Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 SO, the first signs of " unattraction " or " conflict " in a relationship, you think both parties should bail out? What if (and I know this is probably a long stretch for you to take this), but what if someone were to actually LIKE you enough to take the effort to help you experience the kind of relationship that would fulfill you (assuming it is possible for you to be fulfilled). Would you then make that person pay hell for LIKING you enough to do something nice for you? Or if someone were to take the trouble to learn the various meta programs so they could communicate in ways that are meaningful for you, would you then make their life hell for trying to communicate better with you? My take on this is that any person with experience using these skills would know enough to AVOID a person who has suck negative beliefs about seduction, romance, and communication between two people. Does getting dressed nice or doing your hair or nails or fixing a person's favorite dinner because you LIKE them amount to " stooping to other means to seduce them " ? And, by the way, you know almost nothing about attractor fields and persuasion. MOST healthy, sane women have a good enough hook up to their intuition to recognize the type of person who is only out to use and take advantage of them. And those who attract pond scum do so because they had a lesson to learn. So what's YOUR point? Just because some people are out to take advantage of others, you would throw out the baby with the bath water? What if we just get rid of ALL women because some of them are cold, hateful, vengeful bitches? Doesn't quite fix the damn problem, does it? A couple of years ago, I wrote a personals ad and someone who was 19 at the time replied, knowing that I was more than 10 years older than her. She liked the ad and wanted to get to know me more. She and I went out a few times, and she STILL swears to this day that I'm the MOST INCREDIBLE man she's ever met. She HAD a past history of going out with guys who treated her like crap and having friends who took advantage of her. Yet spending a few hours with me let her know just how WONDERFUL and CARING of a woman SHE is, and just what WONDERFUL THINGS SHE CAN EXPERIENCE with someone. It FOREVER changed the standard she had for what's possible to experience with a man. I guess I was just being a selfish, manipulative pervert trying to take advantage of the unsuspecting, huhn? So if you have a problem with someone learning MEANINGFUL ways to attract romance and love into their life and to help OTHERS experience more love and romance, then that is YOUR problem, and no one else's, so quit trying to do your black magician on those with real good intentions to help others experience the BEST they possibly can have in life. :-) What you do and what you attract is YOUR choice. Have fun! :-) Jim www.mindcontrolcentral.com >Barbara Zimmerman <barbjean >Apr 26, 2006 7:11 PM >To: >Re: Should you really be using the sacred huna for seduction? > >I am sure that if someone is attracted to you, that you don't have to stoop to other means to seduce them. If they are not attracted to you, why do you want them? Find someone who is. Seems you would have to be sexually depraved to manipulate unsuspecting people.If that every happened to me or mine and I found out about it, there would be hell to pay. >BZ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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