[MountainLight] need help too!

[Guest guest]

Dear raven cross,

 

If your girlfriend is on a path of self destruction because of issues in her

past, it's usually because the person has never really dealt with their

issues and her hurting you is a manifestation of how she feels inside. Sounds

like shes trying to make you feel as " out of control " as she feels. (I'm sure

that your aware of this)

If this is continually gotton worse and worse then you might visualize it as a

sliver, when it's deep in and you just try to forget about it and it gets

swollen and hurts and eventually will boil up and finally have to explode to

release itself.

Sounds like the boil is forming for her right now.

I will send healing energy's to her and I will send vibrations of stability to

you to help you keep your feet on the ground (to help when emotional blows are

sent to knock you off your feet). Alsohave you tried to tell her that lies

build up wall's to seperate (is she aware of what she is doing) Also, it

sounds like she may feel like she isn't really being heard mabey you guy's

could talk and just let her do the talking without being interupted.

All right sorry if I got to into your business.

I'm sending love to your core (both of yours)

and big yellow smilie faces

Have a good day

Peace Aimee Spencer

[Guest guest]

Dear One ;

That is a very good description of what I feel is happening. Yes, she

knows the lies separate, and I believe she is doing all of this as a

protective device - how can she be hurt while everyone else is knocked

totally off balance kind of approach - not the right way to handle it,

of course. When I try to let her talk without interrupting, she lies,

contradicts herself, blames me for everything, speaks in ambiguous

terms, tries to take stabs at me, or simply wont say anything at all.

BTW - you can get in my business anytime - that is why I asked for help.

 

Thank You &

Oneness

 

 

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ChldofGod4

Wed, 16 Dec 1998 12:52:15 EST

 

Reply-to:

Re: [MountainLight] Re: need help too!

 

ChldofGod4

 

Dear raven cross,

 

If your girlfriend is on a path of self destruction because of issues in

her

past, it's usually because the person has never really dealt with their

issues and her hurting you is a manifestation of how she feels inside.

Sounds

like shes trying to make you feel as " out of control " as she feels.

(I'm sure

that your aware of this)

If this is continually gotton worse and worse then you might visualize

it as a

sliver, when it's deep in and you just try to forget about it and it

gets

swollen and hurts and eventually will boil up and finally have to

explode to

release itself.

Sounds like the boil is forming for her right now.

I will send healing energy's to her and I will send vibrations of

stability to

you to help you keep your feet on the ground (to help when emotional

blows are

sent to knock you off your feet). Alsohave you tried to tell her that

lies

build up wall's to seperate (is she aware of what she is doing) Also,

it

sounds like she may feel like she isn't really being heard mabey you

guy's

could talk and just let her do the talking without being interupted.

All right sorry if I got to into your business.

I'm sending love to your core (both of yours)

and big yellow smilie faces

Have a good day

Peace Aimee Spencer

 

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