared.

 

After meeting them, Its very hard for me to be separate, feel like staying with

them, and always want to experience that deep deep bright/shinning love. but we

cannot since we all have families and committments.

 

Missing this deep love brings intense sadness and I recognize the holes in my

heart that were left when we had departed in our past lives. I experience

burning sensation and sadness holes in my heart.

 

I am struggling to find that same intense love within me? between me and GOD,

many times I cry for it.

 

Awtar, GRK and many others,

What are your thoughts on this? Is romantic love different from God's love ?

I really want that love , the deep deep love always...but how?

 

Thank you lot,

Akkama

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

>

> i an intrested in learning about my past life.i am in chennai. who

do i approach.?

>

 

Dear Akkama:

 

Before you approach someone who can tell you about your past lives, I

would suggest you read a couple of books by Dr. Brian Weiss:

 

Many lives, many masters

and

Same soul, many bodies

 

These books made me realize 2 things:

1) It is not just knowing one's past lives that heals but reliving

certain parts of our past lives and sometimes the deaths and the time

between lives. In other words having someone tell me my past lives

does not give me any realization in and of itself; no experience, no

healing.

And,

2) after reading so many examples from Brian Weiss, I made a leap of

faith and I just knew that I have past experiences that brought me

here and now and it no longer matters, because what matters is what I

choose to do with who I am right now! The rest is simply special effects.

 

The experiences you have that are so incredible are just special

effects until you can sustain the light and the love on your own. And

that comes by raising your vibration and making your nervous system

strong (Kundalini Yoga is ideal for this). So smile on your

experiences and know there is something beyond what you know that is

awaiting you. Allow yourself to let go of what seems so incredible at

this time. Give it up, so you can open to something beyond what you

know. Let go of all these friends, for now, they can only limit you at

this time! You are keeping yourself in illusion by holding on to the

experience you have together. Run away so you can find yourself! And

when you have, when your love is pure and stable, you can come back

and help them!

 

If the two realizations I describe above aren't making sense yet to

you, please read the books and perhaps you will have your own epiphany

from reading them... something more valuable to you because it will

come from your own experience, not mine.

 

Blessings and love,

Awtar singh

[Guest guest]

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> Sat Nam

What a beautiful, authentic response, Awtar. Thank you for your

humble wisdom.

I feel your longing, Akkama, because I have felt it too. Years ago, I

too had experienced reacquainting myself with a 'soul-mate' who, I was

convinced, was the man I 'should have' married etc...Needless to say,

though I love this man dearly still and will be a lifelong friend, the

drama of it was not grounding or affirming to my soul. As Awtar had so

eloquently replied, I didn't have the awareness to ground the light

and the love for myself and was looking to this man to deliver my

happiness. Years later now, I am so grateful for the experience of it,

as the pain of my fractured ego would be a catalyst for deeper

inquiry. I know now that I was starting to fall in love with myself

during that time, so it makes sense that I needed to see where I was

loving myself conditionally (making my happiness dependent on my

relationships).

I believe we can look at the mirrors in our lives to bring us back

to ourselves. This man that I speak of knew that we would only bring

pain to each others lives if we pursued a relationship (I was, and am,

married with children). I was right to want more for myself, and I

am so glad that when he came into my life I was able to feel broken

hearted, but my heart just broke open, not apart.

Many Blessings,

Shanti,

Dawn

[Guest guest]

Dearest Awtar/GRK and others,

 

Clarification, The below question was not posed by me. I have already taken your

suggestion on the recommeneded books from previous mails and I am reading them.

In fact, I bought " Only Love is real.. " and " Many Lives, Many Masters " as well.

The book " only Love is real by Brian is very nice and an eye opener.

I am really blessed.

In any case , your bleow response is just fabulous and the best of all for me.

it will help me....

 

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU,

SAT NAM

Akkam

 

yogahs <kundalini_yoga wrote:

>

> i an intrested in learning about my past life.i am in chennai. who

do i approach.?

>

 

Dear Akkama:

 

Before you approach someone who can tell you about your past lives, I

would suggest you read a couple of books by Dr. Brian Weiss:

 

Many lives, many masters

and

Same soul, many bodies

 

These books made me realize 2 things:

1) It is not just knowing one's past lives that heals but reliving

certain parts of our past lives and sometimes the deaths and the time

between lives. In other words having someone tell me my past lives

does not give me any realization in and of itself; no experience, no

healing.

And,

2) after reading so many examples from Brian Weiss, I made a leap of

faith and I just knew that I have past experiences that brought me

here and now and it no longer matters, because what matters is what I

choose to do with who I am right now! The rest is simply special effects.

 

The experiences you have that are so incredible are just special

effects until you can sustain the light and the love on your own. And

that comes by raising your vibration and making your nervous system

strong (Kundalini Yoga is ideal for this). So smile on your

experiences and know there is something beyond what you know that is

awaiting you. Allow yourself to let go of what seems so incredible at

this time. Give it up, so you can open to something beyond what you

know. Let go of all these friends, for now, they can only limit you at

this time! You are keeping yourself in illusion by holding on to the

experience you have together. Run away so you can find yourself! And

when you have, when your love is pure and stable, you can come back

and help them!

 

If the two realizations I describe above aren't making sense yet to

you, please read the books and perhaps you will have your own epiphany

from reading them... something more valuable to you because it will

come from your own experience, not mine.

 

Blessings and love,

Awtar singh