The noble way

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Dear friends and devotees,

 

Bhakti is eternal.

 

The noble way

 

A woman came to see Vinoba Bhave, the well-known social leader, and said, " I am

very unhappy. "

 

Vinoba asked, " What is the matter? "

 

In a voice full of grief, she replied, " My husband is an alcoholic. He drinks

everyday and abuses me. Sometimes, he beats me up. My life is hell. "

 

Vinoba asked, " When he gets drunk, what do you do? "

 

She replied, " I get upset. Earlier, I used to scold him. That did not help. So

now I have started to observe fasts. "

 

" You do not eat or drink during the fast? " asked Vinoba.

 

" No, " she said, " I eat fruit. "

 

Vinoba said in a simple natural tone, " Oh, then your husband must get very

upset. Your eating fruits must have increased the household expenses. "

 

The woman kept quiet. Tears filled her eyes.

 

Vinoba said, " Nobody can be made to give up wrong things by our getting angry or

by our giving up food. We can change others through love and patience. The love

that can make the difference comes from within. Our hearts should be pure. If

there are bad feelings in our hearts and we show insincere love, it makes

matters worse. "

 

The woman asked, " What should I do? I lose control of my senses when I see him

drunk. "

 

" This is the root cause of your trouble, " explained Vinoba. He continued, " You

can bring your husband back from the path of evil only when you control your own

bad feelings. First you should try to change yourself. "

 

The woman bowed and left. The joy of having found a noble way reflected on her

face.

 

With love and regards,

 

Sastry