I want peace and happiness given to me, I'm nice & deserve it

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In a message dated 4/3/06 6:20:53 AM, kahunamaker writes:

 

 

Actually I see the junk that gets in the way AS NECESSARY THINGS we

need to have happen to us BECAUSE WE NEEDED THEM.

 

I'm talking about the Higher concept of LEARNING EXPERIENCES.

 

I'm talking about "we get the lessons we deserve regardless of

whether our conscious minds desire those lessons, or not."

 

Does that mean I want people to be in pain?

 

No, but people are in pain.

 

And sometimes, the lessons they need to learn to take them through

that pain are refused by them.

 

They abdicate their responsibilities for their minds, bodies and

spirits to the care of someone else.

 

Someone else that is ALWAYS LEAST QUALIFIED to take that

responsibility that should be their responsibility, and NO ONE

ELSE's!

 

> and made it easier to "get it"

> that I deserved to be happy, and could be happy - and then to make

the

> choice to allow it and fully experience it, in spite of whatever

>road bumps life throws me.

 

Nice.

 

Metaphysically we are NEVER given any more than we can handle, even

though when we get bucked off a few times we begin to wonder.

 

So as song as I'm walking and talking and taking action with my full

faculties, BRING IT ON!

 

Figuring out the answers about what we need to do, and were we need

to evolve to is one of the neatest and most FUN THINGS to do on this

planet.

 

> Take care,

 

I do.

 

Thank you Carol Ann for a thought provoking post.

 

 

www.mentaltrainingsecrets.com

> Carol Ann

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi ya Doc:

 

Amazing how things come when you need them. This post came this morning, where I felt at my wits end. I keep thinking that I am tired of the lessons. I live with someone who absolutely drives me up a wall and leaves me disoriented. The good thing about that is that I ALWAYS learn something, whether by seeking out teachers (books, tapes, your lists) and take a growth spurt from that, or I find something to learn from the actual person/experience and the crazy making that is him.

 

Since I am an away from motivational style, I guess he causes me to leap for greater and greater heights... but man.. that sure is wearing me down.

 

I spent a sleepless night agonizing as to what to do, what to think, what philosophy to undertake to get through yet another impossible situation. Then your post came... and I got more centered and got some clarity... and am reviewing your Remote Viewing/Remote Influencing CD's. I am realizing that there are levels to learning things. So rather than jump around from process to process, I find that going over what I already know.. gives me a new working understanding and I seem to hear things that I never heard the first few times around. I always wonder..."how did I NOT hear that, that's crucial to know".

 

I just wish that my away from strategy wasn't so strong. I don't move unless there is massive pain...I have gotten pretty good at tolerating crapola... which as I type this realize that it is SUCH a big mistake. How the heck do I get off this merry-go-round?

 

Any thoughts or advice for this weary traveler?

 

Paulina

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--- <carolann.rowland wrote:

 

> I guess in my experience, what energy medicine and energy

>psychology offer is a way to balance ourselves

 

Yep.

 

Before there is energy there is thought...

 

....but thought is also an energy, so energy is all there is.

 

What a pickle.

 

Definitions...

 

And it's pretty damn hard to balance a pickle on it's end, like we

humans stand, is it not?

 

> and get all of the " stuff " that interferes

> with happiness, out of the way.

 

Well,

 

The " stuff " that you are mentioning is the REAL REASON people can be

happy, some of the time.

 

I'm hungry.

 

So I get a hamburger, now I'm happy?

 

Depends.

 

My Triple warmer is in over drive.

 

So I sedate TW and thump my Spleen Lymphatics, now I'm happy?

 

I doubt it.

 

So, what do the above " drills " preclude?

 

> Happiness is still a choice that we have to make.

 

Well, that depends upon how we think and take action about what

happens to us, doesn't it?

 

And about what we define as happiness.

 

If I'm crossing the road, thinking about my hunny, then I hear this

honking behind me...

 

....so I leap out of the speeding car's way...

 

I'm happy?

 

Or am I sad that the honking person disrupted my " happy thoughts " ?

 

That asshole!

 

My wife wanted to go to the Bahamas. Scuba, submarines, parachuting,

beaches, blab, blab, blab.

 

I like a good seminar and a good book store.

 

So I went to the Bahamas and gave a seminar. I took my wife.

 

Do you think she was happy?

 

Do you think I was happy?

 

> However, I do feel that EP and EM are a very gentle and

>relatively easy road to attaining happiness,

 

Gentle?

 

Well I guess you've NOT yet had your gait reflexes massaged properly.

 

That was immense pain for me.

 

Then again, the MORE PRESSURE that is applied to me on a Spinal

Flush, the happier I am.

 

Have you ever had Donna massage your K-27's?

 

Massive pain!!!

 

I guess it depends.

 

Easy?

 

I know a fellow on this list, Carlos, who's been with Donna for 8

years and he still cannot trace his Meridians. And hopefully you

never need work with him at a seminar because he really does believe

he knows stuff because he's " attended " so many classes.

 

So, even though it's NOT easy, he thinks he's good.

 

Now me, it's NOT easy either.

 

I'll go to a seminar. Take notes like crazy. Work the drills on

anyone and everyone that walks and breaths, and can't run fast

enough to get away from me...

 

I get the DVD's.

 

I outline the DVD's. I take more notes, I find more people. I give

seminars, and I AM IN HEAVEN!

 

Easy?

 

Nope.

 

Fun?

 

Yep!

 

Gees.

 

I wonder what this post is about?

 

> if we choose to.

 

I like that. A proactive statement.

 

If I could be happy what would I need to do to feel that?

 

> It has certainly worked for me, making it much easier to

> see and heal the junk that got in the way,

 

Actually I see the junk that gets in the way AS NECESSARY THINGS we

need to have happen to us BECAUSE WE NEEDED THEM.

 

I'm talking about the Higher concept of LEARNING EXPERIENCES.

 

I'm talking about " we get the lessons we deserve regardless of

whether our conscious minds desire those lessons, or not " .

 

Does that mean I want people to be in pain?

 

No, but people are in pain.

 

And sometimes, the lessons they need to learn to take them through

that pain are refused by them.

 

They abdicate their responsibilities for their minds, bodies and

spirits to the care of someone else.

 

Someone else that is ALWAYS LEAST QUALIFIED to take that

responsibility that should be their responsibility, and NO ONE

ELSE's!

 

> and made it easier to " get it "

> that I deserved to be happy, and could be happy - and then to make

the

> choice to allow it and fully experience it, in spite of whatever

>road bumps life throws me.

 

Nice.

 

Metaphysically we are NEVER given any more than we can handle, even

though when we get bucked off a few times we begin to wonder.

 

So as song as I'm walking and talking and taking action with my full

faculties, BRING IT ON!

 

Figuring out the answers about what we need to do, and were we need

to evolve to is one of the neatest and most FUN THINGS to do on this

planet.

 

> Take care,

 

I do.

 

Thank you Carol Ann for a thought provoking post.

 

 

www.mentaltrainingsecrets.com

> Carol Ann

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Pandora51 wrote:

> Hi ya Doc:

>

> Amazing how things come when you need them. This post came this

morning,

> where I felt at my wits end. I keep thinking that I am tired of

the lessons.

 

Well, the lessons come anyway, don't they?

 

And, I've noticed that when I KNOW WHAT I WANT and then take action

TOWARDS WHAT I WANT, those " negative " lessons seem to literally

disappear.

 

> I live with someone who absolutely drives me up a wall and leaves

>me disoriented.

 

Well, I'm not saying that you should change living companions, but...

 

I do kick out clients.

 

I do refuse relatives the right to visit me, if I don't appreciate

them or their values.

 

If I'm in my office, and the door is closed, and some idiot attempts

to bother me when I'm busy, I'll GUT HIM!

 

My building door states, " NO WALK-IN! " . And if some idiot walks in

that door, I boot them out very aggressively and violently.

 

If a client telephones and starts telling me what to do, I tell them

to go someplace else, then I politely and immediately hang up on

them.

 

When you know what you want, and you know what you'll accept, all of

the above is very easy to do.

 

> I spent a sleepless night agonizing as to what to do, what to

think, what

> philosophy to undertake to get through yet another impossible

situation.

 

I think that your away-froms are coming through here.

 

You seem to be worried about what you'll lose in the relationship,

instead of " WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP " .

 

Totally different concepts.

 

> I just wish that my away from strategy wasn't so strong. I don't

move unless there is massive pain...I have gotten pretty good at

tolerating crapola...

 

Well, once you know what you want, versus knowing what you don't

want, much of that pain is by-passed right off the bat.

 

> which as I type this realize that it is SUCH a big mistake. How

the heck do I get off this merry-go-round?

 

Know what you want.

 

If you are where you don't want to be, then either make it go away,

so you can get what you want...

 

....or you go away and do what you need to do to get what you want.

 

Then when you get what you think you want, ask yourself, " is this

what I want? "

 

If it's not, then you again establish what YOU want.

 

NOT what they want.

 

Pretty simple.

 

But then, I'm a guy.

 

Hope this helps.

 

 

> Any thoughts or advice for this weary traveler?

>

> Paulina

>