Guest guest Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 I've been there before, 2 months plus free from the deadly cancer sticks and then stupidly gave into fear and had a cigarette That was a couple of years ago and despite desperately wanting to quit I just can't seem to find that courage to stub it out I'm new to Kundalini. Has anybody got any suggestions on meditations or anything?????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2008 Report Share Posted September 26, 2008 Kundaliniyoga , " suannu " <snichol393 wrote: > > I've been there before, 2 months plus free from the deadly cancer > sticks and then stupidly gave into fear and had a cigarette > That was a couple of years ago and despite desperately wanting to quit > I just can't seem to find that courage to stub it out > I'm new to Kundalini. Has anybody got any suggestions on meditations or > anything?????? > I smoked cigarettes from the time I was 13 until my early 40's and did not think I could ever give them up - but I did. I quit smoking one minute at a time. I never told myself I was quitting, I just delayed smoking for one minute to let the urge disapate somewhat and it will become less and less demanding. I gave myself permission to smoke whenever I wanted to, but just to wait for one minute before lighting up. It took four months and sometimes I dreamed of cigarettes, but even in my dreams I did not light up. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2008 Report Share Posted September 28, 2008 Hi, In _Kundalini Yoga/Sadhana Guidelines_ there is a meditation called " Medical Meditation for Habituation " which you may find helpful. It's on page 102 of my very, very old copy - if it's been revised the page may be different. Also, Gururattana's online lesson #11 addresses the topic of addictions, so this may also be of interest. I can't say I know exactly what you're going through as I haven't had to deal with a nicotine habit, but I stopped eating sugar many years ago as it was a seriously health-threatening addiction for me. A couple of things that may apply: Don't count days, or think about " forever " . Forever doesn't come, we only have now. Think only of one day at a time, one minute at a time if necessary, as someone else has already suggested. You can do anything for one minute. Think of yourself as a non-smoker. If you're not smoking now, you _are_ already a non-smoker. Consider the possibility of a 12-step group for support. I'm pretty sure there is a Smoker's Anonymous. I found Overeaters Anonymous helpful in breaking my food addiction - contact with people who really understand and have overcome the same difficulty can be very valuable. Hang in there - there will be many people rooting for you, some you know and some you will never know. <s> Good luck! Take care and have a wonderful happy day, Sat Darshan Kaur :-) Kundaliniyoga , " suannu " <snichol393 wrote: > > I've been there before, 2 months plus free from the deadly cancer > sticks and then stupidly gave into fear and had a cigarette > That was a couple of years ago and despite desperately wanting to quit > I just can't seem to find that courage to stub it out > I'm new to Kundalini. Has anybody got any suggestions on meditations or > anything?????? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2008 Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 I smoked for 30 years. One day a friend gave me a copy of Stop Smoking the Easy Way by Allen Carr. I was highly skeptical. However, she told me that she had smoked for 30 years, read the book 10 years before, and had never smoked again. I decided it wouldn't hurt to read it. Now Mr. Carr has no credentials. He didn't say anything that I hadn't heard before, really, but it just 'clicked' with me. I was looking for a miracle and I got one. The thing that stuck with me was this: you get NOTHING out of smoking except relief from the withdrawal symptoms of smoking! It doesn't make you think better; it doesn't make food taste better; it doesn't calm you down. It just self perpetuates. He tells you to experience withdrawal as a triumph, and not put too much 'mustard' on it. If you tell yourself you 'can't' you won't. If you tell yourself it's hard, it is. If you breath through them and remind yourself that feeling is leading you to freedom, it is. Good luck. **************Looking for simple solutions to your real-life financial challenges? Check out WalletPop for the latest news and information, tips and calculators. (http://www.walletpop.com/?NCID=emlcntuswall00000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2008 Report Share Posted October 5, 2008 Congratulations! --- Received: Sat, 04 Oct 2008 09:33:22 PM PDT archer4552 Kundaliniyoga Re: Kundalini Yoga Re: Easiest way to quit smoking I smoked for 30 years. One day a friend gave me a copy of Stop Smoking the Easy Way by Allen Carr. I was highly skeptical. However, she told me that she had smoked for 30 years, read the book 10 years before, and had never smoked again. I decided it wouldn't hurt to read it. Now Mr. Carr has no credentials. He didn't say anything that I hadn't heard before, really, but it just 'clicked' with me. I was looking for a miracle and I got one. The thing that stuck with me was this: you get NOTHING out of smoking except relief from the withdrawal symptoms of smoking! It doesn't make you think better; it doesn't make food taste better; it doesn't calm you down. It just self perpetuates. He tells you to experience withdrawal as a triumph, and not put too much 'mustard' on it. If you tell yourself you 'can't' you won't. If you tell yourself it's hard, it is. If you breath through them and remind yourself that feeling is leading you to freedom, it is. Good luck. **************Looking for simple solutions to your real-life financial challenges? Check out WalletPop for the latest news and information, tips and calculators. (http://www.walletpop.com/?NCID=emlcntuswall00000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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