Guest guest Posted May 9, 2008 Report Share Posted May 9, 2008 Sat nam everyone, I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend (whom I adore) ... My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old ways vibrating on a very low consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am humbly above that. The act of traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me anymore. My boyfriend on the other hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common when you make this transition into this lifestyle? Are there any books or links someone can recommend me reading. I am very curious as to what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra guidelines. Thank you, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Hi there, First of all, i would like to acknowledge you being honest and committed. This alone will help you for anything you want in your life. Request you to be in a space, where nothing is wrong. Each and every human being is full and complete wherever you are and whatever you do. Now, being in this space, you will be powerful and can invent new possibilities in you relationship. The game of this relationship begins where giving, offering, surrendering 'self' is more important than anything else. Nothing remains to be changed and the love flows from a being to another being and it is bi-directional...only love exists and that is the conclusion of sex. Sex dies to give birth to love. What follows is again the manifestations of love and occurs in different forms. A new being gets created to fulfill your own being. Enjoy! Thanks, OP --- On Fri, 5/9/08, swanson_sky <swanson_sky wrote: swanson_sky <swanson_sky Kundalini Yoga A intimate question Kundaliniyoga Friday, May 9, 2008, 2:20 PM Sat nam everyone, I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend (whom I adore) ... My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old ways vibrating on a very low consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am humbly above that. The act of traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me anymore. My boyfriend on the other hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common when you make this transition into this lifestyle? Are there any books or links someone can recommend me reading. I am very curious as to what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra guidelines. Thank you, ______________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2008 Report Share Posted May 11, 2008 What " fast track " is it that you're on? In my experience and many others', KY has the opposite effect from what you seem to be describing, and it is because as opposed to all other yogas, KY connects you firmly to the earth. The emphasis of KY is: " I love this gift of life-on-earth given me and I want to live on this earth " It goes opposite to the monastic style that emphazises 6 and 7 chakras. Perhaps you just need to make a little adjustment in your ways. Sexual relations are 90% sensual and 10% sexual. There's nothing holy about KY, for it's the yoga of the working man (that includes woman.) Maybe you need to read you KY books more closely and the deep understanding of your yoga will come with many years of practice. Good luck. P.S.: We don't have a " master " . Study your books more. MODERATOR: I think she means Yogi Bhajan. Kind regards. swanson_sky wrote: Sat nam everyone, I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend (whom I adore) ... My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old ways vibrating on a very low consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am humbly above that. The act of traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me anymore. My boyfriend on the other hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common when you make this transition into this lifestyle? Are there any books or links someone can recommend me reading. I am very curious as to what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra guidelines. Thank you, Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2008 Report Share Posted May 12, 2008 Sat nam OP, Thank you for taking the time to reply and sending such a calming and uplifting message...I have not of my situation in that way. You brought light and beauty and I really appreciate it! Blessings! Sky --- On Sat, 5/10/08, OP Mishra <opmishra74 wrote: > OP Mishra <opmishra74 > Re: Kundalini Yoga A intimate question > Kundaliniyoga > Saturday, May 10, 2008, 6:38 PM > Hi there, > > First of all, i would like to acknowledge you being honest > and committed. This alone will help you for anything you > want in your life. > > Request you to be in a space, where nothing is wrong. Each > and every human being is full and complete wherever you are > and whatever you do. > > Now, being in this space, you will be powerful and can > invent new possibilities in you relationship. > > The game of this relationship begins where giving, > offering, surrendering 'self' is more important > than anything else. Nothing remains to be changed and the > love flows from a being to another being and it is > bi-directional...only love exists and that is the > conclusion of sex. Sex dies to give birth to love. What > follows is again the manifestations of love and occurs in > different forms. A new being gets created to fulfill your > own being. > > > Enjoy! > > Thanks, > OP > > > > > --- On Fri, 5/9/08, swanson_sky > <swanson_sky wrote: > > swanson_sky <swanson_sky > Kundalini Yoga A intimate question > Kundaliniyoga > Friday, May 9, 2008, 2:20 PM Sat nam everyone, > I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a > committed relationship with my boyfriend > (whom I adore) ... > My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old > ways vibrating on a very low > consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am > humbly above that. The act of > traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me > anymore. My boyfriend on the other > hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common > when you make this transition into > this lifestyle? > Are there any books or links someone can recommend me > reading. I am very curious as to > what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra > guidelines. > > Thank you, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________\ ____ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ ______________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2008 Report Share Posted May 12, 2008 Dear The Traveler, Thank you for your wisdom and I am currently finishing teacher training and yes, of course I do refer to Yogi Bhajan. Along with this intense training a lot has shifted for me and as a result of being more grounded and focused. Your answer was perfect 90/10% in which case that is my current situation. I will always student on some level... Thank you for your time, Sat nam! Sky --- On Sun, 5/11/08, The Traveler <dumai20baihui wrote: > The Traveler <dumai20baihui > Re: Kundalini Yoga A intimate question > Kundaliniyoga > Sunday, May 11, 2008, 11:33 AM > What " fast track " is it that you're on? > > In my experience and many others', KY has the > opposite effect from > what you seem to be describing, and it is because as > opposed to all > other yogas, KY connects you firmly to the earth. The > emphasis of KY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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