You cannot always oblige but you can speak obligingly

[Guest guest]

There should not be any flaw or defect in your words. You have to see to it that you always tell the truth. Some people think that in times of difficulty they can modify the truth. They may even feel that it is necessary to tell untruth sometimes. But in difficult situations, you can develop sufficient cleverness to keep silent, instead of telling either truth or untruth. If you tell the truth, tell it clearly and sweetly. Do not tell truth in an unkind way, or tell untruth to endear yourself. In some circumstances you may have to be very careful. You should know how to use words without hurting people.