Guest guest Posted February 6, 2008 Report Share Posted February 6, 2008 Dear Members, Matru devo bhava - look upon the mother as verily the Lord. Well! Has anyone been seen to live on these lines? It is for this that Rama-avatara came to be! In Rama-avatara, Rama adheres to every word of his mother Kausalya. He loves her deeply and holds her in high esteem. Whenever and wherever Rama sees his mother - be it inside the palace or on the streets, even if he were a Yuva-raja (the crown prince) he would at once prostrate to her. Pitru devo bhava - look upon the father as God - of this, there has been no doubt at all. Rama stands by the instructions of his father to the end. Satyam vada - speak the Truth - ‘asatyam’ (untruth) never was on the tongue of Rama. Moreover, anything that was uttered by Rama came to pass. As for ‘Dharma’, Rama’s life was proof enough. Rama tells Lakshmana, “There are only two things that I fear. One is adharma and the other is ‘paraloka’. If our life were to end with this world we need not fear anything or anyone. But it does not end just here. We move over to Paraloka where we have to explain our deeds performed here. None can escape this. One has to face the consequences of one’s deeds. There is no escape from this. It is these two - adharma and Paraloka - that I fear, Lakshmana”. Matru devo bhava, pitru devo bhava, acharya devo bhava, athiti devo bhava, Satyam vada, Dharmam chara - where does one find the explanation for these? No, not in the Vedas but in Ramayana! Rama has lived it all. Even in the case of fulfillment of Kaikeyi’s desires by his father Dasarata, Rama explains it was Truth (‘Satya’) that bound Dasarata. Dasarata, in keeping up the promise given to his wife Kaikeyi, had to fulfill her desires. “Dasarata was bound not by ‘kama’ (desire for his wife) as others opine but by Satya”, says Rama. Thus, Ramayana depicts Rama’s ‘katinyam’ and ‘karunyam’. When we take up epics such as Mahabharata or Bhagavatam they contain innumerable sideline stories (‘upa kathas’). In Bhagavatam we find Dhruva, Prahlada and Chitraketu stories. As for Mahabharata it is very well known for its umpteen numbers of interwoven stories. But in Ramayana there is only one and even that appears in the very beginning. In Ramayana, that is ‘adi kavya’, Valmiki does not narrate any side stories but for just one and that is the story of Ahalya. The incident of lifting of the curse on Ahalya by Sri Rama. Even this appears at the very outset of Ramayana. Sage Vishwamitra who is leading the young Rama and Lakshmana speaks to them about Ahalya’s story and his (Rama’s) part in lifting the curse off Ahalya who had been cursed into a stone by her husband. This is the only ‘upa-katha’ in Ramayana. And Valmiki narrates even that at the very outset of Ramayana. Why should Valmiki include the liberation of Ahalya from the curse (‘Ahalya sapa vimochana’) at the very beginning of Ramayana? There is a special reason attached to this. While speaking of Ahalya, the wife of a Maharishi (Gautama), Indra appears in the form of her husband. Here, Valmiki uses the words, “Devaraja kuthoohalat”. So, it is very well known here that Ahalya was not taken unawares by the deceptive form of Indra. She was very much aware of who he was; in which case she had committed a grave sin, become impure and had lost her chastity. And by the sheer touch of the dust of His toenail Rama purified Ahalya. The same Rama later, instructs his wife, Sita, to enter into the fire (‘agni pravesh’) to prove her chastity! There were three strong witnesses to Sita’s chastity. One was Hanuman, the other was Vibhishana and the highest of all was the ‘hrudaya’ (heart) of Rama Himself. Yet, Rama asks Sita to prove her purity. The reason for the difference in attitude is, in the case of Sita it is ‘katinya’ and in Ahalya’s case it is ‘karunya’. Rama desired to stand in Dharma for the world to see. Rama lived for the world and never for himself. Rama’s face, even at this moment of great test, wears a smile (‘mandahasa’). He does not feel agonised even at this grave moment. How does Sita respond to this call of Rama? What does Sita desire? She does not fret, “How could Rama instruct me to enter the fire (‘agni pravesh’) to prove my chastity?” Instead Sita feels, “Rama is a ‘Dharmatma’, a ‘Satya santa’.” Sita competes with him in helping him stand in the path of Dharma and Satya. She does not grieve over Rama sending her away to the forest; over Rama’s demand to perform ‘agni pravesh’. She is very careful that her behaviour does not in any way bring a black mark on the character of her Prabhu. She stands by him in upholding Dharma and Satya. She hardens her heart (‘katinya’) to match Rama’s spirit. Such is the avatãr of Piratti (Sita). Later on in their life, Rama sends Sita away to the forest because of a dhobi pointing his finger at Rama. When Sita is brought back, Rama does not ask her to perform ‘agni pravesh’. This is for the mere reason that Rama felt the pulse of the people who would deem it as some gimmick. These days we do find some ‘swamijis’ who light a fire, get into it and come out with some idols! People may refuse to accept this way of (‘agni pravesh’) proving Sita’s chastity. So, here what does Rama do? A great scholar (‘vidwan’) will never accept a fool as a scholar even at the cost of his head! Will a highly learned person (‘shastragnya’) accept a fool to be a scholar? No, never! Will he prostrate to a fool, even if ordered to? No, never! In the same way, a Jnani will never accept an ‘ajnani’ as a Jnani. Similarly, will a ‘pativrata stree’ (a chaste woman) accept one who is not a ‘pativarata’? Will she perform ‘pada puja’ (wash the feet) to one who is not a ‘pativrata’? No, she will not. Therefore, here Rama calls upon such great ‘pativratas’ as Savitri, Nalãyini to perform ‘pada puja’ to Sita. By this ‘pada puja’ Sita’s chastity is proved. In the second incident Rama proves the chastity of Sita in this manner. !!! Will Continue !!! Regards Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare --------------------- If you have any questions or doubts concerning Spirituality, Mental peace or problems in life or about dharma, please write to us by clicking here: http://www.namadwaar.org/answers/askquestion.php His Holiness Sri Sri Swamiji personally answers these questions for you and suggests prayers. --------------------- ______________________________\ ____ Looking for last minute shopping deals? 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