why people are not able to think or talk with open mind ?

[Guest guest]

It is true we are not freely talking with an unknown person.As

we go on meeting them frequently, there after we will be talking

about incidents occured in life and expect some sympathies or

appreciation from them,so that the soul gets some consolation or

elation.Now a days the ego in man is increasing in enormous

quantities and not exposing his mind freely with any body.In this

context I mentioned about the unknown person first.Then the

friends,acquaintences,then relatives,kith and kin,your children and

with your sahadharmachharini also who shared all your sorrows and

happinesses for the most part of your life.

With every body we speak with some reservations.

In our conversation if a request is made or a hinting of a help is

lurking in a remote corner of your conversation you feel that you

should not under take the act and take the responsibility.You feel

like avoiding the willingness to do that help by telling some plea

and avoid the exicution finally.You feel that the other person is

deriving some advantage by your help. You feel jelous for his

betterment and you dont want that he should enjoy that and gain or

upliftment by receiving the help you render to him.So finally the

same thing occurs in his case and every body is feeling lonely in

this way, by living always with a cautious mind and enforced

loneliness.In the good olden days we used to feel happy for doing

some service to others if it is yielding good results.

yours sincerely

Bhimasankaram