RE: How to create wonderful feelings in another at a distance

March 2, 2006

> " Rev. James Vinson Wingo, DD " <kahunaviking

>

>Meanwhile I'm just sort of waiting around, clueless as

>Arthur Dent ... maybe thinking " Why does he ALWAYS do

>this!!! "

>

yes another Hitch Hicker fan.

If not I will pack my towel, fish my 'thumb' out of its hidey-hole and wait

for the Heart of Gold to appear. Then hitch a lift and get myself legless

drinking Pan-Galactic gargle blasters, whilst trying to remember why the

Earth is mostly Harmless! "

March 3, 2006

Hi Rev. James, all,

AMAZING POST !!!!! Thank you so very much

Michael Twomey

P.s. There are also a select handful of Fantastic People on

this list ( s) ( and I feel you KNOW who you are... )

People that I

learn so much from, usually with a huge grin on my face :)

Michael Twomey

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Rev. James Vinson Wingo, DD

;Doc's List

3/1/2006 6:05:52 PM

Re: Re: How to create wonderful feelings in another at a distance

--- kahunamaker <kahunamaker wrote:> Give me my Wal Mart Secrets of Sexual Remote> Influence.First you went to the place where they keep what youwanted.Then you got the items.When you went to pay, the cashier was still helpingthe little old lady he was talking to when we gotthere, explaining her pictures or whatever.You said, "I'm not going to wait around here" ...looked over and saw the lady at the jewelry counter acouple of feet away.All of this was done in classic Wood Element style.Then came the part that used to always baffle mebecause I'm such a goddamn sweetie ...... the old "amp up the 5h1t enough so they can NOTICEthe difference when the good stuff comes."Something like this ....You went in to "Blamer" physiology and tone, walkedtoward the lady who was in the middle of a project andsaid ..."Hey Lady!"She sort of wilted and looked up."You gonna check me out here or what?"She said "I can take care of you here."You then transitioned into "Leveler" as you said"Thank you very much," put the tapes on the counterand said, "I wanna buy these," ... as you un-zippedher with your eyes.At this point, she was in her "poker face," trainedWal Mart response mode ...... she was annoyed, but she wasn't going to let itshow, right?Wrong ...... so you started talking about "Yeah, that lady overthere is holding up the line and I just want to get mystuff and get out of here."Reaction: stone-faced, rote Wal Mart trained verbalresponse.You kept talking ..."Yeah, I don't know what her problem is ... she's beenthere like 15 minutes."Another memorized line.You kept on bitching about the lady in electronicsuntil you "broke" the jewelry lady ... ... i.e. until she let her TRUE EMOTIONS emotionsshow.... i.e. until you could see and hear how irritatedshe REALLY gets at "customers."And HERE's the COOL PART ... You Two Were IN RAPPORT!She was irritated ... NOT at you, BUT at "them" ..."those annoying customers."You then turned on your joy circuits, looked up(zipping) with a BIG GENUINE SMILE ... and said, "Wow!That's a BEAUTIFUL necklace ... where did you getthat?" And she LIT UP LIKE A CHRISTMAS TREE.Meanwhile I'm just sort of waiting around, clueless asArthur Dent ... maybe thinking "Why does he ALWAYS dothis!!!"You said, "Thank You! Have a nice day."As we walked off, she smiled sweetly, gave a littlewave and said, "Come again."No pun intended.On the way out you looked at me and said, "So, whatdid you notice?""Huh?" ... (bleary-eyed look of confusion)Then ... about five days later ... I went "Oh, THAT'swhat happened!"So maybe I'm getting faster?Or not.--Vincehttp://huna-ohana.com