Guest guest Posted July 19, 2009 Report Share Posted July 19, 2009 Ji, You have a lot of tolerance and compassion, which is beautiful to see. However, your girlfriend sounds very unstable, and I'm sorry to say that she will not stay with you for long, so my recommendation would be to not get too emotionally involved with her. The best solution is if you suggest to her to do Sat Kriya for 40 days - this will integrate the lower energies to the higher centres and allow true kindness and compassion to brew in the heart. Spiritual magnetism is not like sexual magnetism. Spiritual magnetism allows a person to choose what and who to attract into their lives, and to attract only those things that will help a person to fulfil their destiny and spiritual path. Sexual magnetism attracts anyone that is looking for a bit of pleasure and games and just like anything else, can take a person far away from their true destiny. Your girlfriend's deep longing for happiness, together with her emotional instability and a habitual pattern of sex with multiple partners indicates that if she doesn't transform her inner space quickly - she is heading for irreversable damage to her Chakras. The most compassionate thing you could do is to take her to get some help - counselling, ashram, acupuncture, hypnosis...whatever it takes! In my opinion, I feel that that you should give her the opportunity to break the pattern and transform herself, or ask her to leave you. Be simple, direct, sweet and straight-forward - this is a test of your compassion. Sat Nam, J. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2009 Report Share Posted July 21, 2009 I can't help it but be happy for you, Recicledsole! You allow yourself to be vulnerable and completely absorbed in a relationship that gives you lots of trouble! It seems to me like making a first step to surrender. Your girlfriend needs to feel self-love. She needs all these man, and substances to confirm her beauty, because she forgot who she is. Empower her if you can. Help her find something she deeply cares about, and work on it. Maybe, help her even empower other people (?). It will make her feel fulfilled, and may (or may not) bring more balance to your relationship (but, this aspect is secondary to you, isn't it?). Love, Prem Siri Kaur Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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