Guest guest Posted July 21, 2003 Report Share Posted July 21, 2003 Thank you All for your suggestions, you gave me many things to think about over the weekend! I decided to give things " another go " as it were, this morning, and approached this woman with tentative plans and suggestions for the lunch that we always fix for the office every other Friday, and she asked me why I was trying to be nice, and said that she didn't give a f...k what we did for lunch. I stood there for a minute, trying to decide how to react, then finally just turned and walked away, thinking, " well, I don't Have to let this upset me " ....it's not like it was some sort of criticism about my job performance, even tho it was a personal attack. The truth about this woman is that ever since I've known her she has been feuding with her neighbors and fighting with just about every person she can goad into battle. I suspect that she is completely miserable. That's no excuse, however. I don't quite understand the idea of her negativity generating an entity inside me that would attack me, but maybe I just need to think about that some more. Anyway, thank you all again!! Peace, Renee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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