Pujya Ramsukhdasji Maharaj

[Guest guest]

If You Do Good, Then Things Will Be Good for You.

 

Whatever things that have been received by you, must be utilized

properly. Children must be taken care of properly. They must be

taught good lessons and things. They must develop good inner

feelings and expressions (bhava), have good character, qualities and

behavior. You have time to earn money, but what are the children

doing? How are they being raised? What are they learning? You are

totally oblivious and inattentive to these things .

 

Oh Brothers ! The children are the real treasures. They can become

great souls, which will be a great thing. For every great soul born,

it is found that their mothers were divine and divine mother's

children inevitably turn out great. Many have become great saints

and great souls. Mother's nature comes in the children. Therefore

mothers must want their children to learn good lessons and things in

life.

 

But on the contrary, the lessons she gives are just the opposite.

She teaches the girls to keep their money in their own possession,

so that when there is a separation, that money comes to the girl,

and with such teachings she sends her daughter to groom's home. She

teaches things like why do you do all the work, let the sister-in-

law and others do the work at the in-law's home. She says - Avoid so

much work. All this leads to confrontation with the husband's

family.

 

Now just think, what if such things were taught by all the mothers?

One day we too will have a daughter-in-law and she too will behave

the same way. She too will not work and we will complaint that my

daughter-in-law does not do any work. If you do good, then things

will be good for you. Brothers ! If you do evil, then things will be

bad for you.

 

" Kaliyug hai is haath de, us haath le, kyaa khoob saudaa nagad hai. "

 

Have great respect for your mother and father, your in-laws and

elders, serve them, give them respect, then these impressions will

be imprinted on the children. In old age they too will serve you.

But if you do not do this, if you do not serve the elders, then the

children too have the same impressions in their mind and their

nature too will become the same. We cannot remain the same at all

times and there will be a time when this body too will become old

and incapable of doing a lot. At that time, your children will not

come to help out. Then you will complaint that they do not help,

they do not listen. Well! How much have you served your elders? Now

why must you expect anything from your children? Therefore have good

conduct and behavior at all times.