...Just got married...Intuitive Career feels different now..IKES

[Guest guest]

Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss. I just got married and

my Intuitive Career feels at a lull. I am going thru a new identity crisis.

My husband is the sweetest thing in the whole world. We are getting a new

house soon, his two kids and my child are all getting along, but adjusting too.

I don't have to make a lot of money for this marriage, but want to. He says

for me to do what I wish to do.

 

I feel some apathy and feel a bit lost. I am so happy to be with my soulmate

at age 30....so why I am feeling so apathetic?

 

I want my career life to be passionate and I want to do what I love. You may

see my website of what I do at <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</A>. Up

until now

it was my passion, but I am feeling passionless about it now. There are many

different directions I can take it, but am at a loss. Everything is so new

in my life, my name, my residence, my routine. I don't even feel like taking

appointments anymore. I want to be passionate again about my work and wake up

with a sense of really loving what I do, but now I am just at a loss.

 

I can do anything I want to do and have the ability to make anything happen,

but I just don't know what direction to go in at this point. I guess I don't

know who I am anymore.

 

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

Much Love,

 

Kimberly

<A HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</A>

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Hi Kimberly,

I am so sorry that you are so confused. You have a lot to deal with right now. I

am 31 and have been married for 13 years. I was very lucky to find my soul mate

at such a young age.

 

I am writing because I feel that we have similar situations. I am an Energy

Meridian Therapist. I went through some major changes when I was 30. As I read

your e-mail I can relate because I too felt as though I did not know who I was

anymore. I ended up using the Energy Therapy on myself for lack of self

motivation and confindence. Also, several other things as well. I am telling you

this because it worked. Everytime I get into a lull I ask myself what it is that

is causing me to feel this way. Then I immediatly do Energy Therapy. I have had

to use this tecnique quite often for Marketing myself. I was afraid I was being

judged or criticized and it was keeping me from putting my name out there.

 

I am so happy that I took the time for myself because my business is doing so

well. When I finially got out there, the calls started coming and the rewarding

feeling knowing that I am able to help people came back. Slowly, I made a come

back. And it was then that I remembered who I was.

 

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you are special, we all are, and you can

get through this. I know this because I did. Whatever you decide to do will be

the best. God Bless you . If I can help you in any way, please let me know.

Yours Truely,

 

Jonnata Mata

www.LittleBuddha.info

 

 

kimsumrall2002 wrote:

Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss. I just got married and

my Intuitive Career feels at a lull. I am going thru a new identity crisis.

My husband is the sweetest thing in the whole world. We are getting a new

house soon, his two kids and my child are all getting along, but adjusting too.

I don't have to make a lot of money for this marriage, but want to. He says

for me to do what I wish to do.

 

I feel some apathy and feel a bit lost. I am so happy to be with my soulmate

at age 30....so why I am feeling so apathetic?

 

I want my career life to be passionate and I want to do what I love. You may

see my website of what I do at <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</A>. Up

until now

it was my passion, but I am feeling passionless about it now. There are many

different directions I can take it, but am at a loss. Everything is so new

in my life, my name, my residence, my routine. I don't even feel like taking

appointments anymore. I want to be passionate again about my work and wake up

with a sense of really loving what I do, but now I am just at a loss.

 

I can do anything I want to do and have the ability to make anything happen,

but I just don't know what direction to go in at this point. I guess I don't

know who I am anymore.

 

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

Much Love,

 

Kimberly

<A HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</A>

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Kim...

 

FYI: Your Web site does not load correctly for me. You might want to

make sure that everything is OK.

 

Just out of curiosity, have you seen a doctor (preferably someone with a

holistic background) about your energy levels? My sense is that you

have some kind of hormonal imbalance. If you know someone who does

iridology, you might see if that would reveal anything.

 

Has your diet changed recently along with everything else that's changed

in your life?

 

You have changed your life in a number of ways, and perhaps as you

settle into your new routine, your sense of purpose will return as well.

 

______________________________

Joel P. Bowman, Ph.D.

Haworth College of Business

Western Michigan University

Kalamazoo, MI 49008

Voice: 269-387-5358

Fax: 269-387-5710

http://homepages.wmich.edu/~bowman

[Guest guest]

Kimberly,

 

when did this feeling start? What was your initial goal of which

direction you were heading? I think an in depth self assessment

might be helplful here, those 2 questions may help get you going. Is

something missing? What is is? Why?

Also consider this: perhaps now is the time to just enjoy your new

life and relax awhile before picking up your career again? Think of

what empassioned you to choose this work. Something worrying you may

be blocking your way. Some deep meditation might help too.

I hope this helps you. A good self evaluation should help also.

It's shows us where we've been, where we are and where we're going if

we stay on the same path, then we can work out where we went to be

and develop a solid plan, an agreement with ourselves.

It seems you've done well for yourself as far as having your dreams

come true. Enjoy them, you are very lucky. Let your new life soak

in. Congratulations on your marriage and new family!

 

Sincerely, Silver

 

 

, kimsumrall2002@a... wrote:

> Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss. I just got

married and

> my Intuitive Career feels at a lull. I am going thru a new

identity crisis.

> My husband is the sweetest thing in the whole world. We are

getting a new

> house soon, his two kids and my child are all getting along, but

adjusting too.

> I don't have to make a lot of money for this marriage, but want

to. He says

> for me to do what I wish to do.

>

> I feel some apathy and feel a bit lost. I am so happy to be with

my soulmate

> at age 30....so why I am feeling so apathetic?

>

> I want my career life to be passionate and I want to do what I

love. You may

> see my website of what I do at <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

A>. Up until now

> it was my passion, but I am feeling passionless about it now.

There are many

> different directions I can take it, but am at a loss. Everything

is so new

> in my life, my name, my residence, my routine. I don't even feel

like taking

> appointments anymore. I want to be passionate again about my work

and wake up

> with a sense of really loving what I do, but now I am just at a

loss.

>

> I can do anything I want to do and have the ability to make

anything happen,

> but I just don't know what direction to go in at this point. I

guess I don't

> know who I am anymore.

>

> Any help would be greatly appreciated.

>

> Much Love,

>

> Kimberly

> <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

A>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Kimberly,

 

I am not an intuitive or a holistic healer, but I felt perhaps I could

offer something to you.

 

When I face situations like what you're describing, I tend to let

myself fall into the despair or questioning for a while, and then

gently pull myself out of it. It might be days or weeks. I always begin

with worries about whether my own business will fail while I am " gone, "

but it doesn't. I just need to be away from it.

 

Then, when I start creeping back into my life, things are different. I

have to force myself to meditate more, to try to get inside and ask

those questions: who am I? why am I here? Sometimes answers comes

quickly, sometimes slowly.

 

It sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now. Since your work

is so energy-focused, I think you should stay away from it while you

are feeling this way. I'm been to a number of energy workers /

psychics who's own energy is depleted, and frankly, they could do

nothing for me. Because of that experience, I probably won't go back to

them. Not because they aren't talented, necessarily, but because they

were seeing clients when they should not have been.

 

What I'm trying to say is that, if you're worried about your business,

it may be the best thing you can do to take a break. Let yourself

concentrate on your new life with your wonderful husband and children.

Let yourself get lost in planning your new house and where the

furniture will go. None of this means your psychic career is over.

Not at all. It just means you need a break, and if you take one, you'll

come back refreshed and better than before.

 

I would relate it to physical illnesses. When I catch a cold, I

immediately withdraw from my work and nurse myself (with the help of my

loving wife) back to health. I believe that this approach is why my

colds are usually gone within 2-3 days. I'm not indispensable at work.

Of course, there are certain events in life where " the show must go

on, " but very few. I'd say it's the same for what you're experiencing

now. Fall down. Get up. Take a breath. Get back in the game.

 

A book that I read recently that echoed this sentiment was Donald

Epstein's " The 12 Stages of Healing " (1994, New World Library). He

feels there are twelve stages a person has to go through, and there are

certain things that work and don't work at each stage. In the early

stages, the best thing to do is " live the suffering " and " stay stuck "

until you're ready to move on. Other people might disagree with that,

but it's been a good approach for me.

 

I don't know if this will help you at all. I feel kind of honored that

you asked this group for help, so I wanted to honor your request with

whatever small gift I can give.

 

Daryl Kulak

Simplicity Institute

www.simplicity-institute.com

 

 

 

 

On Sunday, August 17, 2003, at 02:22 PM, kimsumrall2002 wrote:

 

> Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss.  I just got

> married and

> my Intuitive Career feels at a lull.  I am going thru a new identity

> crisis. 

> My husband is the sweetest thing in the whole world.  We are getting a

> new

> house soon, his two kids and my child are all getting along, but

> adjusting too. 

> I don't have to make a lot of money for this marriage, but want to. 

> He says

> for me to do what I wish to do. 

>

> I feel some apathy and feel a bit lost.  I am so happy to be with my

> soulmate

> at age 30....so why I am feeling so apathetic? 

>

> I want my career life to be passionate and I want to do what I love. 

> You may

> see my website of what I do at <A

> HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

> A>.  Up until now

> it was my passion, but I am feeling passionless about it now.   There

> are many

> different directions I can take it, but am at a loss.  Everything is

> so new

> in my life, my name, my residence, my routine.  I don't even feel like

> taking

> appointments anymore.  I want to be passionate again about my work and

> wake up

> with a sense of really loving what I do, but now I am just at a loss.

>

> I can do anything I want to do and have the ability to make anything

> happen,

> but I just don't know what direction to go in at this point.  I guess

> I don't

> know who I am anymore. 

>

> Any help would be greatly appreciated. 

>

> Much Love,

>

> Kimberly

> <A

> HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

> A>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Kimberly,

 

I agree with a lot of what Daryl and some of the others have said, about

taking time...not pushing too hard....

You highlight yourself the greater changes occurring in your life - your

name, your residence, your routine - all the external touchpoints, your

reference points, have altered - some subtly, some more significantly. It

is great ask of your self to know exactly who you are and what you should

be doing when you aren't even called by the same anymore! :-)

So who are you now? The life journey that has lead to your intuitive

career has run in parallel to your other dreams and goals - that of finding

your soul mate, building a happy family. Now you have achieved those goals,

realised those dreams - and that is a great thing! It is a common trap to

expect " all the pieces to just fall into place " by themselves - but they

don't. You are going through a major rite of passage, your are changing,

developing, growing, evolving as a result of this. My suggestion is to

honour and respect this time. Celebrate it. Take the time and space now

to journey inwards, explore your self, nurture yourself. In the process

create new routines and rituals that will ultimately become an expression

of your newfound self.

When things settle down (as they always do!) you may find that the new

dimensions to your life, and to your self, add a greater depth and richness

to your chosen career - your career also may have changed and evolved into

something you can not quite imagine right now. Allow yourself the time to

cocoon, and who knows what beautiful butterfly may emerge! By staying true

to your energy, to the directions you intuitively feel pulled to, you will

realise the true potential of your natural career without even trying.

Remember when it wasn't an effort? It will be like that again - but not by

forcing it! :-) And then too, the money will flow, and you sense of slef

worth won't be tied to it, but merely enhaced by it - in fact it will be an

external reflection of the greater abundance you have welcomed into your

life on every level!

 

Best wishes Kimberly - and of course - congratulations! Finding a soulmate

is a wondrous thing thing!

 

 

 

 

 

Daryl Kulak

<dkulak@earthlink

 

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Re: ...Just

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Please respond to

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kimberly,

 

I am not an intuitive or a holistic healer, but I felt perhaps I could

offer something to you.

 

When I face situations like what you're describing, I tend to let

myself fall into the despair or questioning for a while, and then

gently pull myself out of it. It might be days or weeks. I always begin

with worries about whether my own business will fail while I am " gone, "

but it doesn't. I just need to be away from it.

 

Then, when I start creeping back into my life, things are different. I

have to force myself to meditate more, to try to get inside and ask

those questions: who am I? why am I here? Sometimes answers comes

quickly, sometimes slowly.

 

It sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now. Since your work

is so energy-focused, I think you should stay away from it while you

are feeling this way. I'm been to a number of energy workers /

psychics who's own energy is depleted, and frankly, they could do

nothing for me. Because of that experience, I probably won't go back to

them. Not because they aren't talented, necessarily, but because they

were seeing clients when they should not have been.

 

What I'm trying to say is that, if you're worried about your business,

it may be the best thing you can do to take a break. Let yourself

concentrate on your new life with your wonderful husband and children.

Let yourself get lost in planning your new house and where the

furniture will go. None of this means your psychic career is over.

Not at all. It just means you need a break, and if you take one, you'll

come back refreshed and better than before.

 

I would relate it to physical illnesses. When I catch a cold, I

immediately withdraw from my work and nurse myself (with the help of my

loving wife) back to health. I believe that this approach is why my

colds are usually gone within 2-3 days. I'm not indispensable at work.

Of course, there are certain events in life where " the show must go

on, " but very few. I'd say it's the same for what you're experiencing

now. Fall down. Get up. Take a breath. Get back in the game.

 

A book that I read recently that echoed this sentiment was Donald

Epstein's " The 12 Stages of Healing " (1994, New World Library). He

feels there are twelve stages a person has to go through, and there are

certain things that work and don't work at each stage. In the early

stages, the best thing to do is " live the suffering " and " stay stuck "

until you're ready to move on. Other people might disagree with that,

but it's been a good approach for me.

 

I don't know if this will help you at all. I feel kind of honored that

you asked this group for help, so I wanted to honor your request with

whatever small gift I can give.

 

Daryl Kulak

Simplicity Institute

www.simplicity-institute.com

 

 

 

 

On Sunday, August 17, 2003, at 02:22 PM, kimsumrall2002 wrote:

 

> Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss.  I just got

> married and

> my Intuitive Career feels at a lull.  I am going thru a new identity

> crisis. 

[Guest guest]

I think you need to cut yourself some slack. Don't make more of this

down cycle than it is. You're going through some transitions, that's

true. You've got a full plate right now, that's true too. But, let's

not be so hasty that you're in the wrong line of work right now.

Remember that to everything there is a season. Even the richest soil

in the world needs to have some fallow time for it to produce a

bountiful crop. I know you've been given some good advice here. You

may follow it if you wish to.

 

But, MY gut tells me you just need to " be " for a little while. Just

shut it all down for a few days. Don't think too much. Take care of

yourself physically, with food and rest and fresh air. Go for a swim,

take a hike someplace, eat, spend some time with friends, have naps,

take baths. Just recharge yourself. You may find that will give you a

fresh perspective in a very short space of time. If you want to

follow some of the other advice AFTER you've done nothing for a few

days, then you may get a better result. For example, sitting down and

asking yourself some questions during meditation. I think if you do

that now, you'll get more " fuzz " . It's good advice, just maybe do

that as step 2 or 3 instead of step 1. Same with seeing somebody.

Good advice, and if you still feel it's a good idea after a few days,

go for it.

 

Take it easy on yourself OK? This little lull does not mean you're in

the wrong line of work.

 

D.

 

, kimsumrall2002@a... wrote:

> Anyone who can help please feel free, I am at a loss. I just got

married and

> my Intuitive Career feels at a lull. I am going thru a new

identity crisis.

> My husband is the sweetest thing in the whole world. We are

getting a new

> house soon, his two kids and my child are all getting along, but

adjusting too.

> I don't have to make a lot of money for this marriage, but want

to. He says

> for me to do what I wish to do.

>

> I feel some apathy and feel a bit lost. I am so happy to be with

my soulmate

> at age 30....so why I am feeling so apathetic?

>

> I want my career life to be passionate and I want to do what I

love. You may

> see my website of what I do at <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

A>. Up until now

> it was my passion, but I am feeling passionless about it now.

There are many

> different directions I can take it, but am at a loss. Everything

is so new

> in my life, my name, my residence, my routine. I don't even feel

like taking

> appointments anymore. I want to be passionate again about my work

and wake up

> with a sense of really loving what I do, but now I am just at a

loss.

>

> I can do anything I want to do and have the ability to make

anything happen,

> but I just don't know what direction to go in at this point. I

guess I don't

> know who I am anymore.

>

> Any help would be greatly appreciated.

>

> Much Love,

>

> Kimberly

> <A

HREF= " www.expandingconversations.com " >www.expandingconversations.com</

A>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks Jonnata for your kind email. I just went to your website and saw that

your are into EFT. I have learned and practiced EFT myself. I do need to do

it regarding this situation. Actually I am coming out of it, have been

working with my arch angels a lot lately. I feel so much better.

 

How do you get most of your business? What marketing efforts work best for

you? Do you place adds for yourself? If so, where, what publications work for

you? I always like to ask other lightworkers what works for them with regard

to marketing.

 

Thanks, Much Love, Kim

www.expandingconversations.com

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Thank you Silver. That helps a lot. I am doing better and feel inspired again.

Actually I feel I was being psychically attacked by Mike's ex-wife. I went to

Sedona, have meditated, cleared and blocked her energy and her hate towards me

and am back on track. It is just so sad when people spread so much negativity.

We need to heal and protect ourselves from such stuff.

 

Much Love,

 

Kimberly

www.expandingconversations.com

[Guest guest]

I'm glad you're doing better and glad to be of some help. Remember,

you can do psychic cleansing anywhere. It's good you figured out what

was happening to you. A strong psychic shield would be helpful too,

if you like help with that just ask.

 

Sincerely, Silver

 

, kimsumrall2002@a... wrote:

> Thank you Silver. That helps a lot. I am doing better and feel

inspired again. Actually I feel I was being psychically attacked by

Mike's ex-wife. I went to Sedona, have meditated, cleared and

blocked her energy and her hate towards me and am back on track. It

is just so sad when people spread so much negativity. We need to

heal and protect ourselves from such stuff.

>

> Much Love,

>

> Kimberly

> www.expandingconversations.com