Building New Bridges

[Guest guest]

As we welcome another New Year, here is a short allegorical story

which has the power to brighten not just this day, but all the

moments to come to create for us a great year ahead.

Once upon a time, two brothers, Mart and Pete, who lived on adjoining

farms fell out with each other. In all the years of trust and

understanding before the rift, they shared each other's burdens,

sought advice from one another, and lived in harmony and peace. It

was the first serious rift in 20 years of farming as neighbours and

good friends. They used to share machinery, trading labour and goods

as needed without any hesitation.

 

It began with a small misunderstanding which grew into an enmity, and

finally, exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks

of uncomfortable silence. There were now seemingly unbreakable

barriers between the two brothers. 20 years is a long time to cement

any relationship and yet there seemed to be a reason for differences

of opinion so much so that it resulted in a severance of ties. Days

turned into months, and it was never the same again. Mutual anger and

mistrust were thick in the air, and no effort was made by either of

them to make amends.

 

One morning there was a knock on Mart's door. He opened it to find a

man with a carpenter's toolbox. " I'm looking for a few days' work, "

he said, " Perhaps you would have a few small jobs I could help with?

Could I help you? "

 

" Yes, " said the older brother, who felt he could use this man to get

back at his brother without too much trouble to himself. " Sweet

revenge " is what he mumbled to himself.

 

" I do have a job for you. Do you see the creek at that farm? That

belongs to my neighbour, who is my brother Pete. Last week there was

a meadow between us. He took his bulldozer to the river levee and now

there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me,

but I'll do him one better. Do you see that pile of lumber by the

barn? I want you to build me a fence, an 8-foot fence, so I won't

need to see his place or his face anymore. "

 

The bitterness was quite plain in his voice, but the carpenter simply

smiled and calmly said, " I think I understand the situation. Show me

the nails and the post-hole digger, and I'll be able to do a job that

pleases you. "

 

Mart had to go to town, so, he helped the carpenter get the materials

ready and was off for the day. The skilful woodsman worked hard all

day long - measuring, sawing and nailing. It was sunset when Mart

returned, and saw that the job had been completed.

 

Mart's eyes opened wide, and his jaw dropped. There was no fence

there at all. It was a bridge. A bridge that stretched from one side

of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work, handrails and all!

And the neighbour, his younger brother Pete, was coming towards him

across the bridge, his hand outstretched.

 

" You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and

done, " Pete said warmly to his brother. The two brothers met in the

middle of the bridge, with tears in their eyes, taking each other's

hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox onto his

shoulder. " No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects

for you, " said Mart.

 

" I'd love to stay on, " the warm hearted carpenter said, " but I have

many more bridges to build.... "

Bhagavan Baba often tells us:

 

" When you are confronted with problems and difficulties you should

not get upset, and become victims of depression which is a sign of

weakness. In such a situation, you should bring tolerance and an

attitude of forgiveness into play and should not get agitated giving

rise to anger, hatred and revengeful attitude. You are embodiments of

strength and not weakness. Therefore, in times of despair, fill

yourself with the feeling of forbearance and be ready to forgive and

forget. This quality of Kshama (forgiveness) is the greatest power of

a human being. "

 

Bhagavan wants us to lead a life of peace, forgiving those who have

hurt us, and in turn, not hurting others. It is the Lord who is ever

waiting to play the role of the `carpenter' in our lives, building

bridges where there was and is mistrust and anger. This new year let

us allow ourselves to feel the joy of forgiveness, and share it with

others too. Just like our ever compassionate Lord who forgives us for

our failings, whether we realise it or not, let us not dwell on

events that pull us down. Let us trust the Divine Carpenter, and

eventually become a skilful Divine Workman ourselves!

 

Ram Chugani

Kobe, Japan