This new book can save your life!

[Guest guest]

I am fascinated by Richard Bandler's new book, " Get the Life You

Want: the secrets to quick and lasting life change with neuro-

linguistic programming " .

 

For me, going to a Bandler seminar is normally a cross between a

state of being tranced out all the time, or being a left brainer

attempting to understand what in Hell he is doing/has done to get the

results he got.

 

Either way, most of us miss a lot. I know I did.

 

In his new book Bandler shows up what we've missed in an elegant way

that is very effective, easy to understand and easy to use right now.

 

Bandler conversationally goes over `seeming' complex concepts such as

Time Lines, Time Distortion, Eliminating Bad Thoughts, Building

Better Suggestions Exercise, Submodalities, peak performance, Falling

More in Love exercises and much, much more.

 

He has taken what I used to think were complex processes and in a

very simple yet effective manner has made them understandable to

those that just read the stories and pretend they are in the stories.

He will ask you to do drills. Do the drills and then you know what

he's referencing.

 

One aspect I particularly fell in love with was his observation and

use of feelings (emotions) that exist (physical location) and move

around (certain directions make them worse and certain directions

make them better) in our bodies.

 

I.e. the important question to ask people when they say " I feel

frustrated, " is, " Where? Where do the feelings start? Where do you

feel it first in your body? Where does it more to? " Feelings can't

stay still. They are always moving somewhere, in some direction.

 

" The fact that it's moving means that you can move it faster, you can

move it slower, you can move it forward, and you can move it

backwards. So our feelings are NOT outside of our control. In fact

this is the very thing most of us need to gain control of because,

when you do, you can alter your feelings. "

 

As Richard says in the preface to his book, " I did not look for `what

went wrong' or the `whys.' I did not look for cures. I looked at what

worked, no matter how. If a few good therapists `fixed' anybody, I

looked at what they actually did. When people got over problems on

their own, I looked at what had happened. So this book is a series of

lessons that teach what others have learned that works. "

 

I love the book because it is so immediately usable, and the use of

those concepts are so instantly effective on myself and on my clients.

 

John M. La Tourrette, PhD

http://mentaltrainingsecrets.com

[Guest guest]

Great review, Doc. Makes me want to get a copy immediately.

Judith

 

 

 

 

On Behalf Of docspeed2001

Saturday, September 27, 2008 8:50 PM

 

This new book can save your

life!

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am fascinated by Richard Bandler's new book,

" Get the Life You

Want: the secrets to quick and lasting life change with neuro-

linguistic programming " .

 

For me, going to a Bandler seminar is normally a cross between a

state of being tranced out all the time, or being a left brainer

attempting to understand what in Hell he is doing/has done to get the

results he got.

 

Either way, most of us miss a lot. I know I did.

 

In his new book Bandler shows up what we've missed in an elegant way

that is very effective, easy to understand and easy to use right now.

 

Bandler conversationally goes over `seeming' complex concepts such as

Time Lines, Time Distortion, Eliminating Bad Thoughts, Building

Better Suggestions Exercise, Submodalities, peak performance, Falling

More in Love exercises and much, much more.

 

He has taken what I used to think were complex processes and in a

very simple yet effective manner has made them understandable to

those that just read the stories and pretend they are in the stories.

He will ask you to do drills. Do the drills and then you know what

he's referencing.

 

One aspect I particularly fell in love with was his observation and

use of feelings (emotions) that exist (physical location) and move

around (certain directions make them worse and certain directions

make them better) in our bodies.

 

I.e. the important question to ask people when they say " I feel

frustrated, " is, " Where? Where do the feelings start? Where do you

feel it first in your body? Where does it more to? " Feelings can't

stay still. They are always moving somewhere, in some direction.

 

" The fact that it's moving means that you can move it faster, you can

move it slower, you can move it forward, and you can move it

backwards. So our feelings are NOT outside of our control. In fact

this is the very thing most of us need to gain control of because,

when you do, you can alter your feelings. "

 

As Richard says in the preface to his book, " I did not look for `what

went wrong' or the `whys.' I did not look for cures. I looked at what

worked, no matter how. If a few good therapists `fixed' anybody, I

looked at what they actually did. When people got over problems on

their own, I looked at what had happened. So this book is a series of

lessons that teach what others have learned that works. "

 

I love the book because it is so immediately usable, and the use of

those concepts are so instantly effective on myself and on my clients.

 

John M. La Tourrette, PhD

http://mentaltrainingsecrets.com