I have a little, but (for me) very important request

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Hi Group, the following was emailed me, by someone I don't know,

don't remember any posts from. So, in your informed opinion, people

on this group, how would YOU answer him? Or would you even bother

answering him? If so, why? If not, why not? My answer is at the

bottom. Now, " why did I answer him like that? Presuppose it's NOT

because I'm an unfeeling ass. .

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>michaelhelpme wrote:

 

>Dear Mr. LaTourette.

 

>I have a " little " , but (for me) very important request.

>Some of my earlier emails remained unanswered. That's absolutely ok.

>In fact, I'm grateful they did. I understand that you have A LOT of

>emails to answer,

>including a lot of bugging people begging and that you can make

>better use of your time.

>This one is different.

 

>My request is this:

>PLEASE take your time to seriously answer this email and you won't

>hear from me for a

>long time I'll spend working really hard on improving myself (like

>I already do).

 

>Like you may (or not ) remember, I'm 23 and in education and

>it's hard for me to earn

>more than 1000$ I can easily spend on MY OWN education.

>But I'm willing to invest a lot of what I have and what I earn.

 

>The cheapest possibility to meet you and be taught by you seems to

>be the Huna

>Seminar in July. I think I'll try everything possible to make use

>of that possibility.

>Just a few questions:

 

>What will the fee be like APPROXIMATELY?

>Do you do any one-on-ones? I'm sure you could help me in my

>development even

>beyond my imagination.

>If so, what would you charge for it?

 

>You don't stop mentioning the IDD.

>Do you really think I need it? Yesterday I started a " roundabout "

>treatment with what I

>know so far from EP, EFT and the book from Fred Gallo. OK, I should

>work more

>through all that stuff but is the IDD SO MUCH more succesful that

>it's worth some

>hundred $ I don't have?

>I also apply what you mentioned about the IDD (holding K-27 while

>UL/BL, holding 3rd

>chakra while etc), I hope that's " good enough " .

>If not, how much are the IDD DVDs?

 

>And:

>How much is the

 

- Secrets of the Radiant/Friendly Circuits

 

- Complete Chi Kung Set #6 " Kahuna Secrets Of Vital Force for Self

Empowerment! "

 

- Complete Chi-Kung Set #7 " Maui, Behind Closed Doors Energy Secrets

Taught To

Speed Seduction Speed Life Attendees! "

 

- " Secrets of Psychic Attack "

 

- " How to Build Your Own Bullet Proof Aura " .

 

>I'm also highly interested in everything concerning hypnosis.

 

>I KNOW I won't be able to afford all that once but if you gave me

>the prices I could set up

>medium-term goals.

>Or what would YOU suggest I should buy next?

 

>By the way, I hope you didn't ever get my intentions that way but

>I'm NOT planning to

>steal anything from you and sell it under my name. When, one day, I

>am competent and

>confident enough (and that day WILL come) to teach those skills >

(that's what I have been

>dreaming of for a long time), I'd have NO PROBLEM to teach what

that world famous

>martial arts expert taught ME and mentioning that. I don't care

about the fame, about

>being praised for what *I* have invented.

I want to do what has been my inexplicable passion for a long time,

>I want to help other

people improving and I want to make money with it.

 

>I take you want a certain level of experience from people wanting

to be " Kahuna Mind

>Trainers " and it's your decision if I am already good enough to be

one.

>If so, I'd love to and I'd prefer that to the Huna Seminar although

I am a bit in doubt if I

>can afford it. How much would that be? And when?

 

>I do NOT want to beg here and I do NOT want to " steal " anything

from you.

>I want to learn from you up to a point where I'll be able to teach

other people.

I don't care if what I teach is MY stuff or what I learned from you.

>In fact, you would make a good point in advertising

 

>Now, back to website programming work.

That job that just walked into my room some months ago after I had

>been sitting home

for weeks, not really keen on looking for a job, not making any

>calls and sometimes

thinking

" you undworldly freak. what are you expecting? someone coming in

>here and offering a

job to you? "

 

>But so it was. Ok, he called me before

 

>I don't know how much money it will be exactly but if I'm lucky it

>will be enough for a

>week's trip to the US, learning from YOU.

>Or at least buying some of your DVDs.

Let's see.

 

>I'd like to hear YOUR opinion on that and I'd be chuffed if you

>took your time to answer.

 

>THANKS a lot for your time and your advice.

 

>Michael

 

 

Sorry.

 

My job is NOT to convince anyone.

 

All the answers to your questions are already answered on both my

groups.

 

You dig for information you need.

 

I dig for information I need.

 

That's the Law of Living at Cause.

 

So, group, what is meant by living at cause?

 

 

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DO you mean that if you want something, YOU should do the searching and digging? Instead of "waiting for", we should be "going toward"? If you want something bad enough, then you will go looking for it and do everything in your power to get it? It's basically what it sounds like, being at cause, right? Amir C.

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>how would YOU answer him if you decided to answer him?

>Or would you even bother answering him?

 

I'd say if he showed the courage to take responsibility for what he

wrote here in group and apologised for trying to steal my time by

something he should have already known being useless....

I'd answer him.

 

People learn.

 

So if he learns...

 

- that there's no use in bitching about life circumstances or trying

to get others to help you because of your life conditions.

Take responsibility for EVERYTHING, live at cause, or leave it.

 

- to ask questions in another form than a whole novel

 

- to write my name correctly

 

I'd answer him the following points that are NOT answered on his

groups when he is able to ask them in a way that doesn't take half an

hour to read.

 

- WHAT WILL THE FEE for the 2 day workshop at the huna seminar in july

APPROXIMATELY BE?

(Because there might be people who may want to benefit from the Early

Bird Registration Discount but don't know if they can afford it if the

price for the workshop suddenly doubles the whole costs.)

 

- WILL THERE BE possibilties for ONE-ON-ONES?

 

And I'd explain him IF HE QUALIFIES for:

" I will be certifying a select group of people to teach " my " method in

June. Let me know if interested! "

because apparently, he IS interested.

Although " select group of people " already sounds like very experienced

people that already visited some of my seminars. But maybe he wrote

that just to make sure.

 

Then I'll watch if he is so ashamed of what he wrote and having been

exposed that he has to come back with another name or if he just

learned his lesson and knows how to manage negative feelings like shame

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, " kahunamaker "

<kahunamaker wrote:

>

> Hi Group, the following was emailed me, by someone I don't know,

> don't remember any posts from. So, in your informed opinion, people

> on this group, how would YOU answer him? Or would you even bother

> answering him? If so, why? If not, why not? My answer is at the

> bottom. Now, " why did I answer him like that? Presuppose it's NOT

> because I'm an unfeeling ass. .

> --------------------------

 

I like to think I would have answered him like you did. But as you

probably noticed, I often give more help than maybe I should.

 

The reason you answered him the way you did is the same reason you

like people who 'get shit done'.

 

I mean, let's suppose that you gave in to this guy's request and gave

him the IDD DVDs at a reduced price because he 'can't afford them'.

 

You've basically just reinforced in his mind that the way to solve his

financial lack is to depend on others for handouts. Not good, because

if we all do that, pretty soon there's no-one to hand out the handouts.

 

Whereas instead, you told him 'sorry'. So if he really wants them bad

enough, he'll find a way to make those extra dollars and pay you. And

that reinforces in his mind that the way to solve his financial lack

is to take action and get shit done. Kind of like that guy who owns

www.milliondollarhomepage.com.

 

And you, being a good trainer, know that the best students are eager

and hungry to take positive action to solve their problems. The cost

of your seminars and all the rest of it are just the hurdles to make

sure that only positive, self-reliant, action-orientated people are in

the room. Because that means everyone benefits the best.

 

Being at cause means that if you want it done, you go and do it.

 

Not always easy but a lot healthier than the alternative.

 

 

Phil