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God has always been planning things for me'

July 28, 2008

Shobha Warrier

 

 

 

Naga Naresh

Karutura has just passed out of IIT Madras in Computer Science and has joined

Google in Bangalore.

 

 

 

You may ask, what's so special about this

21-year-old when there are hundreds of students passing out from various IITs

and joining big companies like Google?

Naresh is special. His parents are

illiterate. He has no legs and moves around in his powered wheel chair. (In

fact, when I could not locate his lab, he told me over the mobile phone, 'I

will come and pick you up'. And in no time, he was there to guide me)

Ever smiling, optimistic and full of

spirit; that is Naresh. He says, "God has always been planning things for

me. That is why I feel I am lucky."

Read why Naresh feels he is lucky.

Childhood in a village

I spent the first seven years of my life in Teeparru, a small village in Andhra

Pradesh, on the banks of the river Godavari. My

father Prasad was a lorry driver and my mother Kumari, a house wife. Though

they were illiterate, my parents instilled in me and my elder sister (Sirisha)

the importance of studying.

Looking back, one thing that surprises me

now is the way my father taught me when I was in the 1st and 2nd standards. My

father would ask me questions from the text book, and I would answer them. At

that time, I didn't know he could not read or write but to make me happy, he

helped me in my studies!

Another memory that doesn't go away is

the floods in the village and how I was carried on top of a buffalo by my

uncle. I also remember plucking fruits from a tree that was full of thorns.

I used to be very naughty, running around

and playing all the time with my friends. I used to get a lot of scolding for

disturbing the elders who slept in the afternoon. The moment they started

scolding, I would run away to the fields!

I also remember finishing my school work

fast in class and sleeping on the teacher's lap!

January 11, 1993, the fateful day

On the January 11, 1993 when we had the sankranti holidays, my mother took my

sister and me to a nearby village for a family function. From there we were to

go with our grandmother to our native place. But my grandmother did not come

there. As there were no buses that day, my mother took a lift in my father's

friend's lorry. As there were many people in the lorry, he made me sit next to

him, close to the door.

It was my fault; I fiddled with the door

latch and it opened wide throwing me out. As I fell, my legs got cut by the

iron rods protruding from the lorry. Nothing happened to me except scratches on

my legs.

The accident had happened just in front

of a big private hospital but they refused to treat me saying it was an

accident case. Then a police constable who was passing by took us to a

government hospital.

First I underwent an operation as my

small intestine got twisted. The doctors also bandaged my legs. I was there for

a week. When the doctors found that gangrene had developed and it had reached

up to my knees, they asked my father to take me to a district hospital. There,

the doctors scolded my parents a lot for neglecting the wounds and allowing the

gangrene to develop. But what could my ignorant parents do?

In no time, both my legs were amputated

up to the hips.

I remember waking up and asking my

mother, where are my legs? I also remember that my mother cried when I asked

the question. I was in the hospital for three months.

Life without legs

I don't think my life changed dramatically after I lost both my legs. Because

all at home were doting on me, I was enjoying all the attention rather than

pitying myself. I was happy that I got a lot of fruits and biscuits.

 

'I never wallowed in self-pity'

July 28, 2008

 

 

 

The day I

reached my village, my house was flooded with curious people; all of them

wanted to know how a boy without legs looked. But I was not bothered; I was happy

to see so many of them coming to see me, especially my friends!

 

 

 

All my friends saw to it that I was part

of all the games they played; they carried me everywhere.

God's hand

I believe in God. I believe in destiny. I feel he plans everything for you. If

not for the accident, we would not have moved from the village to Tanuku, a

town. There I joined a missionary school, and my father built a house next to

the school. Till the tenth standard, I studied in that school.

If I had continued in Teeparu, I may not

have studied after the 10th. I may have started working as a farmer or someone

like that after my studies. I am sure God had other plans for me.

My sister, my friend

When the school was about to reopen, my parents moved from Teeparu to Tanuku, a

town, and admitted both of us in a Missionary school. They decided to put my

sister also in the same class though she is two years older. They thought she

could take care of me if both of us were in the same class. My sister never

complained.

She would be there for everything. Many

of my friends used to tell me, you are so lucky to have such a loving sister.

There are many who do not care for their siblings.

She carried me in the school for a few

years and after a while, my friends took over the task. When I got the

tricycle, my sister used to push me around in the school.

My life, I would say, was normal, as

everyone treated me like a normal kid. I never wallowed in self-pity. I was a

happy boy and competed with others to be on top and the others also looked at

me as a competitor.

Inspiration

I was inspired by two people when in school; my Maths teacher Pramod Lal who

encouraged me to participate in various local talent tests, and a brilliant boy

called Chowdhary, who was my senior.

When I came to know that he had joined Gowtham Junior College to prepare for IIT-JEE,

it became my dream too. I was school first in 10th scoring 542/600

Because I topped in the state exams, Gowtham Junior College waived the fee for me.

Pramod Sir's recommendation also helped. The fee was around Rs 50,000 per year,

which my parents could never afford.

Moving to a residential school

Living in a residential school was a big change for me because till then my

life centred around home and school and I had my parents and sister to take

care of all my needs. It was the first time that I was interacting with

society. It took one year for me to adjust to the new life.

There, my inspiration was a boy called K

K S Bhaskar who was in the top 10 in IIT-JEE exams. He used to come to our

school to encourage us. Though my parents didn't know anything about Gowtham Junior School

or IIT, they always saw to it that I was encouraged in whatever I wanted to do.

If the results were good, they would praise me to the skies and if bad, they

would try to see something good in that. They did not want me to feel bad.

They are such wonderful supportive

parents.

Life at IIT- Madras

Though my overall rank in the IIT-JEE was not that great (992), I was 4th in

the physically handicapped category. So, I joined IIT, Madras to study Computer Science.

Here, my role model was Karthik who was

also my senior in school. I looked up to him during my years at IIT- Madras.

He had asked for attached bathrooms for

those with special needs before I came here itself. So, when I came here, the

room had attached bath. He used to help me and guide me a lot when I was here.

I evolved as a person in these four

years, both academically and personally. It has been a great experience

studying here. The people I was interacting with were so brilliant that I felt

privileged to sit along with them in the class. Just by speaking to my lab

mates, I gained a lot.

 

'There are more good people in society than bad ones'

July 28, 2008

 

 

 

Words are

inadequate to express my gratitude to Prof Pandurangan and all my lab mates;

all were simply great I was sent to Boston

along with four others for our internship by Prof Pandurangan. It was a great

experience.

 

 

 

Joining Google R & D

I did not want to pursue PhD as I wanted my parents to take rest now.

Morgan Stanley selected me first but I

preferred Google because I wanted to work in pure computer science, algorithms

and game theory.

I am lucky

Do you know why I say I am lucky?

I get help from total strangers without

me asking for it. Once after my second year at IIT, I with some of my friends

was travelling in a train for a conference. We met a kind gentleman called

Sundar in the train, and he has been taking care of my hostel fees from then

on.

I have to mention about Jaipur foot. I

had Jaipur foot when I was in 3rd standard. After two years, I stopped using

them. As I had almost no stems on my legs, it was very tough to tie them to the

body. I found walking with Jaipur foot very, very slow. Sitting also was a

problem. I found my tricycle faster because I am one guy who wants to do things

faster.

One great thing about the hospital is,

they don't think their role ends by just fixing the Jaipur foot; they arrange

for livelihood for all. They asked me what help I needed from them. I told them

at that time, if I got into an IIT, I needed financial help from them. So, from

the day I joined IIT, Madras,

my fees were taken care of by them. So, my education at the IIT was never a

burden on my parents and they could take care of my sister's Nursing studies.

Surprise awaited me at IIT

After my first year, when I went home, two things happened here at the

Institute without my knowledge.

I got a letter from my department that

they had arranged a lift and ramps at the department for me. It also said that

if I came a bit early and checked whether it met with my requirements, it would

be good.

Second surprise was, the Dean, Prof

Idichandy and the Students General Secretary, Prasad had located a place that

sold powered wheel chairs. The cost was Rs 55,000. What they did was, they did

not buy the wheel chair; they gave me the money so that the wheel chair

belonged to me and not the institute.

My life changed after that. I felt free

and independent.

That's why I say I am lucky. God has

planned things for me and takes care of me at every step.

The world is full of good people

I also feel if you are motivated and show some initiative, people around you

will always help you. I also feel there are more good people in society than

bad ones. I want all those who read this to feel that if Naresh can achieve

something in life, you can too.

 

"Every man is guilty of all the good he

did not do."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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