Sri Sathya Sai Baba Stories and Parables

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One day, an old lady came to Ramakrishna Paramahamsa with her 10

year old grandson. She prostrated before him and said: " Master! I

have come to seek your advice. This boy is my grandson. He lost his

father and mother when he was just a child of five. I have been

taking care of him. He is very fond of sweets. He eats so much that

his health is deteriorating day by day. The doctors have advised him

not to eat sweets but this fellow does not pay any heed to their

advice. However, he has great respect and admiration for you. So I

have come to request you to stop the boy from eating sweets. I am

sure, you alone can do this " . Ramakrishna said: " Mother, don't

worry, come with your grandson after a month. In the meanwhile I

shall think of a plan to convince the boy that one's health is very

important, more important even than wealth " . The old woman thanked

him and took leave of him.

 

She came with her grandson exactly after a month. Both of them paid

their salutations to the master. Ramakrishna made the boy sit beside

him and said: " My dear boy! Remember, one's real wealth is health.

Unless you take proper care of your health, you will not be able to

grow into a strong and healthy young man. You will not be able to do

anything great in life if you are weak. When something that we eat

does not suit our constitution, we should give up eating that item.

From tomorrow you should not eat sweets. After some time you may eat

moderately. You are a nice boy and will listen to me, will you

not? " . The boy nodded his head and promised that he would not eat

sweets.

 

The old woman sent the boy on some errand just to have confidential

talk with the master. " Master! May I ask you a question? " said the

old woman. " Certainly mother " , replied Ramakrishna. " Master! This

advice which you have given today to my grandson, you could have

given last month itself. Why did you ask me to come again after a

month? I don't understand " . Ramakrishna replied with an

understanding smile: " Mother! I myself eat lot of sweets. How can I

advise the boy to do something that I am not doing myself? One has

no right to preach anything to others before practising it himself.

So I asked for some time. This one month I did not eat sweets. So I

have earned the right to advise your grandson. " The old woman

marvelled at the righteous conduct of Ramakrishna. She fell at his

feet and took leave of him.

We should never advise anyone about anything which we ourselves have

not put into practice.