Re:anger/forgiveness

[Guest guest]

The first obstacle to any healing, I suppose, is to acknowledge that you need

healing. We (humans)

are brilliant at deception - we are natural Oscar-winners, and can deceive

ourselves and/or others

for years. In my angry friend's case, he told me I was wrong, that he carried no

anger, was fine

with his past, and had no problems. Then he rushed off to take some more pills.

Everyone else can

see it but him, and he will not (at the moment) even acknowledge the

possibility. It's not my (or

anyone else's) right to force healing on anyone else (we've had this

conversation before on this

list!) so all we can do is hope he realises what's going on inside him before

he's eaten alive.

 

Thanks, Crow, for the TAT reminder. I've not used it before - have used EFT,

though, which can have

stunning results.

 

love

Abs