Guest guest Posted January 31, 2008 Report Share Posted January 31, 2008 Dear friends and devotees, Bhakti is eternal. Share the wisdom of His holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankarji 13. AGGRESSION Certain types of people are soft, but their softness comes from a lack of courage and forcefulness. People whose softness comes from a lack of courage suffer greatly and eventually become volatile. There is another type of softness in people – a softness that comes out of maturity, magnanimity and the knowledge of the self. Similarly, there are two types of forcefulness in people - aggression or assertiveness. Some people are forceful in an aggressive manner, out of weakness or fear. Others are forceful or assertive out of caring and love, out of compassion. So look into yourself and become aware of what type of softness and what type of forcefulness is in you. Aggression and assertiveness overshadow intuition. Often people who are sensitive tend to become aggressive, in order to avoid being hurt and in this process, they lose touch with their fine intuition. Fine intuition needs sensitivity, but sensitivity is often painful. In order to avoid pain they become aggressive and assertive, and in turn they lose their intuitive ability. Intuition is close to the truth. Often aggression and assertiveness thrive on the idea of truthfulness – aggressive people are convinced of the rightness of their position. To be truthful, you do not need to be aggressive or assertive. 14. VIOLENCE Violence brings noise while non-violence happens in silence. People who are violent make tremendous noise; they make their violence known, while people who are non-violent are quiet. But the time has come for the non-violent ones to make noise so that violence will decrease. The message of non-violence must come loud and clear so that it can be heard at a young age. Anger and violence must be associated with shame. Violence in young people comes from a sense of pride in anger and violence, not a sense of shame. People feel proud that they are violent and angry. They think it is prestigious or a status symbol to be aggressive. Some movies and some music promote aggression and violence, and when these are promoted human values diminish. We must promote human values – especially love, compassion and belongingness – loudly and clearly. Life is a war. Doctors fight against disease. Lawyers fight against injustice. Teaches fight against ignorance. Depression happens when you lose the will to fight. Arjuna was depressed; he did not want to fight. His bow fell from his hands and his fingers trembled but Krishna urged him to wake up and fight. The decision to fight can take away your depression. To be contd. . . . 15. With love and regards, Sastry. Never miss a thing. Make your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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