POSITIVE AND PLEASING PERSONALITY

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 Personality has two sides or shades to it -- the inner and the outer.We can

call them the within and 'without'sides.By within we mean the inner personality

and by without the outer personality.The inner is what you are by nature,the

innate you.The outer is what you are by nature,the innate you.The outer is

whatyou are to others, the projected you. Usually there is some difference or

conflict between these two.Beacause most off the time you can't say openly what

you think.Soyou'll put it in a different way' when this difference  crosses the

limits, you will become the hypocrite or the

 pretender.

   Thought an in-depth study  of these two aspectsis helpfull to really

understanding them,we leave now and concentrate at present on the aspects of

development of personality.What we need is the postive inner personality and

pleasing outer personality.Hence the title is practical steps for a postive and

pleasing personality .This is as a guide which you should have with you all the

time.

   A positive approach to life is more a subjective aspect where as a charming

demeanour is an objective facet.You cannot have one with out the  other .If youn

try to have only one , then as we said above, it will be hypocrisy, pretension

and facade.How ever, to be charming and pleasing, you first have to be

positive.That's what is given in this-- a practical way to be positive in your

approach and attitude to life that makes you a charming person with a pleasing

personality

 

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Regards

 

 

Bharathi.A