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Sat Dev Suroop Kaur (which one?),

When I hear what Yogiji had written to you in response to your

question, I hear "do it until you drop". Do it so completely and with

such trust that all your fears and sorrows and angers are poked,

experienced and then dropped from this very high place within your

self. At this point your ego expands and merges with the infinite, and

YOU become Infinite. It takes a lot of inspiration to

bring this much heart to a practice. Sangat can be a great support.

Without that inspiration, though, I think *it might* be far better to

miss a day to "process" and listen to your humanity than to push forward robotically, and ignore the

emotional work completely. Sometimes

we simply lose heart and it would be good to "check in" with your

heart. It is true that as old traumas are reopened as we open our

breath and heart focus to them that we now have this actual

responsibility to fully let it go. Cry it out, freak out, whatever.

It's now there in front of you to finally acknowledge completely and

drop. It will gone forever. I see the image of a small running around a

playground who falls, skins his knee and cries really loud, sobbing.

Five minutes you look around and he/she is back at the same activity as

before. Totally open and beautiful again. The pain, like the rain, came

and went.....and now the sun is shining again. Innocence has returned.

 

Gotta run.

All Blessings.

Dharam Singh

Millis, MA

 

 

dobromatic wrote:

 

Sat Nam Sarbjot Kaur,

I had this happen in a 90 day meditation many years ago. I missed the 89th day. My husband and I had gone out for a hike, I was totally wiped out and fell asleep. I woke up the next morning and experienced something like what you describe below (although not 500 days in!!). I actually wrote the Siri Singh Sahib/Yogi Bhajan about it and asked him what I should do. He said "Start over and do it honestly. Report back to me when you have completed it.". Yogi Bhajan often said different things to different people at various times. So, Dharam gave the input below from what he had heard (start back up within 72 hours). What he conveyed below is definitely a great attitude. All I ever heard directly about missing a day is what was personally communicated to me by Yogi Bhajan when I missed a day. So...in your best consciousness, take it all in and go with it!

Blessings, Dev Suroop Kaur

Kundalini-Yoga , D h a r a m <pran.108 wrote:

 

 

Sat Nam Sarbjot Kaur,

Kinda late in my input to your question but someone will benefit

 

from

 

this info. I have heard from a very, very reliable Yogiji source

 

that as

 

long as you pick it back up again within 72 hours the energy is

 

still

 

with you and you're fine. Now don't everyone go out and start

 

blowing

 

off their routines for 71 hours.

It's your sincerity to the effort, willingness to process whatever

 

comes

 

up and the discipline to then integrate the new found openings into

 

your

 

day to day consciousness that matter much more than that 1,000 day

 

figure.

 

 

Keep you heart open!

Sat Nam,

Dharam

Millis, MA

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Sat Nam Dharam Singh,

 

It's Dev Suroop Kaur from Espanola...musician, Fbks, Akal. Is it you

from Fbks as well?

 

Read your post...and it really comes down to intention. There are

specific effects of doing a 40, 90, 120, 1000 day meditation. If

your intention is to experience those particular effects, then do the

practice unbroken...and start over if you miss a day (daunting

proposition, yes, for our dear sister who missed day 500 of a 1000

day meditation). The approach you mention below -- giving yourself

the space to process, etc. -- is a different approach. Certainly,

I'm doing various practices all the time and not all are of the 40,

90, 120, 1000 day variety. And just as you describe below, that's a

very valid and important part of my practice and path through life.

 

So, in terms of 'missing a day', it depends upon intention. If

you're going for the benefit of that particular time frame, my

understanding from the training of the Master is that you do the

practice unbroken.

 

Blessings...Dev Suroop Kaur

 

Kundalini-Yoga , D h a r a m <pran.108

wrote:

>

> Sat Dev Suroop Kaur (which one?),

> When I hear what Yogiji had written to you in response to your

> question, I hear " do it until you drop " . Do it so completely and

with

> such trust that all your fears and sorrows and angers are poked,

> experienced and then dropped from this very high place within your

self.

> At this point your ego expands and merges with the infinite, and

YOU

> become Infinite. It takes a lot of inspiration to bring this much

heart

> to a practice. Sangat can be a great support.

> Without that inspiration, though, I think *it might* be far better

to

> miss a day to " process " and listen to your humanity than to push

forward

> robotically, and ignore the emotional work completely. Sometimes we

> simply lose heart and it would be good to " check in " with your

heart. It

> is true that as old traumas are reopened as we open our breath and

heart

> focus to them that we now have this actual responsibility to fully

let

> it go. Cry it out, freak out, whatever. It's now there in front of

you

> to finally acknowledge completely and drop. It will gone forever. I

see

> the image of a small running around a playground who falls, skins

his

> knee and cries really loud, sobbing. Five minutes you look around

and

> he/she is back at the same activity as before. Totally open and

> beautiful again. The pain, like the rain, came and went.....and now

the

> sun is shining again. Innocence has returned.

>

> Gotta run.

> All Blessings.

> Dharam Singh

> Millis, MA

>

>

>

> dobromatic wrote:

>

> >Sat Nam Sarbjot Kaur,

> >

> >I had this happen in a 90 day meditation many years ago. I missed

> >the 89th day. My husband and I had gone out for a hike, I was

> >totally wiped out and fell asleep. I woke up the next morning and

> >experienced something like what you describe below (although not

500

> >days in!!). I actually wrote the Siri Singh Sahib/Yogi Bhajan

about

> >it and asked him what I should do. He said " Start over and do it

> >honestly. Report back to me when you have completed it. " . Yogi

> >Bhajan often said different things to different people at various

> >times. So, Dharam gave the input below from what he had heard

(start

> >back up within 72 hours). What he conveyed below is definitely a

> >great attitude. All I ever heard directly about missing a day is

> >what was personally communicated to me by Yogi Bhajan when I

missed a

> >day. So...in your best consciousness, take it all in and go with

it!

> >

> >Blessings,

> >

> >Dev Suroop Kaur

> >

> >Kundalini-Yoga , D h a r a m <pran.108@>

> >wrote:

> >

> >

> >>Sat Nam Sarbjot Kaur,

> >> Kinda late in my input to your question but someone will

benefit

> >>

> >>

> >from

> >

> >

> >>this info. I have heard from a very, very reliable Yogiji source

> >>

> >>

> >that as

> >

> >

> >>long as you pick it back up again within 72 hours the energy is

> >>

> >>

> >still

> >

> >

> >>with you and you're fine. Now don't everyone go out and start

> >>

> >>

> >blowing

> >

> >

> >>off their routines for 71 hours.

> >>It's your sincerity to the effort, willingness to process

whatever

> >>

> >>

> >comes

> >

> >

> >>up and the discipline to then integrate the new found openings

into

> >>

> >>

> >your

> >

> >

> >>day to day consciousness that matter much more than that 1,000

day

> >>

> >>

> >figure.

> >

> >

> >>Keep you heart open!

> >>Sat Nam,

> >>Dharam

> >>Millis, MA

> >>

> >>claire hallereau wrote:

> >>

> >>

> >

> >

>

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