To Raja / so i have been wearing

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Namaste Raja,

 

13 mukhi attracts people and that includes the opposite sex to you

and also makes others see you in favorable light. Although it may

make women surround you, its up to you to select one that is right.

However this takes time. Girls have to kiss a lot of toads before

they can find a prince. Guys have to kiss and cuddle many ugly

ducklings before they can find a gem. Its also essential to be

proactive and go looking. Sitting at home to brood won't bring us

anything.

 

One thing about rudrakshas and karmas: rudrakshas are said to

cleanse past karmas. What had been done in zillions of past births

cannot be undone overnight or a couple of months, i.e. in the time

you've worn your beads. With unfathomable past karmas, it takes time

for rudrakshas to take the layers off, one by one.

 

As Sola Ji mentioned in his previous post, he doesn't use nor expect

rudrakshas to be magic bullets that deliver results right away. He

sits back and lets them reveal their blessings. This is the wisest

thing I've heard from anyone. When rudrakshas are respected like this

and remembered as being sacred beads of Lord Shiva, they sure will

help facilitate necessary changes and transformations with the

passage of time, mantra sadhana and healthy visualization.

 

Keep an open mind, be patient and continue to have faith and when you

least expect it, you'll find things moving along. Do you happen to

recite the relevant mantras each day or at least observe a mantra

sadhana for 90 days upon first wearing rudraksha? This is essential

for 'energizing' yourself to assimilate with energies of rudraksha.

 

About job-hunting, its also been discussed here several times where

members have been suggested to perform worship to Lord Ganesha and

doing his mantra: Om GuNg Ganapataye Namaha. Its worked for them

because they undertook puja. (Shukra or Lisa comes to mind right now

although she's not been around for a while. She unexpectedly got a

dream job in her dream city, according to her report.)

 

Of all deities, Ganesha is the closest to the human realm and hears

prayers quickly if He deems you are ready. Don't forget He is also

the Lord of Akashic Records and knows to bestow blessings when the

right time comes. You will be surprised that when blessings come,

they come in heaps. Then they stop. Then they come again. Tney are

like cycles of ups and downs in life. You've got to take the good

with the bad; surrender sometimes and count the blessings you already

have such as a roof over the head, food, clothing, etc.

 

Yes 12 mukhi helps with the Sun and self confidence. After a

lifetime of lack of confidence and general fear as well as fear of

death, it takes a while for the bead to generate qualities for

overcoming this fear. Once you know that birth and death are the

same sides of the coin you will fear.....less. Births give death.

Death gives rebirth. This happens to most humans and most things

under the cosmos. There is only a fraction of humans who do not need

to be reborn again if they attain moksha like Shiva - His moksha

mantra is the Mahamrityunjaya. Shiva has no death, no rebirth and no

avatar.

 

Of course you should not be afraid of yourself but this might have

sprung from childhood experiences that are long forgotten or tucked

away deeply. More often, deep-seated fear can be related to

childhood. If you can steady your mind for serious meditation, you

may find the answer and remedy. Otherwise, it would be good to

consult a therapist specializing in this area.

 

Hold your chin up; there is no need to read too deeply into others'

feelings and compromise your desires diplomatically. While its

ethical to be diplomatic in all situations, you should train yourself

to refrain from reading too deeply into anything. Just take things

as they come or with a grain of salt and let things unfold. If they

are not to your liking, then its not meant to be. If its to your

satisfaction, sure take it up.

 

Ok chin up, tail up and up we go.....! Wishing you success in all

your endeavors.

 

Om Namah Shivaya

 

 

 

, " Raja Gursahani "

<rajagursahani wrote:

 

nothing has really happened for me. i am very much suprised that i

can't find the right women in my life. also i have not found a job.

neither have I got self confidence or image improvement in the manner

i was thinking. i did try to find work but it turned out to be a

ridiculous situation and obstacles still stood in the way or even if

they are in my head then I'm not being prepared in the way they

expected. in other words nothing is panning out that is for sure. are

they really expediting the matter is the question? are they seriously

bumping up things into a higher reality i don't know. i have not seen

the changes i require or imagined.

 

the 12 mukhi is suppose to help the sun which it has but i still have

this fear and even if it making me more cofident why do i have this

fear. i mean do i have to be afraid of myself that is the question.

it seems that i fear thigns a lot still and that there is this fear

of death that i feel. also i seem to always read the feelings of

others too deeply and as a result modify my desires for diplomatic

compromise.

 

 

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Raja Gursahani

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