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Time Management

 

Swami Brahmeshananda

 

A former editor of The Vedanta Kesari Swami Brahmeshananda is at

present the Secretary of Ramakrishna Mission Ashrama, Chandigarh.

 

Is time sufficient for preparing for competitive exams and also

practising meditation?

 

(a) Yes.

 

(b) How long would you meditate? 15-30 minutes twice a day at the

most. Can't you get this much time out of 24 hours?

 

© This question has arisen because you have not understood or

realized the importance of meditation. You don't ask a similar

question about eating, sleeping, etc. because you think they are

indispensable and they must be done even while preparing for

examinations. Please note, meditation--rightly done--is far more

important than sleep or intake of food.

 

(d) Sometimes, in business, we have to invest money to get greater

returns. Meditation is like investing time to get better returns.

Good meditation regularly done will make you calmer, sharper,

improve your concentration and you will be able to make better use

of time.

 

A person with good concentration can accomplish more in 10 minutes

than one who lacks concentration. Does the word 'relative' address

this point also?

 

The word relative can be applied in this case also. After all, as

compared to one, the other has better concentration. It is a

question of degree. But this can be altered by effort. Concentration

can be improved by systematic practice. As a matter of fact, time is

not an absolute entity. It is relative. For example, if the speed of

the car is increased, we can cover the same distance in less time.

According to Romain Roland, the French writer, Sri Ramakrishna lived

the 2000 years of human race within his short life span of 50 years--

so intensely did helive! It is very important to realize this

relative aspect of time.

 

There is also what is called a biological/physio-logical clock. We

have divided the day into 24 hours, and further into minutes and

seconds and measure them with the help of a watch or a clock. Our

body system also gets conditioned by our living habits. For example,

we sleep at a particular time, eat at a fixed hour and so on. This

conditioning can also be altered by practice, so that we might sleep

less, and think or act more. The whole physiological clock can be

made to work faster.

 

Some people are fast enough to complete their work in time, but a

large number of people are slow and take double the time. What

should these people do for time management, because there are only

24 hours in a day?

 

They must do 'Mind Management'. As a matter of fact, time management

is largely a matter of 'mind management'. We are not able to harness

the tremendous energy and capabilities of our mind. There are, of

course, techniques of time management. But far more important is to

improve the capabilities of the mind.

 

Please tell us about both time management and mind management.

 

(a) Time management and mind management are interrelated, which will

be clear as we proceed. Take for example the first most important

thing in time management: Prevent wastage of time. Time is precious--

more precious than money or, in modern times, water. One moment

past, will never return. Especially, the time of the youth is most

precious. This is the time when your mind is bright, strong, and

impressionable. If wasted, it will never come back, and you will

have to repent bitterly.

 

(b) It is equally important to know what are the various ways in

which we waste time. These could be many: useless gossip, laziness,

engaging in mental reveries and empty imaginations; thinking too

much of the past or having imaginations about the future, aimless

loitering, destructive activities, etc., etc. There could be many

more ways in which time is wasted. To know these is a part of mind

management.

 

In religious texts, this prevention of wastage of time is given very

great importance. In Narada Bhakti Sutras it is said that a devotee

must not waste even half a moment uselessly (kshanârdhamapi vyartham

na neyam).

 

Will it not make us obsessed with time?

 

Yes, quite right. That is anotherextreme--to be obsessed with time

which causes a lot of mental tension. There are people who are

always busy, always in a hurry; they don't want to waste a single

moment. Such peoplebecome a prey to mental tension. In a book

published a few years ago, entitled Time, Space and Medicine, the

author, a doctor, has described that obsession with time can cause

hypertension, heart disease and mental tension. Such people always

have a big list of what to do, and a minute-to-minute time table,

without which they feel uncomfortable. Such people can't relax, and

hence suffer from anxiety.

 

This is a very difficult situation: to make the best use of time,

and at the same time not to be obsessed with it. How can it be done?

 

That's why I said that mind management is far more important than

time management. But then, I was giving you hints about time

management.

 

The second principle of time management can be termed as 'Fill up

the blanks'. We know, filling up of blanks as an exercise in

learning languages. Now, in day-to-day life we shall find a number

of occasions when we are forced not to do anything. Even though we

might have prepared a tight time-table, we might still have lot of

time in between these items. For example, while waiting for the bus,

travelling in bus or train, the time between the end of one class

(period) and beginning of another class (period) in the college,

etc.

 

By these two methods, i.e., prevention of wastage of time and making

use of inbetween times, you will find that you have much more time

at hand than you ever imagined.

 

Are there any other principles of Time Management?

 

Yes, the third principle of time management is to make a daily,

weekly, monthly and yearly time-table as well as a list of works to

do. However, be careful not to be obsessed by these time-tables of

works.

 

I do plan every time. But sometimes there are obstructions which

upset the plan. What can be done?

 

Things do not always happen according to our wishes or plans. You

must have the capacity to alter a plan according to the situation.

It is also important to keep one's cool and not get disturbed.

 

But how to keep one's cool?

 

Herein lies the need for 'Mind Management', and the first principle

of mind management is this: to remain cool always. Sri Krishna had

advised Arjuna to fight--please note--fight keeping the mind cool

and undisturbed by success or failure. Swami Vivekananda has

said: 'The calmer we are, the less disturbed our nerves, the more

shall we love and better will our work be.'

 

Let me tell you a story: Two enemy kings were engaged in lifelong

war with each other. In the decisive one-to-one battle, one of the

kings felled his enemy and was about to give the final lethal blow,

when the fallen, prostrate, vanquished king spat on the face of the

striker. The striking king became red with rage, but strangely,

instead of inflicting multiple severe blows, stopped and withdrew

his spear. He askedthefallenenemytogetupandgoinpeace. Why? Because,

the victor king said, he had fought for so many years without losing

his temper. But at the final moment of the battle, he lost his cool

and got angry when the enemy spat on his face! This, he considered a

defeat.

 

This, of course, is an extreme example. But it highlights a very

important value: That keeping one's cool is far more important than

even success or failure of one's enterprise. Nay, this equipoise,

which is called 'samatva' in the Gita, is in itself a goal, or

target to be achieved.

 

Ok. I also realize the importance of remaining cool. But how to do

it?

 

Once you are convinced thoroughly about the importance of keeping

one's cool, you will naturally strive for it.

 

Sometimes we may be in a very important or a very urgent situation.

In that case, how to keep oneself cool?

 

Yes, in extreme, urgent situations, you might initially lose your

balance, as Arjuna did on the battlefield, but gradually you will

attain perfect undisturbed calm.

 

The second important principle of 'Mind Management' is to have the

right attitude towards time itself!

 

Time is a sort of tool in our hands. We are given specific time to

use. This is what our attitude is towards time. What else do you

mean by our attitude towards time?

 

I shall explain my idea through Swami Vivekananda's example: Once,

in America, he was to deliver a talk in his own apartment at 4:00pm.

People had assembled but Swamiji was not to be found even five

minutes before the talk. The person incharge ran out to the street

and found Swamiji coming from a distance in a leisurely manner. He

ran to Swamiji and asked him to hurry, because it was already late.

Swamiji did not hasten his pace but coolly said, 'You live in time;

I live in eternity.'

 

What was Swamiji's attitude towards time? He considered himself the

birthless, deathless Atman beyond time and space. Hence he was never

bound by time, never in a hurry, and yet could lead an intense life.

 

What I am trying to point out is that we must carefully rethink

about our attitude towards time, world and life as a whole.

 

What about our social activities and commitments? How to decide

which social activity is important and deserves priority?

 

As I have already said, you must carefully rethink about your whole

life. This also means deciding and fixing one's priorities. As

students, acquisition of knowledge and character building must be

given top priority. All else like social responsibility, meeting

with friends and relatives, etc. must be given secondary importance.

Only social activities like service to the poor, which will help in

character building, expansion of heart and development of

sensitivity towards poor peoples' suffering must be given

importance. You may also spend time with learned scholars and men of

noble character. You must manage time accordingly.

 

But there are situations wherein we are compelled to spend time with

others. How should we maintain relationship with others, and yet

manage time well?

 

You are not obliged to spend time with or maintain relationship with

those who are a hindrance to your goal of character building and

acquisition of knowledge. Better avoid such evil company which does

not allow healthy and fruitful management of time. Initially, such

distractors may oppose you, mock or insult you; but later they will

stop disturbing you and even admire you.

 

But, as I said, by all means spend time in holy, noble and

inspirational company. This is a better way of managing time.

 

I am able to work efficiently only if there is an urgency. How can I

do it efficiently even if there is no urgency? How should I inspire

myself for studies?

 

Consider every work you are doing as urgent and important. No work

is small. Even sweeping the room, washing clothes etc are as

important as studies or meditation. First of all impress this idea

on your mind firmly. The greatness of a person lies not in what

great works he has done, but how efficiently and dedicatedly he does

the smallest work. Not only this; if you do every action with full

dedication and efficiency, your concentration will improve and it

will also help in your studies.

 

What is the exact meaning of yogah karmasu kaushalam?

 

According to the primary meaning as explained in the Bhagawad Gita,

working in such a way as not to be attached to work and its fruits,

is meant by the phrase karmasu kaushalam or dexterity in work. But

there is also an implied meaning. It is taken for granted that the

work is done with fullest concentration, highest efficiency and

total dedication. In other words, karmasu kaushalam means working

with tremendous zeal as well as perfect detachment.

 

We know that doing work with concentration and efficiency is

important. But what is the advantage of detachment?

 

If you learn the art of detachment, you will not feel miserable,

frustrated or depressed when you fail in your endeavour, nor will

you be over-elated in success. You will be able to maintain

equipoise, i.e., samatva. You will remain cool and composed in every

situation.

 

That is exactly what we want: Efficiency with perfect calmness. How

can that be attained?

 

By 'Mind Management,' some of the principles of which I have already

explained. Let me summarize them:

 

1. Meditation: Do regular meditation. Make it a daily routine and

hold on to it for the rest of your life. It will help you in concen-

tration as well as detachment.

 

2. Do all your activities, even the apparently most insignificant

ones with fullest concentration.

 

3. Have a philosophical attitude towards life; and set your

priorities clearly. Although study is your primary aim, ponder about

higher goals also like character building, spiritual emancipation,

service, etc.

 

4. Don't waste time brooding over the past or imagining the future.

Time, in fact, is only in the present moment. The past is dead; the

future is yet to come. We learn from the past, and our present

moulds the future. There is no use lamenting about wasted past, if

we don't learn from our mistakes and make the best use of the

present.

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Hi Raman,

 

Excellent article. Our indebted gratitude to Swami Brahmeshananda for bringing

out such an invaluable article. Our sincere thanks also to you for posting this

article. I am sure all the rs of this gtoup who go through this post

will definitely benefit from this.

Om SriRamakrishnaaya Namaha.

 

Regards,

Nithiya

 

________________________________

 

Ramakrishna on behalf of V. Raman

Tue 2/6/2007 9:37 PM

Ramakrishna

[sri Ramakrishna] Time Management: VK Oct 2003

 

 

 

Time Management

 

Swami Brahmeshananda

 

A former editor of The Vedanta Kesari Swami Brahmeshananda is at

present the Secretary of Ramakrishna Mission Ashrama, Chandigarh.

 

Is time sufficient for preparing for competitive exams and also

practising meditation?

 

(a) Yes.

 

(b) How long would you meditate? 15-30 minutes twice a day at the

most. Can't you get this much time out of 24 hours?

 

© This question has arisen because you have not understood or

realized the importance of meditation. You don't ask a similar

question about eating, sleeping, etc. because you think they are

indispensable and they must be done even while preparing for

examinations. Please note, meditation--rightly done--is far more

important than sleep or intake of food.

 

(d) Sometimes, in business, we have to invest money to get greater

returns. Meditation is like investing time to get better returns.

Good meditation regularly done will make you calmer, sharper,

improve your concentration and you will be able to make better use

of time.

 

A person with good concentration can accomplish more in 10 minutes

than one who lacks concentration. Does the word 'relative' address

this point also?

 

The word relative can be applied in this case also. After all, as

compared to one, the other has better concentration. It is a

question of degree. But this can be altered by effort. Concentration

can be improved by systematic practice. As a matter of fact, time is

not an absolute entity. It is relative. For example, if the speed of

the car is increased, we can cover the same distance in less time.

According to Romain Roland, the French writer, Sri Ramakrishna lived

the 2000 years of human race within his short life span of 50 years--

so intensely did helive! It is very important to realize this

relative aspect of time.

 

There is also what is called a biological/physio-logical clock. We

have divided the day into 24 hours, and further into minutes and

seconds and measure them with the help of a watch or a clock. Our

body system also gets conditioned by our living habits. For example,

we sleep at a particular time, eat at a fixed hour and so on. This

conditioning can also be altered by practice, so that we might sleep

less, and think or act more. The whole physiological clock can be

made to work faster.

 

Some people are fast enough to complete their work in time, but a

large number of people are slow and take double the time. What

should these people do for time management, because there are only

24 hours in a day?

 

They must do 'Mind Management'. As a matter of fact, time management

is largely a matter of 'mind management'. We are not able to harness

the tremendous energy and capabilities of our mind. There are, of

course, techniques of time management. But far more important is to

improve the capabilities of the mind.

 

Please tell us about both time management and mind management.

 

(a) Time management and mind management are interrelated, which will

be clear as we proceed. Take for example the first most important

thing in time management: Prevent wastage of time. Time is precious--

more precious than money or, in modern times, water. One moment

past, will never return. Especially, the time of the youth is most

precious. This is the time when your mind is bright, strong, and

impressionable. If wasted, it will never come back, and you will

have to repent bitterly.

 

(b) It is equally important to know what are the various ways in

which we waste time. These could be many: useless gossip, laziness,

engaging in mental reveries and empty imaginations; thinking too

much of the past or having imaginations about the future, aimless

loitering, destructive activities, etc., etc. There could be many

more ways in which time is wasted. To know these is a part of mind

management.

 

In religious texts, this prevention of wastage of time is given very

great importance. In Narada Bhakti Sutras it is said that a devotee

must not waste even half a moment uselessly (kshanârdhamapi vyartham

na neyam).

 

Will it not make us obsessed with time?

 

Yes, quite right. That is anotherextreme--to be obsessed with time

which causes a lot of mental tension. There are people who are

always busy, always in a hurry; they don't want to waste a single

moment. Such peoplebecome a prey to mental tension. In a book

published a few years ago, entitled Time, Space and Medicine, the

author, a doctor, has described that obsession with time can cause

hypertension, heart disease and mental tension. Such people always

have a big list of what to do, and a minute-to-minute time table,

without which they feel uncomfortable. Such people can't relax, and

hence suffer from anxiety.

 

This is a very difficult situation: to make the best use of time,

and at the same time not to be obsessed with it. How can it be done?

 

That's why I said that mind management is far more important than

time management. But then, I was giving you hints about time

management.

 

The second principle of time management can be termed as 'Fill up

the blanks'. We know, filling up of blanks as an exercise in

learning languages. Now, in day-to-day life we shall find a number

of occasions when we are forced not to do anything. Even though we

might have prepared a tight time-table, we might still have lot of

time in between these items. For example, while waiting for the bus,

travelling in bus or train, the time between the end of one class

(period) and beginning of another class (period) in the college,

etc.

 

By these two methods, i.e., prevention of wastage of time and making

use of inbetween times, you will find that you have much more time

at hand than you ever imagined.

 

Are there any other principles of Time Management?

 

Yes, the third principle of time management is to make a daily,

weekly, monthly and yearly time-table as well as a list of works to

do. However, be careful not to be obsessed by these time-tables of

works.

 

I do plan every time. But sometimes there are obstructions which

upset the plan. What can be done?

 

Things do not always happen according to our wishes or plans. You

must have the capacity to alter a plan according to the situation.

It is also important to keep one's cool and not get disturbed.

 

But how to keep one's cool?

 

Herein lies the need for 'Mind Management', and the first principle

of mind management is this: to remain cool always. Sri Krishna had

advised Arjuna to fight--please note--fight keeping the mind cool

and undisturbed by success or failure. Swami Vivekananda has

said: 'The calmer we are, the less disturbed our nerves, the more

shall we love and better will our work be.'

 

Let me tell you a story: Two enemy kings were engaged in lifelong

war with each other. In the decisive one-to-one battle, one of the

kings felled his enemy and was about to give the final lethal blow,

when the fallen, prostrate, vanquished king spat on the face of the

striker. The striking king became red with rage, but strangely,

instead of inflicting multiple severe blows, stopped and withdrew

his spear. He askedthefallenenemytogetupandgoinpeace. Why? Because,

the victor king said, he had fought for so many years without losing

his temper. But at the final moment of the battle, he lost his cool

and got angry when the enemy spat on his face! This, he considered a

defeat.

 

This, of course, is an extreme example. But it highlights a very

important value: That keeping one's cool is far more important than

even success or failure of one's enterprise. Nay, this equipoise,

which is called 'samatva' in the Gita, is in itself a goal, or

target to be achieved.

 

Ok. I also realize the importance of remaining cool. But how to do

it?

 

Once you are convinced thoroughly about the importance of keeping

one's cool, you will naturally strive for it.

 

Sometimes we may be in a very important or a very urgent situation.

In that case, how to keep oneself cool?

 

Yes, in extreme, urgent situations, you might initially lose your

balance, as Arjuna did on the battlefield, but gradually you will

attain perfect undisturbed calm.

 

The second important principle of 'Mind Management' is to have the

right attitude towards time itself!

 

Time is a sort of tool in our hands. We are given specific time to

use. This is what our attitude is towards time. What else do you

mean by our attitude towards time?

 

I shall explain my idea through Swami Vivekananda's example: Once,

in America, he was to deliver a talk in his own apartment at 4:00pm.

People had assembled but Swamiji was not to be found even five

minutes before the talk. The person incharge ran out to the street

and found Swamiji coming from a distance in a leisurely manner. He

ran to Swamiji and asked him to hurry, because it was already late.

Swamiji did not hasten his pace but coolly said, 'You live in time;

I live in eternity.'

 

What was Swamiji's attitude towards time? He considered himself the

birthless, deathless Atman beyond time and space. Hence he was never

bound by time, never in a hurry, and yet could lead an intense life.

 

What I am trying to point out is that we must carefully rethink

about our attitude towards time, world and life as a whole.

 

What about our social activities and commitments? How to decide

which social activity is important and deserves priority?

 

As I have already said, you must carefully rethink about your whole

life. This also means deciding and fixing one's priorities. As

students, acquisition of knowledge and character building must be

given top priority. All else like social responsibility, meeting

with friends and relatives, etc. must be given secondary importance.

Only social activities like service to the poor, which will help in

character building, expansion of heart and development of

sensitivity towards poor peoples' suffering must be given

importance. You may also spend time with learned scholars and men of

noble character. You must manage time accordingly.

 

But there are situations wherein we are compelled to spend time with

others. How should we maintain relationship with others, and yet

manage time well?

 

You are not obliged to spend time with or maintain relationship with

those who are a hindrance to your goal of character building and

acquisition of knowledge. Better avoid such evil company which does

not allow healthy and fruitful management of time. Initially, such

distractors may oppose you, mock or insult you; but later they will

stop disturbing you and even admire you.

 

But, as I said, by all means spend time in holy, noble and

inspirational company. This is a better way of managing time.

 

I am able to work efficiently only if there is an urgency. How can I

do it efficiently even if there is no urgency? How should I inspire

myself for studies?

 

Consider every work you are doing as urgent and important. No work

is small. Even sweeping the room, washing clothes etc are as

important as studies or meditation. First of all impress this idea

on your mind firmly. The greatness of a person lies not in what

great works he has done, but how efficiently and dedicatedly he does

the smallest work. Not only this; if you do every action with full

dedication and efficiency, your concentration will improve and it

will also help in your studies.

 

What is the exact meaning of yogah karmasu kaushalam?

 

According to the primary meaning as explained in the Bhagawad Gita,

working in such a way as not to be attached to work and its fruits,

is meant by the phrase karmasu kaushalam or dexterity in work. But

there is also an implied meaning. It is taken for granted that the

work is done with fullest concentration, highest efficiency and

total dedication. In other words, karmasu kaushalam means working

with tremendous zeal as well as perfect detachment.

 

We know that doing work with concentration and efficiency is

important. But what is the advantage of detachment?

 

If you learn the art of detachment, you will not feel miserable,

frustrated or depressed when you fail in your endeavour, nor will

you be over-elated in success. You will be able to maintain

equipoise, i.e., samatva. You will remain cool and composed in every

situation.

 

That is exactly what we want: Efficiency with perfect calmness. How

can that be attained?

 

By 'Mind Management,' some of the principles of which I have already

explained. Let me summarize them:

 

1. Meditation: Do regular meditation. Make it a daily routine and

hold on to it for the rest of your life. It will help you in concen-

tration as well as detachment.

 

2. Do all your activities, even the apparently most insignificant

ones with fullest concentration.

 

3. Have a philosophical attitude towards life; and set your

priorities clearly. Although study is your primary aim, ponder about

higher goals also like character building, spiritual emancipation,

service, etc.

 

4. Don't waste time brooding over the past or imagining the future.

Time, in fact, is only in the present moment. The past is dead; the

future is yet to come. We learn from the past, and our present

moulds the future. There is no use lamenting about wasted past, if

we don't learn from our mistakes and make the best use of the

present.

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