Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Dear Recycledsole, YOU are the one with so much to give. Honor yourself and try not to enable your friend. Your friend sounds like she has a LOT to work on. She is very young and needs a lot of attention to fulfill herself. She is so lucky to have you as a friend, but it doesn't sound like she is giving you the respect that you deserve. Of course she would do so much better with Kundalini Yoga in her life, but she must decide that. Take care of yourself, you sound like a wonderful human being. You are on the right track. Many blessings, Karamleen Kaur On Tue, Jul 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM, recycledsole <recycledsolewrote: > > > Sat Nam Friends > My girlfriend has Alot of energy. she is 23. the men in her life have never > been so great to her. never helping her feel so secure, taken care of with > Compassion. sometimes she says she has too much energy. she is from the > 15,000ft moutains. She is very social and gets alot of energy from friends/ > guys. So she can be very active, wants action, SEEKING excitement. she isnt > always content with me which i understand. I know i am very dispassionate > after becoming a Yogi. i know in KY though they say to have some passion. > the last year she has been " doing whatever she feels " not had so many limits > and kind of expanding very quickly Not taking care of her arua, having sex > with other people than me, partying so much.. now i have come back into > contact with her she is slowing down a little. Its so nice to be there > energetically for eachother, to balance the male and female energies. just > being there. it is vunerable and you get deeper to the root so more things > come up than just riding on the attractive energies, but i really feel so > much better about it. i am glad for the teachings of all the yogis and the > Humanology of Yogi Bhajan that has helped me to understand women (a little) > more and relationships and the basic roles better. > i think she just wants to do something with her energy.. from my own > experience and from observing other yogis we feel very calm, content, > balanced, sometimes even passive. I am so grateful.i notice she doesnt feel > this way untill she has stayed up all night almost, dancing or talking, > drinking etc... its really nice to be there with her when she has had some > drinks and she is really peaceful and calm- but she has some impurity > usually then.. its not all Her energy. she doesnt wake up early and do > sadhana, usually she is up at 8-11am.. i love being around her. its very > nice she is such a beautiful person. Its nice too when she is more chilled > out, more content in just Being. > She can do sooooo much for the world, kids, poor people, young people. In > service of our Love and the Consciousness i hope there is someway that she > can get more into channeling her energy not just higher, but balancing all > aspects. shes amazing, i hope reading this you might get a suggestion from > your own experience of being a 23 year old woman with alot of energy and not > so much guidance. > Thank You for any insight You may have. I am really glad to see the many > persepectives. May the Guru Bless You. Your wisdom and kindness is the > Greatest gift. > In Peace > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 I can only speak from experience....now being a 60 yr. old woman with regrets that I did not walk down the street to Yogi Bhajan's ashram in Tucson when I had the opportunity. I do believe that nothing happens in God's world by mistake. To this day I remember the " energies' that imminated from the people at the ashram. Healthy, Happy, Holy. I too was into sex, drugs, and rock n' roll. Now I have a mental illness and am in shelter. I don't know how to get this woman to an ashram, but I do feel that she could use some exposure and make her own choices. Sat Nam, Jaya (Jennie) On Tue, Jul 14, 2009 at 10:14 AM, recycledsole <recycledsolewrote: > > > Sat Nam Friends > My girlfriend has Alot of energy. she is 23. the men in her life have never > been so great to her. never helping her feel so secure, taken care of with > Compassion. sometimes she says she has too much energy. she is from the > 15,000ft moutains. She is very social and gets alot of energy from friends/ > guys. So she can be very active, wants action, SEEKING excitement. she isnt > always content with me which i understand. I know i am very dispassionate > after becoming a Yogi. i know in KY though they say to have some passion. > the last year she has been " doing whatever she feels " not had so many limits > and kind of expanding very quickly Not taking care of her arua, having sex > with other people than me, partying so much.. now i have come back into > contact with her she is slowing down a little. Its so nice to be there > energetically for eachother, to balance the male and female energies. just > being there. it is vunerable and you get deeper to the root so more things > come up than just riding on the attractive energies, but i really feel so > much better about it. i am glad for the teachings of all the yogis and the > Humanology of Yogi Bhajan that has helped me to understand women (a little) > more and relationships and the basic roles better. > i think she just wants to do something with her energy.. from my own > experience and from observing other yogis we feel very calm, content, > balanced, sometimes even passive. I am so grateful.i notice she doesnt feel > this way untill she has stayed up all night almost, dancing or talking, > drinking etc... its really nice to be there with her when she has had some > drinks and she is really peaceful and calm- but she has some impurity > usually then.. its not all Her energy. she doesnt wake up early and do > sadhana, usually she is up at 8-11am.. i love being around her. its very > nice she is such a beautiful person. Its nice too when she is more chilled > out, more content in just Being. > She can do sooooo much for the world, kids, poor people, young people. In > service of our Love and the Consciousness i hope there is someway that she > can get more into channeling her energy not just higher, but balancing all > aspects. shes amazing, i hope reading this you might get a suggestion from > your own experience of being a 23 year old woman with alot of energy and not > so much guidance. > Thank You for any insight You may have. I am really glad to see the many > persepectives. May the Guru Bless You. Your wisdom and kindness is the > Greatest gift. > In Peace > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 I do not understand what energy you are talking about. Your Girl Friend is too passionate and it is her sexual passion which drives her to do what she is doing. I think you are thoroughly confused. There is no Spiritual Energy here. HK Bhargava -- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2009 Report Share Posted July 21, 2009 Kundaliniyoga , " hk.bhargava " <hk.bhargava wrote: > > I do not understand what energy you are talking about. Your Girl Friend is too passionate and it is her sexual passion which drives her to do what she is doing. > > I think you are thoroughly confused. There is no Spiritual Energy here. > > HK Bhargava > -- > Sat Nam I think you should find a way to say to yourself that you cant do things to help her or to change her. She must do it alone. And if you asked your self WHY do you so much need her to change or, to be with her rather then anything else ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2009 Report Share Posted July 22, 2009 Sat nam Yogi Bhajan said that sexual energy is the only energy that can be converted to spiritual energy. it sounds like both you guys have enormous potential to get connected and live an amazing life. Sometimes we just need to experience lots of different ways of living before we figure out what will really make us happy. I know I did. I agree that sat kriya is a good place to start I also found breath of fire, alternate nostril breathing, med for a calm heart and the guru ram das mantra instrumental in helping me balance my fire energy. You guys are together for a reason it is great that you can help each other. Love and light, gurubala, Sydney Australia Sent from my iPhone ______________________________\ ____ Access 7 Mail on your mobile. Anytime. Anywhere. Show me how: http://au.mobile./mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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