Notice that 'no where' do you 'do it' to them...

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<mjh96002 wrote:

>

> I have been using hypnosis,nlp and ritual magick to change a

certain

> state that i go into....

>

> I have had quite an adversarial past with psychotic peole from an

> environment i used to live in...

>

> I live in a new environment and i am a changed person... BUT when i

> go back to the old environment and deal with people from my past i

> slip back to the person i used to be...

>

> and put myself in a victimizing situation...

>

> I just unconscioulsy slip into that and it really disturbs me and

> sets me back...

>

> I dont like this... I first got into all of this to free myself

from

> this and paid others to do the same and nothing I always get

> something else, broken promises and excuses...

>

> I want change for what i was originally looking fo and that is

> getting rid of all the past programming when dealing with these

> people and environment and take a different action to defend my

> boundaries more aggressively the way i always wanted to.

>

> thats all i want because i have to re establish my self there due

to

> econmoy its the only choice i hace and it is a healthy one I dont

> need the old me and my oldreactions fucking it all up....

>

> any help here ? any thoughts ?

 

Sure,

 

Quite a few.

 

But this post probably will not be for you but for others that want

similar types of good information.

 

Thanks to Aaron I did go back and read the 'above' post.

 

What is easily seen is the violation of the 'self-responsibility'

rule, and also a massive violation of the four powers that J. Michael

Hall talks about and teachs so much.

 

The four self-powers of:

 

1. You are responsible to yourself for your own thoughts.

 

2. You are responsible to yourself for your own emotions.

 

3. You are responsible to self and to others for your own words.

 

4. You are responsible to self and to others for your own behavior.

 

Two authors I really do suggest be read, studied and concepts applied

are L. Michael Hall's works and the book " Beliefs " by Robert Dilts.

 

The first book I suggest anyone study by Hall is his " Games Skinny

People Play " (an 'off the top' of my mind paraphrase of the actual

title).

 

Once you read that book you'll notice it's about much more than

getting slim, in shape and 'looking great'.

 

It's amazing how everyone in your envirnoment seems to change for the

better when you apply those four powers from the understanding

of " Beliefs " .

 

Notice that NO WHERE do you 'do it' to 'them'.

 

Of course, I've been there and done that also;-)

 

Some great learning experiences...a few different wives...

 

John La Tourrette, PhD

[Guest guest]

Went to the author's web site: http://www.neurosemantics.com/

 

The book is still listed there for $20 plus $5 shipping. Exact title is: Games

Fit and Slim People Play.

 

I first went on the web looking for L Michael Hall's book, starting at

Amazon.com. Prices started at $81.90 for a used copy and went up to $200-$300 on

other sites.

 

$20 from Michael is much better.

 

Could not locate a place to order so called the phone number listed on the

contact page and actually got Michael himself even though it is probably 7 p.m.

in CO.

 

Michael took the order and will be mailing the book tomorrow.

 

Thanks for the suggestion, Doc.

 

Happy Holidays to all.

 

Mary Nelson

www.eft4everyone.com

 

 

 

>docspeed2001 wrote:

> Sure,

>

> Quite a few.

>

> But this post probably will not be for you but for others that want

> similar types of good information.

>

> Thanks to Aaron I did go back and read the 'above' post.

 

> What is easily seen is the violation of the 'self-responsibility'

> rule, and also a massive violation of the four powers that L. Michael Hall

talks about and teachs so much.

 

> The four self-powers of:

 

> 1. You are responsible to yourself for your own thoughts.

 

> 2. You are responsible to yourself for your own emotions.

 

> 3. You are responsible to self and to others for your own words.

 

> 4. You are responsible to self and to others for your own behavior.

 

> Two authors I really do suggest be read, studied and concepts applied are L.

Michael Hall's works and the book " Beliefs " by Robert Dilts.

 

> The first book I suggest anyone study by Hall is his " Games Skinny

> People Play " (an 'off the top' of my mind paraphrase of the actual

> title).

 

> Once you read that book you'll notice it's about much more than

> getting slim, in shape and 'looking great'.

 

> It's amazing how everyone in your envirnoment seems to change for the better

when you apply those four powers from the understanding

> of " Beliefs " .

>

> Notice that NO WHERE do you 'do it' to 'them'.

 

> Of course, I've been there and done that also;-)

 

> Some great learning experiences...a few different wives...

 

> John La Tourrette, PhD