A Date !

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Dear Matru Shakti Putras in TBP,

 

Love and Love alone....

 

Though I might have posted this once earlier (Did I? I do not

remember), there is nothing wrong in having it once again, as it

regarding mother. Enjoy it.

 

Love and Love alone....

 

P. Gopi Krishna

 

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A date !

 

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman

out to dinner and a movie.

 

She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would

love to spend some time with you.

 

The other woman that my wife w anted me to visit was my MOTHER, who

has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my

three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

 

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

 

" What's wrong, are you well, " she asked? My mother is the type of

woman who suspects that a late night call or a sur prise invitation

is a sign of bad news.

 

" I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you, " I responded. "

Just the two of us. "

 

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, " I would like that very

much. "

 

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit

nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed t hat she, too,

seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her

coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she

had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

 

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

 

" I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they

were impressed, " she said, as she got into the car. " They can't wait

to hear about our meeting " .

 

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My

mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down,

 

I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I

lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic

smile was on her lips.

 

" It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small, " she said.

 

" Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor, " I

responded.

 

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing

extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked

so much that we missed the movie.

 

As we arrived at her house later, she said, " I'll go out with you

again, but only if you let me invite you. " I agreed.

 

" How was your dinner date ? " asked my wife when I got home. " Very

nice. Much more so than I could have imagined, " I answered.

 

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It

happened so suddenly that I did to do anything for her.

 

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant

receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

 

An attached note said: " I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure

that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one

for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that

night meant for me. I love you, son. "

 

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: " I

LOVE YOU! " and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.

 

Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time

they deserve, because these things cannot be put off

till " some other time. "

 

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Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an

adult, to anyone with a parent. Here's hoping today is better than

yesterday and tomorrow.

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