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Namaste Dear Kumari and all family: I am so glad you read and absorbed

my comments in the same manner I wrote them: with all love and

respect for you and your belowed and the path which you are traveling.

As Maa tells us over and over, " We are all One Soul, and as we raise

another, we raise ourselves. "

Learning any puja is a great undertaking, because it focuses our

attention on the Divine. It brings us such huge value. With prolonged

practice, one is able to rise up from the puja, and begin to see the

Divine in everything. I learned the Beginner Shiva puja by reading it

in English and practicing the offerings to a stone I found at a lake.

That stone became Shiva to me, and as I understood how those words

related to my being, and the deep significance of the mantras, I was

able to begin reading them slowly in the transliteration form. Over

time, I was able to memorize them, and now I can chant the entire

Beginner puja by heart.

After sometime, I obtained a large very lifelike murti of Shiva

sitting in lotus posture. He is placed in a position on my altar

where I can look Him in the eyes while I chant, even offer directly

to His feet.

This lifelike murti has helped to deepen my experience during puja,

and relate more deeply to both the " human " and " divine " aspects of

Shiva as the Consciousness of Infinite Goodness.

To experience " Infinite Goodness " , both in the gross world of objects

and relationships, and in the subtle world of the heart: that is a

goal worthy of a lifetime of study and practice. And so we pray to

Maa and Swami for their help whenever we begin puja, for they have

gone before us, and cleared the way of many obstacles, and left

signposts to guide us.

What a blessing to have them with us.

 

I am glad that you are sharing your feelings with your beloved. Maa

and Swami teach us that living a spiritual life together and mutually

supporting each other to achieve our highest ideal of perfection, is

the sole purpose for joining as husband and wife, so understanding the

deepest forces and needs and desires of each other before marriage

really allows a couple to begin their sacred journey together from the

highest level possible.

It was many years into our marriage before my wife and I really

understood and truthfully communicated our deepest desires and goals

to each other, and it only occurred at the prodding of Maa and Swami.

How grateful we are to them for their loving support and guidance.

I pray that every couple planning to marry could have a meeting with

Maa and Swami. It would change their life.

Thanks for sharing your journey with me and our family here. It is

with the deepest respect and love that I try to bring the essence of

Maa and Swami's teaching to bear on the problems and dramas we all

face every day. If even one word touches someone's heart, and they

turn to Maa and Swami for help, and dig more deeply into sacred study,

then Maa and Swami have surely spoken through me, and for that I am

thankful, and say " JAI MAA "

 

Jai Ma Jai Swami

 

vishweshwar

 

 

, " mjfisher2005 " <mjfisher2005

wrote:

>

> Namaste Vish:

>

> Thank you for answering me. It is refrshing to have someone answer

> me at length. I appreciate your serious response and the thought you

> put behind it.

>

> 1. You have actually answered a question I had before I asked it.

> What a wonderful coincidence if coincidence it is. I have the

> beginner Shiva puja text. I feel as though I am gaining familiarity

> with it, although I am not quite there yet. I do Shiva puja at least

> once a week along with other pujas that I do regularly. Very, very

> simply at this point, almost completely learning on my own, with only

> the text to guide me.

>

> The cd with Swamiji chanting the puja would be very helpful to me at

> this point. That was my question. " How do I know I am pronouncing

> the mantras and intoning them correctly? " I hate to do a less than

> competent job of it. I will certainly place an order for the Shiva

> Puja cd at once.

>

> My body will not allow me to sit in a lotus pose at this point. But

> I will practice sitting on the floor so that I will have a firm

> seat. I will do as much as I can and may the Lord and Lady be

> forgiving of my weakness.

>

> At this point I am narrowing my focus to Shiva. Divne Mother is

> always included in that attitude, but I do believe as you have

> mentioned that I need the firm determination of Mahadev in my life,

> to be strong in vows. This means the overhauling of my life and I am

> in the process of doing that. I believe this will make me ready for

> the highest love that I can express and receive. This is vital,

> because I have failed before and only the will to love will correct

> the faults in me that caused my past relationships to fail.

>

> 2. Very slowly I am introducing the concepts of sadhana to my

> beloved. I do not need to justify my relationship to you, with all

> due respect. But your points are taken. There are several reasons

> why I am going slowly with introducing him to the concepts of my

> religious path. But introducing him, I am. He is well aware of

> my " interest " in India and it's spritual paths. I have told him of

> key concepts and spoken to him of the mythology. He has seen my

> shrine and I have not hesitated to practice my pujas and meditation

> when I am with him. He has agreed to have a homa fire sacrifice for

> our wedding as well as a civic ceremony. He treats my beliefs with

> respect and he has an inkling of what a divine relationship between

> us could be. He knows about Swamiji and Shree Maa and I believe he

> has visited the web site. Further than that I cannot go at this

> point. We do live physically far away from each other - your

> intuition must be functioning 100%, dear Vish - it is in the living

> as a couple that these things will play out. But I will always see

> him as Shiva in my heart, no matter what happens.

>

> I will continue to pray for guidance and continue the hard work of

> overhauling my life. I have utmost respect for Swamiji and Shree

> Maa, they are my examples that I can hardly hope to aspire to.

>

> Om Jai Kali Ma! Om Namah Shivaya!

> Kumari

>

> , " inspectionconnection108 "

> <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> >

> > Namaste Kumari and all family: You touch upon several different,

> yet

> > inter-related topics. Let's review one at a time:

> > 1. learning Shiva puja: there is a Beginner Shiva puja text, and a

> CD

> > with Swami chanting all the mantras, which contains all the core

> > practices, as well as His 108 names, and aarti. It is a great place

> > to begin one's practice. It takes about 30 minutes to perform puja

> > and aarti, once one learns the mantras. It is easy to memorize too,

> > because it uses shorter mantras for the offerings and the mantras of

> > His meditation are much shorter. Once one familiarizes oneself with

> > the basic sections and their meanings, one can build upon those

> > building blocks, and add sections and mantras from the Advanced

> Shiva

> > Puja text. For example, the offering mantras for a beginner: milk,

> > yogurt, water, sugar water, etc., are much shorter. When one is

> > ready, insert the longer mantras from the Advanced text. Same for

> the

> > meditation of Shiva. Then one can add entire sections, building a

> > longer and longer puja. For example, add Shiva Kavach, then add

> > " establishing the pot " , etc.

> > Start simple, become so familiar with the puja that it flows, and

> one

> > can really establish a relationship with Him, and not with the

> book.

> > At the same time, work to lengthen your asan, your position while

> > performing puja. Sit in the lotus, or 1/2 lotus, with back erect.

> Do

> > not break your asan, keeping knees and rear end on the floor during

> > the entire puja. Then, when you can sit in this asan perfectly,

> > extend the lenght of time, 5 minutes a month. As you increase the

> > time you sit in an asan, increase the time you perform puja.

> > In this model, you are training mind and body together. Both must

> be

> > disciplined in order to achieve maximum results.

> > 2. your relationship with your beloved: With all respect to you and

> > your beloved, you write about him as if he is a stranger: someone

> you

> > love from afar, someone you would like to know better, but are

> afraid

> > to speak your mind and heart to. In " BEFORE BECOMING THIS " , Maa and

> > Swami teach that both parties must discuss and create mutually

> agreed

> > upon goals so that there is a unity of purpose, so that both your

> > energies, your entire being, is focused in unison, to strive towards

> > common goals. It seems premature to think about literally

> worshiping

> > his feet when you are unsure if he even feels the same way about

> > spirituality as you.

> > There is much to talk about with your beloved before you discuss

> > performing puja to him. Consider giving him a copy of BEFORE

> BECOMING

> > THIS, and then begin discussing it with him, one chapter at a time.

> > If he is comfortable with those ideas, introduce him to the Mandir

> web

> > site, and show him a video of Maa singing, and Swami teaching a

> class

> > on Shiva puja. Be gentle and kind, and give him every chance to

> > question and understand these ideas and concepts which mean so much

> to

> > you. Do not rush him. Allow him the space to integrate these ideas

> > into his world view, and constantly tell him you love him as he is,

> > not how you wish him to be.

> > See Shiva in him now, as he is. And love him and support him, and

> > nuture him as Mother Divine supports Shiva.

> > That will be your puja. Puja is a way of life, not just sitting and

> > doing mantras in front of an image of Shiva, or a lingum, on an

> altar.

> > Puja is a focused act, with the intention of becoming closer and

> > closer to the object of attention. You wish to become one with your

> > beloved, then, you must learn all about him, his likes and dislikes,

> > and his goals and aspirations, then, work to help him manifest

> them.

> > That is your puja, that is the puja of a devoted wife for her

> husband.

> > If you share the same goals and aspirations, then he will want to

> > return the loving energy you show him. He will want to make you

> > happy, and satisfy your needs and desires. He will want to perform

> > puja to you in the same manner which you do to him.

> > And, maybe one day, you will both perform puja to each other's feet.

> > This will happen when you have total harmony of purpose, and you

> long

> > to really express your deepest love and respect for each other, and

> > help each other manifest your true divinity.

> > Have high hopes, and share them with your beloved. And really

> listen

> > and respect his highest goals.

> > A marriage is a lifelong journey. Every step together brings growth

> > and knowledge and opens the heart. If you share the same goals and

> > aspirations, then you can truly have a " Marriage Made in Heaven " .

> > Isn't that a goal worth manifesting?

> >

> > Please understand, I have been married 30+ years, and did not have

> the

> > benefit of this knowledge when me were first married. We made many

> > misteps, and took many detours along our path, but once we met Maa

> and

> > Swami, and they guided us talking about our needs and goals, only

> then

> > did we really begin to grow as a team, and begin to understand that

> we

> > are really one soul, never to be parted.

> > Pray to Maa and Swami, Mother Divine and Lord Shiva, for guidance,

> and

> > they will surely respond. Look into the eyes of your beloved, and

> > look for Shiva, surely you will find Him there.

> >

> > Jai Maa Jai Swami

> >

> > vishweshwar

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > , " mjfisher2005 " <mjfisher2005@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > Dear Vish:

> > >

> > > Thank you for your support. This is a big task (learning the

> Shiva

> > > Puja), but my desire to do so is strong. Ma Kali and Mahadeva

> are

> > > very important to me. They are the pattern of male/female

> > > relationships as well as the pattern of the universe and what

> lies

> > > beyond. This is what attracts me to Swamiji and Shree Maa as

> well,

> > > they are exemplifying this pattern on a high level as well. I

> hope I

> > > am up to the task.

> > >

> > > One thing concerns me, though. I have offered puja to my

> beloved's

> > > picture but not to him directly. I am afraid when it comes time

> to

> > > introduce this idea to him, that if I do worship him it will

> increase

> > > his ego. Also, then should I expect him to worship me in a

> similar

> > > manner as Divine Mother? Would that help to balance things

> out? I

> > > would love to practice sadhana with him, but I respect him enough

> as

> > > an individual to not get my hopes up too high.

> > >

> > > Om Jai Ma Kali! Om Namaha Shivaya!

> > > Kumari

> > >

> > > , " inspectionconnection108 "

> > > <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Namaste Kumari and all: what a great goal. The worship of

> Shiva is

> > > > wonderful and fulfilling. In Maa and Swami's book, BEFORE

> BECOMING

> > > > THIS, they state that performing Shiva puja makes one more

> resolute,

> > > > and strong, and able to fulfill sankalpas because Shiva is Lord

> of

> > > > Sankalpa. It also helps one to see the intrinsic nature of

> creation

> > > > rather than just the surface transient nature of relative

> existence.

> > > > When one worships one's husband as Lord Shiva, literally

> performing

> > > > puja to his feet, one enlivens those qualities in him and helps

> one

> > > to

> > > > see those qualities in him.

> > > > I have been doing Shiva puja daily for 10 years, and it has

> changed

> > > my

> > > > life. Maa suggested to me that memorizing parts of the puja,

> such

> > > as

> > > > the offerings, is a great way to strengthen one's practice and

> > > obtain

> > > > greater devotion.

> > > > As She and Swami state: it is better to look into the eyes of

> one's

> > > > beloved while worshiping them, instead of looking down at the

> book,

> > > > then up to their eyes, and back and forth, as one reads the

> > > mantras.

> > > > If one has them memorized, then one can stay focused on the

> eyes of

> > > > your beloved, and devotion and love will grow.

> > > > May Shiva and Maa and Swami bless you will pure devotion as you

> dive

> > > > deeply in Shiva, the Consciousness of Infinite Goodness.

> > > >

> > > > Jai Maa jai Swami

> > > >

> > > > vishweshwar

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > , " mjfisher2005 "

> <mjfisher2005@>

> > > > wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > I have no doubt that the sadhana being practiced now in India

> is

> > > having

> > > > > positive and wonderful effects. I have commenced reading the

> > > Kashyapa

> > > > > Sutras from the Guru and the Goddess and I cannot even say

> how

> > > deeply

> > > > > and profoundly this is effecting me. My relationships with

> my

> > > family

> > > > > and my fiance are only getting better. I have made mention

> to my

> > > > > fiance that I consider us both to be expressions of Divine

> force

> > > and

> > > > > this seemed to please him very much. So there is a

> sacramental

> > > > > dimension to our relationship which I will tend and watch

> grow

> > > with

> > > > > happiness. I am also taking up the study of the Advanced

> Shiva

> > > Puja

> > > > > section by section, reading aloud first each verse in

> Sanskrit

> > > and then

> > > > > English, then a whole section in Sanskrit and then in

> English,

> > > English

> > > > > only and then Sanskrit only. My goal is to have enough

> > > familiarity

> > > > > with the puja to be able to offer complete worship to Shiva

> at

> > > > > MahaShiva Ratri next year. I ask for Swamiji's and Shree

> Maa's

> > > blessing

> > > > > that I may be able to attain this goal. Even if I cannot,

> the

> > > good

> > > > > effects from chanting and studying will stay with me, I am

> sure.

> > > So,

> > > > > in my small way I am trying to reflect the sadhana going on

> in

> > > India.

> > > > >

> > > > > Om Jai Kali Ma! Om namah Shivaya!

> > > > > Kumari

> > > > >

> > > > > , " inspectionconnection108 "

> > > > > <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Namaste all family: this is a most powerful time in our

> > > world. Maa

> > > > > > and Swami and our family in India are deep in sadhana. We

> at

> > > the

> > > > > > Mandir in Napa, California feel the effects of their

> sadhana

> > > and are

> > > > > > trying to do as much sadhana as possible to be in harmony

> with

> > > Maa and

> > > > > > Swami. FEEL THE MAGIC, close your eyes and sink into the

> love

> > > and

> > > > > > sweetness of Your Self.

> > > > > > The world needs this wave of love to envelop all and

> everyone.

> > > So,

> > > > > > let's give our best and pray for peace in this Universe,

> and the

> > > > > > balance of too much and too little.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Jai Maa Jai Swami

> > > > > >

> > > > > > vishweshwar

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

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Vish, I take your remarks and questioning as gentle reminders of a

respected older brother. I need them to keep me on the right path.

The more that I read about Swamiji and Maa, the more that I am amazed

and delightled. In a much greater degree they have what I used to

call " India love " which has so recently been reawakened in me. It is

not just that Swamiji is learned and knows the scriptures and the

rituals and the spiritual traditions - which he does. The absolutely

amazing and awe inspiring thing is that he flings open the door and

shares it with everyone. It is not just that Shree Maa is a

spiritual beacon who lives with the Deities all the time. She is

here with us, now! It totally blows me away. And then there are the

devotees here in this group who make me feel welcome and valued.

This a rare opportunity of many lifetimes of which I intend to take

the most advantage that I can. Not only are the things I love being

discussed here, but I feel at home here. Many pranams to you all and

to Shree Maa and Swamiji.

 

Om Jai Kali Ma! Om Namah Shivaya!

Kumari

 

 

, " inspectionconnection108 "

<inspectionconnection108 wrote:

>

> Namaste Dear Kumari and all family: I am so glad you read and

absorbed

> my comments in the same manner I wrote them: with all love and

> respect for you and your belowed and the path which you are

traveling.

> As Maa tells us over and over, " We are all One Soul, and as we raise

> another, we raise ourselves. "

> Learning any puja is a great undertaking, because it focuses our

> attention on the Divine. It brings us such huge value. With

prolonged

> practice, one is able to rise up from the puja, and begin to see the

> Divine in everything. I learned the Beginner Shiva puja by reading

it

> in English and practicing the offerings to a stone I found at a

lake.

> That stone became Shiva to me, and as I understood how those words

> related to my being, and the deep significance of the mantras, I was

> able to begin reading them slowly in the transliteration form. Over

> time, I was able to memorize them, and now I can chant the entire

> Beginner puja by heart.

> After sometime, I obtained a large very lifelike murti of Shiva

> sitting in lotus posture. He is placed in a position on my altar

> where I can look Him in the eyes while I chant, even offer directly

> to His feet.

> This lifelike murti has helped to deepen my experience during puja,

> and relate more deeply to both the " human " and " divine " aspects of

> Shiva as the Consciousness of Infinite Goodness.

> To experience " Infinite Goodness " , both in the gross world of

objects

> and relationships, and in the subtle world of the heart: that is a

> goal worthy of a lifetime of study and practice. And so we pray to

> Maa and Swami for their help whenever we begin puja, for they have

> gone before us, and cleared the way of many obstacles, and left

> signposts to guide us.

> What a blessing to have them with us.

>

> I am glad that you are sharing your feelings with your beloved. Maa

> and Swami teach us that living a spiritual life together and

mutually

> supporting each other to achieve our highest ideal of perfection, is

> the sole purpose for joining as husband and wife, so understanding

the

> deepest forces and needs and desires of each other before marriage

> really allows a couple to begin their sacred journey together from

the

> highest level possible.

> It was many years into our marriage before my wife and I really

> understood and truthfully communicated our deepest desires and goals

> to each other, and it only occurred at the prodding of Maa and

Swami.

> How grateful we are to them for their loving support and guidance.

> I pray that every couple planning to marry could have a meeting with

> Maa and Swami. It would change their life.

> Thanks for sharing your journey with me and our family here. It is

> with the deepest respect and love that I try to bring the essence of

> Maa and Swami's teaching to bear on the problems and dramas we all

> face every day. If even one word touches someone's heart, and they

> turn to Maa and Swami for help, and dig more deeply into sacred

study,

> then Maa and Swami have surely spoken through me, and for that I am

> thankful, and say " JAI MAA "

>

> Jai Ma Jai Swami

>

> vishweshwar

>

>

> , " mjfisher2005 " <mjfisher2005@>

> wrote:

> >

> > Namaste Vish:

> >

> > Thank you for answering me. It is refrshing to have someone

answer

> > me at length. I appreciate your serious response and the thought

you

> > put behind it.

> >

> > 1. You have actually answered a question I had before I asked

it.

> > What a wonderful coincidence if coincidence it is. I have the

> > beginner Shiva puja text. I feel as though I am gaining

familiarity

> > with it, although I am not quite there yet. I do Shiva puja at

least

> > once a week along with other pujas that I do regularly. Very,

very

> > simply at this point, almost completely learning on my own, with

only

> > the text to guide me.

> >

> > The cd with Swamiji chanting the puja would be very helpful to me

at

> > this point. That was my question. " How do I know I am

pronouncing

> > the mantras and intoning them correctly? " I hate to do a less

than

> > competent job of it. I will certainly place an order for the

Shiva

> > Puja cd at once.

> >

> > My body will not allow me to sit in a lotus pose at this point.

But

> > I will practice sitting on the floor so that I will have a firm

> > seat. I will do as much as I can and may the Lord and Lady be

> > forgiving of my weakness.

> >

> > At this point I am narrowing my focus to Shiva. Divne Mother is

> > always included in that attitude, but I do believe as you have

> > mentioned that I need the firm determination of Mahadev in my

life,

> > to be strong in vows. This means the overhauling of my life and

I am

> > in the process of doing that. I believe this will make me ready

for

> > the highest love that I can express and receive. This is vital,

> > because I have failed before and only the will to love will

correct

> > the faults in me that caused my past relationships to fail.

> >

> > 2. Very slowly I am introducing the concepts of sadhana to my

> > beloved. I do not need to justify my relationship to you, with

all

> > due respect. But your points are taken. There are several

reasons

> > why I am going slowly with introducing him to the concepts of my

> > religious path. But introducing him, I am. He is well aware of

> > my " interest " in India and it's spritual paths. I have told him

of

> > key concepts and spoken to him of the mythology. He has seen my

> > shrine and I have not hesitated to practice my pujas and

meditation

> > when I am with him. He has agreed to have a homa fire sacrifice

for

> > our wedding as well as a civic ceremony. He treats my beliefs

with

> > respect and he has an inkling of what a divine relationship

between

> > us could be. He knows about Swamiji and Shree Maa and I believe

he

> > has visited the web site. Further than that I cannot go at this

> > point. We do live physically far away from each other - your

> > intuition must be functioning 100%, dear Vish - it is in the

living

> > as a couple that these things will play out. But I will always

see

> > him as Shiva in my heart, no matter what happens.

> >

> > I will continue to pray for guidance and continue the hard work

of

> > overhauling my life. I have utmost respect for Swamiji and Shree

> > Maa, they are my examples that I can hardly hope to aspire to.

> >

> > Om Jai Kali Ma! Om Namah Shivaya!

> > Kumari

> >

> > , " inspectionconnection108 "

> > <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Namaste Kumari and all family: You touch upon several

different,

> > yet

> > > inter-related topics. Let's review one at a time:

> > > 1. learning Shiva puja: there is a Beginner Shiva puja text,

and a

> > CD

> > > with Swami chanting all the mantras, which contains all the

core

> > > practices, as well as His 108 names, and aarti. It is a great

place

> > > to begin one's practice. It takes about 30 minutes to perform

puja

> > > and aarti, once one learns the mantras. It is easy to memorize

too,

> > > because it uses shorter mantras for the offerings and the

mantras of

> > > His meditation are much shorter. Once one familiarizes oneself

with

> > > the basic sections and their meanings, one can build upon those

> > > building blocks, and add sections and mantras from the Advanced

> > Shiva

> > > Puja text. For example, the offering mantras for a beginner:

milk,

> > > yogurt, water, sugar water, etc., are much shorter. When one is

> > > ready, insert the longer mantras from the Advanced text. Same

for

> > the

> > > meditation of Shiva. Then one can add entire sections, building

a

> > > longer and longer puja. For example, add Shiva Kavach, then add

> > > " establishing the pot " , etc.

> > > Start simple, become so familiar with the puja that it flows,

and

> > one

> > > can really establish a relationship with Him, and not with the

> > book.

> > > At the same time, work to lengthen your asan, your position

while

> > > performing puja. Sit in the lotus, or 1/2 lotus, with back

erect.

> > Do

> > > not break your asan, keeping knees and rear end on the floor

during

> > > the entire puja. Then, when you can sit in this asan perfectly,

> > > extend the lenght of time, 5 minutes a month. As you increase

the

> > > time you sit in an asan, increase the time you perform puja.

> > > In this model, you are training mind and body together. Both

must

> > be

> > > disciplined in order to achieve maximum results.

> > > 2. your relationship with your beloved: With all respect to

you and

> > > your beloved, you write about him as if he is a stranger:

someone

> > you

> > > love from afar, someone you would like to know better, but are

> > afraid

> > > to speak your mind and heart to. In " BEFORE BECOMING THIS " ,

Maa and

> > > Swami teach that both parties must discuss and create mutually

> > agreed

> > > upon goals so that there is a unity of purpose, so that both

your

> > > energies, your entire being, is focused in unison, to strive

towards

> > > common goals. It seems premature to think about literally

> > worshiping

> > > his feet when you are unsure if he even feels the same way about

> > > spirituality as you.

> > > There is much to talk about with your beloved before you discuss

> > > performing puja to him. Consider giving him a copy of BEFORE

> > BECOMING

> > > THIS, and then begin discussing it with him, one chapter at a

time.

> > > If he is comfortable with those ideas, introduce him to the

Mandir

> > web

> > > site, and show him a video of Maa singing, and Swami teaching a

> > class

> > > on Shiva puja. Be gentle and kind, and give him every chance to

> > > question and understand these ideas and concepts which mean so

much

> > to

> > > you. Do not rush him. Allow him the space to integrate these

ideas

> > > into his world view, and constantly tell him you love him as he

is,

> > > not how you wish him to be.

> > > See Shiva in him now, as he is. And love him and support him,

and

> > > nuture him as Mother Divine supports Shiva.

> > > That will be your puja. Puja is a way of life, not just

sitting and

> > > doing mantras in front of an image of Shiva, or a lingum, on an

> > altar.

> > > Puja is a focused act, with the intention of becoming closer and

> > > closer to the object of attention. You wish to become one with

your

> > > beloved, then, you must learn all about him, his likes and

dislikes,

> > > and his goals and aspirations, then, work to help him manifest

> > them.

> > > That is your puja, that is the puja of a devoted wife for her

> > husband.

> > > If you share the same goals and aspirations, then he will want

to

> > > return the loving energy you show him. He will want to make you

> > > happy, and satisfy your needs and desires. He will want to

perform

> > > puja to you in the same manner which you do to him.

> > > And, maybe one day, you will both perform puja to each other's

feet.

> > > This will happen when you have total harmony of purpose, and

you

> > long

> > > to really express your deepest love and respect for each other,

and

> > > help each other manifest your true divinity.

> > > Have high hopes, and share them with your beloved. And really

> > listen

> > > and respect his highest goals.

> > > A marriage is a lifelong journey. Every step together brings

growth

> > > and knowledge and opens the heart. If you share the same goals

and

> > > aspirations, then you can truly have a " Marriage Made in

Heaven " .

> > > Isn't that a goal worth manifesting?

> > >

> > > Please understand, I have been married 30+ years, and did not

have

> > the

> > > benefit of this knowledge when me were first married. We made

many

> > > misteps, and took many detours along our path, but once we met

Maa

> > and

> > > Swami, and they guided us talking about our needs and goals,

only

> > then

> > > did we really begin to grow as a team, and begin to understand

that

> > we

> > > are really one soul, never to be parted.

> > > Pray to Maa and Swami, Mother Divine and Lord Shiva, for

guidance,

> > and

> > > they will surely respond. Look into the eyes of your beloved,

and

> > > look for Shiva, surely you will find Him there.

> > >

> > > Jai Maa Jai Swami

> > >

> > > vishweshwar

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > , " mjfisher2005 "

<mjfisher2005@>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Dear Vish:

> > > >

> > > > Thank you for your support. This is a big task (learning the

> > Shiva

> > > > Puja), but my desire to do so is strong. Ma Kali and

Mahadeva

> > are

> > > > very important to me. They are the pattern of male/female

> > > > relationships as well as the pattern of the universe and what

> > lies

> > > > beyond. This is what attracts me to Swamiji and Shree Maa as

> > well,

> > > > they are exemplifying this pattern on a high level as well.

I

> > hope I

> > > > am up to the task.

> > > >

> > > > One thing concerns me, though. I have offered puja to my

> > beloved's

> > > > picture but not to him directly. I am afraid when it comes

time

> > to

> > > > introduce this idea to him, that if I do worship him it will

> > increase

> > > > his ego. Also, then should I expect him to worship me in a

> > similar

> > > > manner as Divine Mother? Would that help to balance things

> > out? I

> > > > would love to practice sadhana with him, but I respect him

enough

> > as

> > > > an individual to not get my hopes up too high.

> > > >

> > > > Om Jai Ma Kali! Om Namaha Shivaya!

> > > > Kumari

> > > >

> > > > , " inspectionconnection108 "

> > > > <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Namaste Kumari and all: what a great goal. The worship of

> > Shiva is

> > > > > wonderful and fulfilling. In Maa and Swami's book, BEFORE

> > BECOMING

> > > > > THIS, they state that performing Shiva puja makes one more

> > resolute,

> > > > > and strong, and able to fulfill sankalpas because Shiva is

Lord

> > of

> > > > > Sankalpa. It also helps one to see the intrinsic nature of

> > creation

> > > > > rather than just the surface transient nature of relative

> > existence.

> > > > > When one worships one's husband as Lord Shiva, literally

> > performing

> > > > > puja to his feet, one enlivens those qualities in him and

helps

> > one

> > > > to

> > > > > see those qualities in him.

> > > > > I have been doing Shiva puja daily for 10 years, and it has

> > changed

> > > > my

> > > > > life. Maa suggested to me that memorizing parts of the

puja,

> > such

> > > > as

> > > > > the offerings, is a great way to strengthen one's practice

and

> > > > obtain

> > > > > greater devotion.

> > > > > As She and Swami state: it is better to look into the eyes

of

> > one's

> > > > > beloved while worshiping them, instead of looking down at

the

> > book,

> > > > > then up to their eyes, and back and forth, as one reads the

> > > > mantras.

> > > > > If one has them memorized, then one can stay focused on the

> > eyes of

> > > > > your beloved, and devotion and love will grow.

> > > > > May Shiva and Maa and Swami bless you will pure devotion as

you

> > dive

> > > > > deeply in Shiva, the Consciousness of Infinite Goodness.

> > > > >

> > > > > Jai Maa jai Swami

> > > > >

> > > > > vishweshwar

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > , " mjfisher2005 "

> > <mjfisher2005@>

> > > > > wrote:

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I have no doubt that the sadhana being practiced now in

India

> > is

> > > > having

> > > > > > positive and wonderful effects. I have commenced reading

the

> > > > Kashyapa

> > > > > > Sutras from the Guru and the Goddess and I cannot even

say

> > how

> > > > deeply

> > > > > > and profoundly this is effecting me. My relationships

with

> > my

> > > > family

> > > > > > and my fiance are only getting better. I have made

mention

> > to my

> > > > > > fiance that I consider us both to be expressions of

Divine

> > force

> > > > and

> > > > > > this seemed to please him very much. So there is a

> > sacramental

> > > > > > dimension to our relationship which I will tend and watch

> > grow

> > > > with

> > > > > > happiness. I am also taking up the study of the Advanced

> > Shiva

> > > > Puja

> > > > > > section by section, reading aloud first each verse in

> > Sanskrit

> > > > and then

> > > > > > English, then a whole section in Sanskrit and then in

> > English,

> > > > English

> > > > > > only and then Sanskrit only. My goal is to have enough

> > > > familiarity

> > > > > > with the puja to be able to offer complete worship to

Shiva

> > at

> > > > > > MahaShiva Ratri next year. I ask for Swamiji's and Shree

> > Maa's

> > > > blessing

> > > > > > that I may be able to attain this goal. Even if I

cannot,

> > the

> > > > good

> > > > > > effects from chanting and studying will stay with me, I

am

> > sure.

> > > > So,

> > > > > > in my small way I am trying to reflect the sadhana going

on

> > in

> > > > India.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Om Jai Kali Ma! Om namah Shivaya!

> > > > > > Kumari

> > > > > >

> > > > > > --- In

, " inspectionconnection108 "

> > > > > > <inspectionconnection108@> wrote:

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Namaste all family: this is a most powerful time in

our

> > > > world. Maa

> > > > > > > and Swami and our family in India are deep in sadhana.

We

> > at

> > > > the

> > > > > > > Mandir in Napa, California feel the effects of their

> > sadhana

> > > > and are

> > > > > > > trying to do as much sadhana as possible to be in

harmony

> > with

> > > > Maa and

> > > > > > > Swami. FEEL THE MAGIC, close your eyes and sink into

the

> > love

> > > > and

> > > > > > > sweetness of Your Self.

> > > > > > > The world needs this wave of love to envelop all and

> > everyone.

> > > > So,

> > > > > > > let's give our best and pray for peace in this

Universe,

> > and the

> > > > > > > balance of too much and too little.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Jai Maa Jai Swami

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > vishweshwar

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

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