Guest guest Posted March 5, 2006 Report Share Posted March 5, 2006 Thanks Rusty for your answer. How you answer that question might depend on your criteria. You identified a method (push/pull) where as I was thinking intent: those that are conscious & willfull suckers and those that do it unconsciously. I have experienced both kinds of people you mentioned but had never thought of the bitchers as pulling energy from me. My thought was that what they did was more akin to contamination of the common feild and aura of the person they bitched to. I think some bitchers tend to get their own energy from running adrenalin (all that self-righteousnes, or anger, or whatever). However, considering what you say, it seems that the effect of their energy could could cause leaks in the aura thus you would feel drained even if they arent sucking on you per se. Or maybe they are. Don't know. In thinking about two people I have known, one a bitcher and one a whiner, and in comparing what I remember, I have felt drained in both cases. Odd though, with the whiner, I involuntarily crossed my arms over my solar plexus but did not think to or just do it with the bitcher. And with the bitcher, it felt more like I was being worn down; it took a while for me to become aware of my energy drop. In retrospect, I'd say my energy was getting scrambled as I felt wigged out. With the whiner my awareness was almost immediate. I was not mentally off, just aware of feeling weakened. . With the bitcher, a friend I sometimes worked with, I told him I would bitch with him about anything new our " common enemy " Monsanto did, but only just enough to momentarily rant about what ever was new. After that, I only wanted to discuss positive actions and options and the " good stuff " we were doing. With the whiner, I cut of the relationship totally. I remember another incident when I felt invaded, as if someone was trying to psyche me out or pull information from me and at that time I consciously crossed my arms over my solar plexus and put up conscious resistance. I did not at that time feel drained, just suddenly felt vunerable and a need to close up and close off. This was at a party I had gone to with a friend, and most of the people there had been taking a class on how to be psyhic. Now that I a thinking about it, there were two other occasions when I was aware of some one who felt invasive. I saw their face looking at me inside my head. One felt curious, if trying to figure something out she did not understand. The other felt controlling and angered that I had refused to go along with something she wanted me to do. Now that I've read DE, maybe my first protection instinct would be to zip up and well...uh....... guess I better go read the book again for specifics ..... or hit the archives. Of course, if I could observe auras , I would not be guessing and suspecting, I'd see and know what was going on. g Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2006 Report Share Posted March 5, 2006 Hi all and Gail, Thanks for this info. It was very helpful. As a former unintentional energy sucker i am thinking that many are unaware that they are sucking energy. I now have a dear friend of mine who sucks energy.She is an intelligent person but completely away from spiritual and energetic work. She is a psychiatrist who is not healthy now. I had to gave a decision of staying away from her but I wished I could help her by making her aware of the problem? How can I do that?That is really hard to say to someone who does not believe in energy body concept?Any insights will be appreciated. Also could some one explain me if energy sucking through e-mailing may be possible?I am member of various lists and notes from some lists members make me weak.That does not happen when the person writes through the list but when he writes personally to me.Is that another way of energy transfer or is it the personality or the way of one's expressing himself that bothers me. Thank you very much in advance. nil - " Gail Raby " <graby Sunday, March 05, 2006 3:35 AM spiritual vampires > Thanks Rusty for your answer. How you answer that question might > depend on your > criteria. You identified a method (push/pull) where as I was thinking > intent: those that are conscious & willfull suckers and those that do > it unconsciously. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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