Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Thank you to those who gave insights as to handle the 4 leaf clover sent to me by Mum. I hope that it doesn't leave her purse depleted. The very next day, 18th, my husband of 30 years (anniversary in a few weeks) came home and told me he no longer loves me and that we should separate. To say that I am devastated is an understatement. He moved into the spare bedroom last night and is going to tell our girls (adults) later to day. I am in a state of shock, I have no one to talk to, I don't know what to do, where I am going to live, how I am going to live. I am trying to not be acrimonious as I feel that won't achieve anything. I have this big knot in my stomach and throat and I can't eat or sleep. With all the uncertainty in the world at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could spare some energy for me I would be most greatful. Sorry for the cross post. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 In a message dated 03/19/2003 3:48:01 PM Pacific Standard Time, pietersen writes: > With all the uncertainty in > the world at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could > spare > some energy for me I would be most greatful. Sorry for the cross post. > > > Chris > Dearest Chris, Speaking from hard experience, please get yourself a good lawyer... Mercedes Mercedes Rose Herndon Reiki Master/Teacher, Artist, Photographer Designer & Creator of Silk Healing Scarves Owner of " Just for You " Custom Cards Coauthor & Publisher of: " Loving Thoughts for Gentle Hearts; v. 1 - Goals, Dreams & Affirmations " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 **I am so sorry to hear about your troubles Chris. I am sending you positive energy as of this moment. Remember, when one door closes, another opens. Love and healing light. Pegasus Chris said: > Thank you to those who gave insights as to handle the 4 leaf > clover sent to me by Mum. & nbsp; I hope that it doesn't leave her > purse depleted. > > The very next day, 18th, my husband of 30 years (anniversary in a > few weeks) came home and told me he no longer loves me and that we > should separate. & nbsp; To say that I am devastated is an > understatement. & nbsp; He moved into the spare bedroom last night > and is going to tell our girls (adults) later to day. & nbsp; I am > in a state of shock, I have no one to talk to, I don't know what > to do, where I am going to live, how I am going to live. & nbsp; I > am trying to not be acrimonious as I feel that won't achieve > anything. & nbsp; I have this big knot in my stomach and throat and > I can't eat or sleep. & nbsp; With all the uncertainty in the world > at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could spare > some energy for me I would be most greatful. & nbsp; Sorry for the > cross post. > > > Chris > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 In a message dated 19/3/03 23:48:01, pietersen writes: << The very next day, 18th, my husband of 30 years (anniversary in a few weeks) came home and told me he no longer loves me and that we should separate >> ((((Chris)))) Such a shock for you after a long marriage. I think you allowed to be cross!!!! Healing on its way .... as it is for everyone who asks, if I don't respond. Perhaps the four leaf clover was sent to give you support. Its weird how the intuition knows that something is coming up for us and starts the protection. Keep well. Love, Light & Laughter ~ Diane xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Hello Chris Im new to this group but have sent reiki & prayers to you, Love light & reiki Cath _______________ Overloaded with spam? With MSN 8, you can filter it out http://join.msn.com/?page=features/junkmail & pgmarket=en-gb & XAPID=32 & DI=1059 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 lighting a candle for you ....love and good wishes Fiona xx www.redvelvetuk.com www.redvelvetuk@... womens menstrual well-being, Pleasure Puss cloth pads, Mooncup, and other related goodies - Chris CandleMagick ; Spells-n-Such ; Wednesday, March 19, 2003 11:38 PM [CrystalHW] Four leaf clover- positive energy needed +++++ Thank you to those who gave insights as to handle the 4 leaf clover sent to me by Mum. I hope that it doesn't leave her purse depleted. The very next day, 18th, my husband of 30 years (anniversary in a few weeks) came home and told me he no longer loves me and that we should separate. To say that I am devastated is an understatement. He moved into the spare bedroom last night and is going to tell our girls (adults) later to day. I am in a state of shock, I have no one to talk to, I don't know what to do, where I am going to live, how I am going to live. I am trying to not be acrimonious as I feel that won't achieve anything. I have this big knot in my stomach and throat and I can't eat or sleep. With all the uncertainty in the world at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could spare some energy for me I would be most greatful. Sorry for the cross post. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Chris, That would be GOOD luck. Better to be without him than with him when he does not want to be there. At least that is the way I look at it. I know you are devistated right now. And hurt...feeling betrayed. But you will come out stronger for it all. You will become the best YOU that is possible. I think that we all become dependant on a partner and loose part of ourselves sometimes. Now you can get on with discovering who you are and how you want to live. When the pain starts to ebb you will begin to feel a kind of rejoicing in finding yourself. It is a long process, one that will not come overnight. You have a great support system right here. And you have to grieve the loss....heal the pain...and allow yourself to get to know your own self....Know we are all here for you. Sandy Master DreamMaster Shelties Panama City, FL http://www.geocities.com/slmaster57 - " Chris " <pietersen <CandleMagick >; <Spells-n-Such >; Wednesday, March 19, 2003 5:38 PM [CrystalHW] Four leaf clover- positive energy needed +++++ > Thank you to those who gave insights as to handle the 4 leaf clover sent to > me by Mum. I hope that it doesn't leave her purse depleted. > > The very next day, 18th, my husband of 30 years (anniversary in a few weeks) > came home and told me he no longer loves me and that we should separate. To > say that I am devastated is an understatement. He moved into the spare > bedroom last night and is going to tell our girls (adults) later to day. I > am in a state of shock, I have no one to talk to, I don't know what to do, > where I am going to live, how I am going to live. I am trying to not be > acrimonious as I feel that won't achieve anything. I have this big knot in > my stomach and throat and I can't eat or sleep. With all the uncertainty in > the world at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could spare > some energy for me I would be most greatful. Sorry for the cross post. > > > Chris > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Dear Chris My partner and I have nearly split up after 7 years, we were very rocky and both very happy to each go our separate ways, I thought that was that, you know? To be truthful, I still haven't really got over it - and I'd just done the experimental attunement transmission??? (lol!) I really have been through it these last couple of weeks - and, sorry Peggy, I almost regretted doing it, I have had some serious rethinking to do, I can tell you!! We both came to our senses, but it's taken over 2 weeks!! Chris I really do feel for you - you can have lots of love and hugs and positive energy from me - and thanks to Peggy/ Rosequartz, plenty of it too! You can take as much as you like. Hold a nice piece of clear quartz - and visualise us, your friends and your guides, sending some warm, loving and positive energy through it to Both of you, it will give you both a lift and who knows? It might even get you talking, hopefully, that might just be all that it takes... Hope all goes well for you, Love and hugs and courage Sam Krystalartist wrote:In a message dated 03/19/2003 3:48:01 PM Pacific Standard Time, pietersen writes: > With all the uncertainty in > the world at the moment Everyones focus is for peace, but if you could > spare > some energy for me I would be most greatful. Sorry for the cross post. > > > Chris > Dearest Chris, Speaking from hard experience, please get yourself a good lawyer... Mercedes Mercedes Rose Herndon Reiki Master/Teacher, Artist, Photographer Designer & Creator of Silk Healing Scarves Owner of " Just for You " Custom Cards Coauthor & Publisher of: " Loving Thoughts for Gentle Hearts; v. 1 - Goals, Dreams & Affirmations " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Dear Chris, You have many to talk to in this group.I am ready to listen to any kind of feeling. First of all,do not leave your home.Let your husband leave. All happened now is for the benefit of you and all.You will see later.There might be hard times to develop our patience and endurance.I do not know your possibilities,but if you have adult children who live seperately ,you might go near them for some time.If you can afford, take a trip.If you can not do all these, walk in a park,sit under a tree,give your back to the tree and ask it.You will get an answer after half an hour. All of us are parts of scenarios written long before our lives, we have accepted to play in it.Maybe role of your husband ended.These scenarios are perfect when you watch them from a much wider perspective. I do believe good happenings will be.Only be patient,do not disgust,do not revolt.Try to be quiet,believe in God and Pray.I will ask God for peace for you. Love, Lale positive energy as of this moment. Remember, when one door closes, > another opens. Love and healing light. Pegasus > > Chris said: >> Thank you to those who gave insights as to handle the 4 leaf > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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