Conflicts, Control Cycles, Triple Warmer, Joy Circuits & Rapport Skills!

April 2, 2005

> Sincerely,

>

> ps. to the person that stated, " CareBear " didn't

> work for me, I

> suggest you normalize Triple Warmer, THEN do the

> CareBear Heart Drill.

> That's been one of the only problems I've seen that

> stops it cold!

It worked! I had people in and out of my office all

dayon Friday. Lots more than usual. And they were a

lot happier to see me than normal. Simple drill, but

pretty amazing results.

Thanks Doc.

- Joe Wadsworth

April 4, 2005

I'll think on it Jack. I have no issue with replying publicly on this one, I value your skills, your input and your different communication methods.

I agree with the aspect of supporting David and Donna and I would like to find a way for that to happen with contributions from yourself to CE.

If everyone thought the "black widow" comment was about them then maybe it wasn't targetted enough (which can be interesting of itself in that it can encourage people to identify their triggers and work on them)??? I dunno. I am new to the moderator field and I tend to think that we are responsible for our actions and reactions. Email is great but it can also be impersonal and instantaneous - there aren't the non verbal cues that go with face to face communciation and I think this can feed a TW overwhelm for some people.

In many ways lists can self-moderate and that has happened on CE in the past. Like it says on the remote view cds, if I come across someone I don't find it easy to like/love then I KNOW that I have got work to do on me......if only to find the 5% of valuable stuff in what they are saying. That was a really hard lesson for me to learn but it has been really beneficial, but then we have had this conversation before.

I do know that it is nonsensical for people to speak one truth and then act in a way that is in direct contradiction with that. A negative thought can wipe someone's energies out - as demonstrated by energy testing. Sometimes I think people just don't think about the consequences of their actions. Defending (which of itself implies that someone is operating from the perspective of having felt attacked) a principle or belief does not have to be at the expense of someone else and that is something I would like to be at the core of the CE list - a kind of practice what we preach approach. It is something that I think has been missing on occasion. I also think that moderation is a public issue on a public group so that is where my "mod" discussions will take place. I hope that this will encourage clarity and respect.....

I will be posting some admin type things out to CE over the next few days - maybe some of that will help to reframe.

Either way, it is good not to have lost touch and to still be able to share knowledge and experience of EM and other techniques - both conscious and unconscious.

best wishes

-

kahunamaker

Saturday, April 02, 2005 5:24 AM

Conflicts, Control Cycles, Triple Warmer, Joy Circuits & Rapport Skills!

, "hunter.cris" <hunter.cris@w...> wrote:> I would be interested. >Would you mind sharing this >with the CE group? There are >some great people on the list >who would then be able to >benefit from the skills....> CrisIt would be fine with me......there is a problem though......the problem is, a few of the people over there do get offended with my Wood Element/Metal Element characteristics......nor my feeble attempts at humor......even though my posts are pure 24 K GOLD, Platinum, and Diamonds!...and they are vocal enough that my posting there might NOT be benificial for that list......especially when I start talking about "killing BlackWidow spiders".....just about ever female on the list was emotionally hurt and though I was posting about them, and I wasn't!Wow!I want to help David and Donna, and I do NOT to cause dis-unity between some of the different elements who are also attracted to the teachings of David and Donna.We all love energy medicine, and energy healing......and SOME have different rules structures for the usuages of those "rules structure" and then start dissing and name calling those who have different rules...So, until that issue is taken care of, it might be better for me to not post publicly there...I am still posting privately to individuals that appreciate my information, and then reposting those constructive posts here.Is that okay?I'm trying to keep peace in the family.But I can't fake it...my approach is NOT to turn the other cheek, and let some numb-brain attempt to install guilt, just because they think they can.If you have a "way of doing" it that is ecological to your list AND to my integrity, I'd love to hear it.You are much better at those social skill things than I am, so I am open to suggestions.You can reply to me publicly or privately. Either way is fine.What is really neat, is that the "Control" cycle of the StarFish does go over this type of dominance conflict.Maybe I need to do those drills on myself?Only problem is, I really DON'T want to. I "like" me.Sincerely,ps. to the person that stated, "CareBear" didn't work for me, I suggest you normalize Triple Warmer, THEN do the CareBear Heart Drill. That's been one of the only problems I've seen that stops it cold!So, group, WHAT IS THIS POST REALLY ABOUT? Please remember that I'm great on setting up situations JUST SO you guys and gals can do the drills to get the skills. And, AWARENESS is the first step, BEFORE anything else can be achieved with any type of energy intervention!