RE: A intimate question response

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Sat nam group!

 

 

 

Thank you for the personal post and I think it's a great topic for the

group.

 

 

 

 

 

I too am going through this change and welcome all the contrast it brings.

 

 

 

I started down this path 2 years ago.. my 2nd chakra was very over active

and was so for as long as I can remember.

 

 

 

I am recently single again and find the old thoughts of sex and what I used

to do, say and feel about it not so appealing anymore. Guy friends are

encouraging me to get back out there and have some fun and I kindly tell

them where I am at and they just shrug there shoulders

 

 

 

I do want the pleasure of a intimate relationship though, just not focused

as much on the act of intercourse.. And most men are all to focused on that

anyway. .There is so much more to sensuality than that. .

 

 

 

I do agree with the " travelers " reply. The 10 / 90 % ratio is

interesting.. and we are not munks.. My previous partner was so much in her

6 and 7th chakras we had a very hard time communicating and being together.

 

 

 

 

I heard a Yogi Bhajan lecture (KY - the Yoga of awareness) and he said " if

you grip is sensuality you are in trouble, doing a lot of damage to your own

body mind and soul. " In Guru Rattanas book " spirituality and Sexuality "

Yogi Bhajan gives a wonderful treatise on physical pleasure -on how a man

should please his partner..

 

 

 

So to me its about balance and where I am at, where I came from, and where I

want to go. albeit do it slowly, wit awareness, non judgment towards myself

and anyone I become intimate with in the future.

 

 

 

I think the reply from " Op " was beautiful and I hope one day to feel as she

describes with a wonderful partner by my side to share this and the physical

intimacy with too.

 

 

 

Maybe talk to the boyfriend from the heart and see what comes of it with a

neutral mind..

 

 

 

Are there any men out there that have gone through what she and I are

experienced and can they ad to the discussion please?

 

 

 

Sat nam,

 

 

 

Marty / Sarobjot Singh, in Charlotte <NC

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

" We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we

created them. " - Albert Einstein

 

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Kundaliniyoga [Kundaliniyoga ]

On Behalf Of The Traveler

Sunday, May 11, 2008 7:33 AM

Kundaliniyoga

Re: Kundalini Yoga A intimate question

 

 

 

What " fast track " is it that you're on?

 

In my experience and many others', KY has the opposite effect from

what you seem to be describing, and it is because as opposed to all

other yogas, KY connects you firmly to the earth. The emphasis of KY

is: " I love this gift of life-on-earth given me and I want to live on this

earth "

It goes opposite to the monastic style that emphazises 6 and 7 chakras.

 

Perhaps you just need to make a little adjustment in your ways. Sexual

relations are 90% sensual and 10% sexual. There's nothing holy about

KY, for it's the yoga of the working man (that includes woman.) Maybe

you need to read you KY books more closely and the deep understanding

of your yoga will come with many years of practice. Good luck.

 

 

P.S.: We don't have a " master " . Study your books more.

 

MODERATOR: I think she means Yogi Bhajan.

 

Kind regards.

 

 

 

swanson_sky@ <swanson_sky%40> > wrote:

Sat nam everyone,

I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a committed relationship

with my boyfriend

(whom I adore) ...

My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old ways vibrating on

a very low

consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am humbly above that.

The act of

traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me anymore. My boyfriend

on the other

hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common when you make this

transition into

this lifestyle?

Are there any books or links someone can recommend me reading. I am very

curious as to

what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra guidelines.

 

Thank you,

 

 

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