The difference between the MAGIC QUESTION and the DEMON QUESTION!

[Guest guest]

, " James R.

Knippenberg " <erommel@e...> wrote:

 

> Second, what's " WRONG " about wanting to go to bed with someone?

 

A mind read on your part.

 

Nothing is wrong with wanting to go to bed with someone.

 

Nothing is wrong with NOT wanting to go to bed with someone.

 

After the " want-to " , certain skills are necessary. If those skills

are not there, then there is fear, anxiety, hesitation, confusion,

etc.

 

And some people do have negative anchors...ie like the policewoman,

that 20 years after she was raped, hunted down the perp.

 

Which was an interesting story of emotion, and of anger, and of

vengence.

 

I think it's about " choices " and decisions.

 

And, when someone has not asked themselves the MAGIC QUESTION, but

have asked themselves the DEMON QUESTION, then the results are NOT

ones most would desire.

 

So, what would some MAGIC QUESTIONS be, some empowering questions be?

 

What would some DEMON QUESTIONS be, some dis-empowering questions be?

 

Jim you brought up some great points.

 

Sincerely,

 

[Guest guest]

Hello doc,

 

Here is my crack at it.

 

> What would some DEMON QUESTIONS be, some dis-empowering questions

be?

 

Wouldn't these question be the " wrong questions " ?

 

For example:

 

What's wrong with my life?

What's wrong with my work?

What's wrong with my whatever? etc.

 

Aren't demon questions focus on the wrong stuff? Like when one asks

questions that focus on negative outcomes?

How I am not making enough money?

Hoqw come I am fat?

How come I am thin?

How come I am (whatever thing they don't want to be/do/have)?

Why am I so negative?

Why do I alway have bad luck?

Why do I (whatever negateive event)?

etc

 

> So, what would some MAGIC QUESTIONS be, some empowering questions

be?

 

MAGIC QUESTIONS - wouldn't these be the " IF " questions?

 

Meaning that if you want answers for whatever it may be, you ask with

the IF questions with a " presupposition " that you already know the

answer?

 

For Example:

If I knew what to do with my life, what woulod that be?

If I know how to get the extra cash for XXX, how would I do it?

If I could get XXX, how could I afford it?

If I knew a beter way for XXXX, what would that be?

 

The subconscious does not know the difference real and imagined. IMy

thought is that if you ask a question telling your subconscious that

you already know it, then it will work at getting an answer.

 

Does that make sense?

 

> I think it's about " choices " and decisions.

Definitely.

 

Joe