Positive Learnings

[Guest guest]

Hello Helen and ALL,

 

I was thinking more about positive learnings and the concept that we are

here to learn lessons and I think I've discovered there is only one maybe

two lessons to learn (or from my POV lessons to remember).

 

 

I was responding to one of my clients, who has the tendency to stay in

their story (reasons why in their head.) They finally seemed to get what I

had been trying to get them to see and feel over many sessions.

 

He wrote:

Doc,

 

1. Energy is used for calibration, not judgement, and

2. ?? Focus on the information content, for learning ?? for

feedback?? is that right?

 

Xxxxx

 

My response was:

 

1. Everything... energy, words, and actions are to be calibrated.

2. Not for learning but for feedback in relation to the outcome you want.

So you can adjust the information in relation to your outcome. Calibration

helps keep you focused on your goal. Judgment takes your focus off your

goal by putting it on a person, place or thing that is not your goal.

 

3) There is nothing to learn. You have an outcome and you calibrate how

everything relates to your outcome/goal. Nothing to learn. You already know

what you want.

 

4) If there is something you need to learn it is how to set your goal and

calibrate (not judge) everything to it.

 

Doc

 

I could be wrong and yet I think the real thing we are here to learn or

remember (besides " WHO WE REALLY ARE or ) is how to set a useful goal (Well

Formed Intention-Clarity Model, etc) and how to calibrate everything to the

goal so we can make the adjustments necessary to get closer to the goal we set.

 

While doing the above does not tell us " who we really are " it does teach us

how to live " at cause " vs " at effect " .

 

Does this cover pretty much any lesson someone is here to learn?

 

Is there a context or content learning where this wouldn't work?

 

What would be a better life lesson to learn?

 

 

TO Your Best,

Doc Houston

 

 

" Source is looking through my eyes for places to send creation energy or

withhold creation energy. The release or withholding of creation energy is

determined by my emotional feeling. The highest emotional feelings for

receiving creation energy are feelings as if I already have what I want and

appreciation. The highest emotions to withhold creation energy are fear or

doubt that I can have what I want. " My Grampa Vetter