Guest guest Posted April 16, 2003 Report Share Posted April 16, 2003 Hello everyone, Just letting you know that my husband is going back to counselling, his a[[ointment is this morning, mine is tomorrow and then she will have us together after that. He came to see me last Tuesday evening and said after our talk the night before, he would go to counselling with an open mind with only one of two outcomes. One we could rebuild or two we would go our seperate ways, no bandaid fixes and not to get false hopes up. As it was the first positive thing that had happened since he left I couldn t help but be a little hopeful. The when he called in on Sunday arvo to drop some photos off from our youngest daughter he was really uncomfortable and aggitated. I don't know if he was having seconds thoughts about the counselling or just because of the day it was (30th wedding anniversary). Needless to say I have been super aprahisive since then. I think I have been on the verge of a panic attack a few times, I have a Dr appointment this morning so I will mention that. If he is still willing to keep on with counselling I know it is going to be very hard and rough over the coming weeks and months, thats why I could do with the extra energy anyone can spare again. Also I know I have to stop being available to him when he calls and says he is coming over (jobs in the yard etc) and he usually has a coffee and sits and chats for a while and spends some time with the dogs then is gone again. It is like he dumps things on me and runs away. He is staying with friends who haven't even bothered to call in or phone me just to see if I am OK. That saddens me but I can't dwell on it. Although it does worry me as to what they are saying, they are both in second marriages. Oh well! Thank you in advance for your help, I am sure that to have got to this point about having counselling was the result of all the positive energy being sent because at first he didn't want even to know about counselling. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2003 Report Share Posted April 16, 2003 Chris said: > > Hello everyone, > > Just letting you know that my husband is going back to counselling, his > a[[ointment is this morning, mine is tomorrow and then she will have us > together after that. That is wonderful news. With all the problems we have had during our 10 years of marriage; we have came very close several times to separating; and only the Goddess knows what held us together. If it is for both your highest goods that you remain together, I am sure the counselling will be successful. I will add you both to my reiki box, to ensure continued positive energies are sent. Can you please email me off-list with your full names, and where you live please. in frith crystal & reiki rainbows Hazel Angelstar Crystals - Crystal & Reiki healing; Jewellery & Gifts incorporating crystals & gemstones www.angelstar-crystals.co.uk ------------ This email was sent using http://mail.uk2.net UK2.NET - UK's Biggest Host! - http://uk2.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2003 Report Share Posted April 16, 2003 Hello Chris I do hope that everything works out for you both, if its meant to be, it will. In the meantime, Reiki on its way, to help you get through this difficult time. Lots of love & light, Gloria ---- 16 April 2003 01:36:09 ; CandleMagick ; CrystalReikiSpiritHealers; Spells-n-Such [CrystalHW] Positive energy needed - update Hello everyone, Just letting you know that my husband is going back to counselling, his a[[ointment is this morning, mine is tomorrow and then she will have us together after that. He came to see me last Tuesday evening and said after our talk the night before, he would go to counselling with an open mind with only one of two outcomes. One we could rebuild or two we would go our seperate ways, no bandaid fixes and not to get false hopes up. As it was the first positive thing that had happened since he left I couldn t help but be a little hopeful. The when he called in on Sunday arvo to drop some photos off from our youngest daughter he was really uncomfortable and aggitated. I don't know if he was having seconds thoughts about the counselling or just because of the day it was (30th wedding anniversary). Needless to say I have been super aprahisive since then. I think I have been on the verge of a panic attack a few times, I have a Dr appointment this morning so I will mention that. If he is still willing to keep on with counselling I know it is going to be very hard and rough over the coming weeks and months, thats why I could do with the extra energy anyone can spare again. Also I know I have to stop being available to him when he calls and says he is coming over (jobs in the yard etc) and he usually has a coffee and sits and chats for a while and spends some time with the dogs then is gone again. It is like he dumps things on me and runs away. He is staying with friends who haven't even bothered to call in or phone me just to see if I am OK. That saddens me but I can't dwell on it. Although it does worry me as to what they are saying, they are both in second marriages. Oh well! Thank you in advance for your help, I am sure that to have got to this point about having counselling was the result of all the positive energy being sent because at first he didn't want even to know about counselling. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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