Dovetailing their criteria and your criteria gives you both what you desire

[Guest guest]

, " James R.

Knippenberg " <erommel@e...> wrote:

 

> Third, who says the topic has to be discussed? Sometimes the most

>fun is when it just happens.

 

A very good point.

 

With the preacher man, I was first irritated, then I was interested.

 

Why, because the conversation went where I wanted to go...

 

....and when I noticed that, I joined in, did some rapport, did NOT

swear, etc.

 

And we were all winners.

 

On another note, why just talk with someone?

 

Well, when I ask myself that MAGIC QUESTION, I can come up with a

couple of hundred positive answers.

 

How many can the group come up with?

 

DR. John M. La Tourrette

[Guest guest]

" just " talking to someone can give me valuable info about what I don't want

to model, about the areas in me that I need to work on, about stuff I DO

want to model, it helps me learn, it keeps my mind open (or not - in which

case I learn more about me than I do about them)....

 

Creating a " winner " situation enhances energy flow and communciation - it

makes my life easier, nicer, it makes where I am at a better place to be.

It reinforces my skills....so it makes me feel better.....it helps me to get

what I want more of the time and recognise what I did wrong on the occasions

when I didn't so again, more tips on what not to model and what not to do.

 

how's that for starters?

-

" docspeed2001 " <docspeed2001

 

Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:03 AM

Dovetailing their criteria and

your criteria gives you both what you desire

 

> And we were all winners.

>

> On another note, why just talk with someone?

>

> Well, when I ask myself that MAGIC QUESTION, I can come up with a

> couple of hundred positive answers.

>