Towards a better tomorrow By Sri.Sri.Muralidhara Swamiji

[Guest guest]

Radhe Krishna To All,

 

Once a person was caught stealing someone’s wallet. He was handed over to the

police. On investigation, it was found that he had a long history of stealing

cash and jewels from his neighbours and friends, and that day he had been caught

red-handed. Charges were framed against him and he was produced in the court.

 

The magistrate asked if he had anything to say before the judgment was

delivered. The accused then said, “Your honour! I plead guilty of all the

charges and I am also aware that I am going to be punished. But I have a request

to make. It is my request that my mother should have an equal share of the

punishment being accorded. â€

 

The magistrate was both astonished and confused at these words and asked him to

clarify. The accused said, “In my childhood, I used to sneak into my

neighbours’ homes, filch petty stuffs, bring them home and show them to my

mother. Every time I did so, my mother would feel proud of my ‘feat’ and

would highly appreciate my behaviour. Today, I stand before you as a thief,

thanks to my mother’s encouragement. Had my mother been severe with me the

first time I committed thievery and stopped me from repeating it, I would have

grown into a good citizen. So my mother is equally responsible for these

crimes.â€

 

Parenting is an art. The tender mind can be molded into any shape or form, and

it is the responsibility of the parents to shape their ward’s mind and heart

in such a manner that they grow up to become good citizens of the world.

 

Today’s literature and media repeatedly stress on one fact:

 

Education without moral values ruins a person and hence spoils the society. Only

moral values and fear of God can save the society today.

Orthodox religious practices (like 'madi', 'aachaaram' etc.) are no longer

relevant to modern times. Instead of confounding the child’s mind with such

concepts, it is advisable to sow the seeds of moral values and disciplines in

their minds. Teach them to be honest and inspire in them values of truthfulness

and reverence for elders. Teach them to be God-fearing.

 

Groom them to have an ambition in life, and not be over-ambitious. Teach them

never to nurture desire for others’ belongings and never to receive any gift

or offering from others even if given voluntarily, if it is not really

essential.

 

Teach them the value of money and not the greed for it. Implant in the young

minds the basic precept that monetary comforts are not the only comforts in life

and that moral values should never be compromised for money.

 

‘I have stuck to noble values like honesty and truthfulness all my life; yet,

I have to face ordeals in life,’ would be the immediate reaction of even a

grown-up.

 

In Mahabharata, we find that Dharmaputra suffered in spite of being benign at

heart. Do the comforts that Duryodhana enjoyed signify that he was a good soul?

Do not evaluate your goodness against your life in the world. The two do not

stand comparison. What is the true reward for your righteousness? It is the

mental clarity and inner excellence that you will achieve in your life. The

worldly comforts are but trifling when compared to this great asset. As a

parent, internalize this golden rule and pass it on to your children.

 

Don’t make your child a bookworm. Accord as much importance to play as you do

to their study. It is from the playfield that the child brings home the noble

quality of equanimity in victory and defeat. There is no better place for the

child to inculcate the value of give-and-take. These are virtues that will be

the guiding stars for success when the child grows up and faces the world.

 

Always communicate in the child’s language. Feed them with values in the form

of fables, stories of great men who have stood by principles and values and

stories of Mahans and Saints. Keep repeating these values to the child

regularly. Constantly reminding the child of these disciplines certainly makes

an impact in its mind and bears fruit in the long run.

As your children grow into mature adults, they should be able to evaluate their

life. ‘Am I leading a worthy life?’ This is the prime question that they

will need to answer at various points in their journey of life. Tomorrow, if

they have to answer it positively with a clean, guiltless heart, you as parents

have to take the right step, today.

 

A better society tomorrow is in your hands!

 

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15th Annual Brahmotsav of Sri Madhuri Sakhi sameta Sri

Premika Varadan

 

Venue: Mathurapuri Ashram

23rd August - 1st Sept 2008

 

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Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare

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