fixation

[Guest guest]

hi; i need your help. i've been practicing kundalini for the past few years and

i've been able to enjoy it's multiple benefits, both physical and espiritual.

nevertheless, there is this one aspect i haven't been able to surpas thru

practice. it is my fixation when it comes to people with whom i feel a great

deal of incompatibility (apathy). i've complemented my practice with some

reading about reincarnation and the only explanation i find is that maybe i

still hold some sort of " unfinished business " with some of these people.

 

currently i have this particular case with my brother in law, with whom i have a

limited level of tolerance for his actions. i feel extermely unconfortable when

i'm arround him since i see him as an arrogant person, who shows little

gratefulness to the universe for the blessings he's received (no humbleness at

all). this all goes against my actual believes and values. the thing is, i don't

know if this feeling of mine has a particular espiritual base, or if it's just a

simple case of mental fixation, and how to solve it?

 

if it were about any other person maybe ignoring him would be the wisest choice,

but in this case it's about a close family contact with whom i have to deal with

frequently. i've tried to discuss this with my wife and assess the possibility

of even speaking frankly about this with him, but the way we see it, it's a

mather of carachter, and it's all very difficult to change. besides, why would

it be my quest to change this person? this situation is the anti-thesis of my

line of thinking and the things i believe and value out of life, i even see this

person as a bad influence for my dearest and closest ones.

 

i would truly appreciate any insights you might be able to provide in this

matter.

 

Sat Nam! Rafael.

[Guest guest]

Harihi om. It appears you are still showing material inclination to the

worldly aspects of life. From your description, I can make out that it is

just your state of mind towards your so called worldy relative. Try to

remove these kind of halucinations and more concentrate on yoga aspects with

regular intervals. All other things would automatically come to your

control. An element of re incarnation is having wider perspective. It is

better not to link the things you have narrated to it. Have a bilissful

life

-Samartha chaitanya

 

On Sun, Sep 13, 2009 at 6:55 PM, racapellan <racapellan wrote:

 

>

>

> hi; i need your help. i've been practicing kundalini for the past few years

> and i've been able to enjoy it's multiple benefits, both physical and

> espiritual. nevertheless, there is this one aspect i haven't been able to

> surpas thru practice. it is my fixation when it comes to people with whom i

> feel a great deal of incompatibility (apathy). i've complemented my practice

> with some reading about reincarnation and the only explanation i find is

> that maybe i still hold some sort of " unfinished business " with some of

> these people.

>

> currently i have this particular case with my brother in law, with whom i

> have a limited level of tolerance for his actions. i feel extermely

> unconfortable when i'm arround him since i see him as an arrogant person,

> who shows little gratefulness to the universe for the blessings he's

> received (no humbleness at all). this all goes against my actual believes

> and values. the thing is, i don't know if this feeling of mine has a

> particular espiritual base, or if it's just a simple case of mental

> fixation, and how to solve it?

>

> if it were about any other person maybe ignoring him would be the wisest

> choice, but in this case it's about a close family contact with whom i have

> to deal with frequently. i've tried to discuss this with my wife and assess

> the possibility of even speaking frankly about this with him, but the way we

> see it, it's a mather of carachter, and it's all very difficult to change.

> besides, why would it be my quest to change this person? this situation is

> the anti-thesis of my line of thinking and the things i believe and value

> out of life, i even see this person as a bad influence for my dearest and

> closest ones.

>

> i would truly appreciate any insights you might be able to provide in this

> matter.

>

> Sat Nam! Rafael.

>

>

>