STOP Negative Thoughts

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STOP Negative Thoughts

 

" What we focus on, we empower and enlarge. Good multiplies when focused upon.

Negativity multiplies when focused upon. The choice is ours: Which do we want

more of? "

 

Negative thinking can make all sorts of things incredibly difficult. It is like

a leak in our confidence bucket - constantly drip-drip-dripping away our

confidence and self esteem. However, once you begin thinking about what you're

" thinking about " , you've already taken the first step to controlling negative

thoughts. Next time you catch yourself repeating the same negative thoughts over

and over in your mind, use the STOP acronym:

 

1. S - Say the word STOP!

 

Interrupt your internal destructive thoughts. Tell yourself firmly to " STOP "

over thinking. Be strict, and don't let them intrude on your thoughts. It also

might be helpful to visualize a box to place all your negative thoughts in,

which you may open at a later date or time.

 

2. T - TAKE a break!

 

Take a deep breath. Then, take a break. Go for a walk or a hike, read a great

book, listen to your favorite music. Do something to take your attention away

from over thinking, and if possible, change the environment. Also try some

relaxation exercises, they often focus on replacing negative thoughts with

positive ones

 

3. O - Focus on the OUTCOME!

 

Focus on the OUTCOME of your goals. Affirm why you are committed to your goals.

The way we feel and what we experience in our body comes from what we focus our

attention upon during a given moment. And at any moment, we are " deleting " most

of what is going on around us. That is, to feel bad, we have to delete (not

focus on, not think about) everything that's great in our life. And vice versa.

For us to feel good, we have to delete the things we could feel bad about

 

4. P - PRAISE yourself!

 

PRAISE and acknowledge yourself for the progress you are making. Remember,

you're looking for progress, not perfection! Give yourself a reward every time

you're successful with overcoming negative thoughts. And remember small changes

make a big difference.

 

By recognizing that you do have negative thoughts you've taken the first step.

Now, start playing Devil's Advocate and challenge yourself to find the positive.

Turn your thoughts around and your moods will follow suit.

 

And remember, You Are What You Think!