Guest guest Posted December 8, 2005 Report Share Posted December 8, 2005 So it turns out to be that by giving people too much, you set them up for wanting too much ;-) L. had wanted me for some time to do X,Y,Z. Which I didn't really feel like doing. L. cared a lot, and had mentionned on several occasions that NOT doing X, Y, Z was immoral (interesting synchronicity with the current posts) because she is a muslim and has a very clear-cut idea of what MUSTN'T be done. Anyway, she let me have it my way with occasional threats that one day we should stop seeing each other as it was not right. Well I guess for some people the degree of pleasure is equated to the degree of morality, and a great pleasure calls for great morals (morals in their map is unfortunately not always congruent with morals in mine). So 2 last Tuesday she sends me an Email, saying " this is it, I can't continue like that because it's not RIGHT. Please forgive me but I can't see you nor take your calls nor read your mails anymore " All that because I won't do X,Y,Z right now. All that because X,Y,Z is necessary in her brand of morals. What can I do? Well I started grieving deeply (the " poor me " syndrom), then I thought I'd be proactive. So these last two days and a half, everytime I have had a chance I've gone to level with the 321 method, put her Head on mine, gathered what I could as to what her objections were, and proxy-EFTed them. Finally last night before going to sleep I asked for guidance using the mental video. I had a vivid dream that told me to keep on releasing emo-blocks, but I'm not sure whether that's my answer or " just a dream " (but is there such a thing as " just a dream " ?). Now I'm keeping my eyes open, awaiting for guidance to manifest... Ain't life exciting? Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2005 Report Share Posted December 12, 2005 Hello Pierre, Have you considered detaching from the outcome? Be confident of the results, want it but don't need it. Best wishes, Craig , " coudertpy " <coudertpy@c...> wrote: > > So it turns out to be that by giving people too much, you set them > up for wanting too much ;-) > > L. had wanted me for some time to do X,Y,Z. Which I didn't really > feel like doing. L. cared a lot, and had mentionned on several > occasions that NOT doing X, Y, Z was immoral (interesting > synchronicity with the current posts) because she is a muslim and > has a very clear-cut idea of what MUSTN'T be done. Anyway, she let > me have it my way with occasional threats that one day we should > stop seeing each other as it was not right. > > Well I guess for some people the degree of pleasure is equated to > the degree of morality, and a great pleasure calls for great morals > (morals in their map is unfortunately not always congruent with > morals in mine). So 2 last Tuesday she sends me an Email, > saying " this is it, I can't continue like that because it's not > RIGHT. Please forgive me but I can't see you nor take your calls nor > read your mails anymore " All that because I won't do X,Y,Z right > now. All that because X,Y,Z is necessary in her brand of morals. > > What can I do? Well I started grieving deeply (the " poor me " > syndrom), then I thought I'd be proactive. So these last two days > and a half, everytime I have had a chance I've gone to level with > the 321 method, put her Head on mine, gathered what I could as to > what her objections were, and proxy-EFTed them. > > Finally last night before going to sleep I asked for guidance using > the mental video. I had a vivid dream that told me to keep on > releasing emo-blocks, but I'm not sure whether that's my answer > or " just a dream " (but is there such a thing as " just a dream " ?). > Now I'm keeping my eyes open, awaiting for guidance to manifest... > > Ain't life exciting? > > Pierre > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2005 Report Share Posted December 13, 2005 healingenergies- essentialskills , " webrunner2023 " <webrunner2023> wrote: > > Hello Pierre, > > Have you considered detaching from the outcome? Definitely not! That's so contradictory... I intellectually know what you mean, it's so much different on a pragmatic level... How would I even ask for guidance if I could be detatched from the outcome? But wait... being detached and not giving a f--k... two different things, right? A few degrees on the Hawkins'... Pierre " It's not because you like vanilla that you've got to hate chocolate " The Highest Level of Enlightenment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2005 Report Share Posted December 13, 2005 Hi Pierre, >How would I even ask for guidance if I could be detatched from the >outcome? But wait... being detached and not giving a f--k... two >different things, right? A few degrees on the Hawkins'... Man, I like your quick wit. Mentally create the desired outcome. Future pace and see how it feels. If everything is OK use that as the focus of your manifestation. Also, sometimes to create a new future you have to tear down the old one. It can appear to get worse before getting better. Have faith. Or rather confidence in your outcome. " Know " it inside. And leave the door to " how " open. That's what I meant by detach from the outcome. There's more but it would take a book to explain instead of a post. And I'm a beginner too. If you don't have it, you might consider Glover's " Huna the Ancient Religion of Positive Thinking. " Gotta go. It's 1:30 a.m. Craig Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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