how to keep away from psychologically affected relatives

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Dear Guru Ratna!!

I have been facing this problem since im married to my husband.

The family which im married to is most of them have psychological

problems andits been hecyive to be with them. They semmed to be

carried away with their emotion untill their feelings are extreeme

and they just could not balanced themselves. The more i tried to help

them the great problems I face because of them. I have tried my level

best to avoid them,But they behave as though they dont have any aims

and commitments in life. Most of the time eventhough I tried to be

away from them so how they viist my house and just relax them selves

as though my house is like a rest house and im like a slave to

them.Please help me How can I make them, to leave me. The more gentle

I am to them The more opportuniest they have been. At times they

behave as though they dont possess emotional intelligence and create a

bad environment for me. To tell the truth, So far I dont have good

memories or nice experience with them, They had created so much

problems in my family life!! please Help me!!