Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 hello my father has gout and he suffers of a really bad pain in his feet knees, and sometimes his wrists. i would like some stone suggestion and how to use the stone. does he have to carry it, place it where it hurts?? thank you. blessings fabiola Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 In response to the issue about whether healing can be foisted upon someone who doesn't want it...... It is my understanding that we can/will only take on what needs healing right now and are ready to move forward with. If we are closed to it, offers of help will be refused and not taken on board (eg you can take a horse to water but cannot make him drink) Sometimes the time isn't right If there is acceptance then this is another step, or two, on the journey. Doesn't mean it will be a smooth ride, the path may be rock strewn ! The path may meander rather than go 'as the crow flies' It is easier to go up a very steep incline on a zig zag path. And the lessons to be learnt will include the interaction with the healer who is allowed to walk alongside. It will be part of the journey for both parties. During my healing training I remember saying to some of my colleagues 'If I have this healing now I am concerned it will make me do something I don't want to do' I saw all the smiles on their faces and realised what a daft thing I had said ! All that would happen is that I would have the impetus to take the action I really wanted to take when I was holding myself back ! Peace love and harmony Teresa x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 Hello, Fabiola - Just got your e-mail re your Dad's gout. Again, what popping into mind was ruby and zincoite (but the ruby is pretty expensive, sorry about that), perhaps you could get a small, raw stone which wouldn't cost so much. With the ruby, you need to make a gem elixir from it, so he can drink it. I'm not sure whether you can dunk ruby in water, check it out, but if you can, dunk the piece in water and put it in the sun, or hold it between your hands and will and intend that the energy pour into the water, or bless it, whatever feels right for you. Now the zincite - strap it on the outside of the ankle that is the problem, or if it's both, keep swapping them over. And finally, does your father want help from you? Sometimes, you may want to help but it isn't what the person wants, and you need to check this out, as what you want may not be what your father wants or needs. It is so hard when we love someone and want to do our best for them. If he is open, wonderful, but if he isn't, that's his choice and respect it. You can also pray for healing for him in whichever way is in his highest interests and however you like to do prayer, but also check with his Higher Self if this is okay, as none of us have the right to intervene if an illness is for a purpose of which we, at this earthly level, are unaware. Hope this helps and good luck. Walk in peace and harmony. Maureen. > > " Fabiola " <roulettev > Wed 09/Jul/2003 03:05 GMT > > [CrystalHW] stones for gout > > ________________________ Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 Hi, Teresa - Thanks for your comments. One of my life lessons has been to let go of controlling people or thinking I know best - er, actually, still ongoing. If, for example, you turn up at a healing class then you've pretty much indicated that you want healing, or at least, something's drawn you there and even if you do a zig afterwards you can always zag back again once it's the right time. I feel very strongly that it is incombent upon those who offer healing energies to have the humility to ask a person's higher self if they wish to receive this energy. I feel it is a check on ourselves too. If we care for people, we may wish to ride to the rescue or feel we know best for someone. And it may not be appropriate. When my husband became seriously ill with Ross River fever, mosquito-spread in Australia, I was onto him like hotcakes about having Reiki, doo-daa, doo-daa, and eventually he told me to lay off. What actually happened over time was that for him the illness had mental, emotional and spiritual healing which has been lovely to see happen. As it happened too, it was a lesson to deal with my own problems instead of looking everywhere else except myself. I have also seen a great deal of ego involved in people rushing in to offer healing or impose it, and I think asking a person's higher self is just a courtesy check for them and a check on ourselves to align with what is right at the time. It is just my own feeling as others will have other ideas, but this is important to me as a healer as it stops me trying to control others or thinking I know best for them. Hope that clarifies what I wrote. Love, Maureen. > > XxMagentaMoonxX > Wed 09/Jul/2003 10:58 GMT > > Re: [CrystalHW] stones for gout > > ________________________ Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2003 Report Share Posted July 11, 2003 Dear Maureen Yes well I used to thrust my particular brand of healing onto folks whether they needed it or not ! That is a joke I have used before, I have to say!!!! ) Now I wait to be asked - if I see a situation where I could help, I offer ...... and then wait. If the offer is taken up fine - if not it means that the time is not yet right, or it may be some other healing partner they need. (own children gradually get given more choice in the matter as they grow and separate! ) But I believe that the higher self is .... forever present does not take holidays has benevolent intent (although that may include painful 'lessons') So it is higher self who says ....whoa not ready yet.... or ahh maybe this is what I have been waiting for.... if not being strong enough to say 'No' and being too influenced by others, then that will continue until the point where s/he says Hey - i would like to choose my own form of treatment I always send folks my health questionnaire and practice information (which outlines possible responses to treatment and courses of action) before administering treatment. Some folks just want the pain in the big toe sorted without seeing it as a weeny part of the whole. Take the huge weight from the shoulders and the toe feels better!! But there may of course be significant changes necessary to remove that weight.............. It can be complicated treating people who ask for help, but are not there in person. I have a friend who I have been treating by phone due to distance. I need her to ring me at regular intervals for updates on progress. She doesn't do that. Now professionally I have to leave it for her to contact me - she may have decided to discontinue treatment (fine it is always the client's choice) but she may simply have forgotten ? When I first started out I used to worry about all my clients (being that sort of person!) most of the time. This is obviously not good to do. It is the person's own responsibility for their health and for me to give them my best attention during our interaction (and then have my own 'me' time ) I then do my best to let the filing cabinet 'take care' till I next see them. Oops have just seen mention of 'pain in the big toe' under the subjuect of gout - ho hum .... that wasn't intended as any direct reference, sorry! Good to discuss the backgorund issues to healing many thanks Teresa x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2003 Report Share Posted July 16, 2003 Hi, Teresa - It will probably be a great surprise to you to get a reply after all this time but things went a bit skewiff in the gubbins of my computer and having decided to fiddle with my other email outlet, suddenly found a whole heap of e-mails which I thought had been exterminated somehow, including yours which I didn't even know had arrived! I think the thing about asking for permission from the higher self is important for me because I used to have a tendency to " know best " and rush to the rescue of everybody all the time. In fact, one of my friends said in a very kind way once - and I've never forgotten this because it did make me laught - that she got the impression that when I was healing people, I'd grab them - metaphorically speaking - and snarl in their faces: " You WILL heal, if it kills you! " . Yes, treating people can be difficult. I now let people know I do healing and explain what that entails, and if they come back that's fine and if not, that's fine too, it's their choice. I do know I tried to send absent healing once, interfering again, and got a very strong message from those involved to clear off (although it was a bit ruder than that!), so it taught me another lesson. I have just remembered too, I did reflexology once years ago on a lady who had bad foot pain. It came through that she had a very dependent adult daughter but wasn't prepared to change the relationship, which was okay, so the foot pain stayed. I asked her if anything else had happened, and just as an after-thought, she said brightly: " Oh yes, I used to have permanent ringing in my ear, tinnitis, but that's cleared up completely! " . But she continued to be most unhappy about her sore feet. Ah well, you win some, you lose some. Nice to hear from you and nice to find your e-mail this morning. Love, Maureen. - XxMagentaMoonxX Friday, July 11, 2003 2:22 PM Re: [CrystalHW] stones for gout Dear Maureen Yes well I used to thrust my particular brand of healing onto folks whether they needed it or not ! That is a joke I have used before, I have to say!!!! ) Now I wait to be asked - if I see a situation where I could help, I offer ..... and then wait. If the offer is taken up fine - if not it means that the time is not yet right, or it may be some other healing partner they need. (own children gradually get given more choice in the matter as they grow and separate! ) But I believe that the higher self is .... forever present does not take holidays has benevolent intent (although that may include painful 'lessons') So it is higher self who says ....whoa not ready yet.... or ahh maybe this is what I have been waiting for.... if not being strong enough to say 'No' and being too influenced by others, then that will continue until the point where s/he says Hey - i would like to choose my own form of treatment I always send folks my health questionnaire and practice information (which outlines possible responses to treatment and courses of action) before administering treatment. Some folks just want the pain in the big toe sorted without seeing it as a weeny part of the whole. Take the huge weight from the shoulders and the toe feels better!! But there may of course be significant changes necessary to remove that weight.............. It can be complicated treating people who ask for help, but are not there in person. I have a friend who I have been treating by phone due to distance. I need her to ring me at regular intervals for updates on progress. She doesn't do that. Now professionally I have to leave it for her to contact me - she may have decided to discontinue treatment (fine it is always the client's choice) but she may simply have forgotten ? When I first started out I used to worry about all my clients (being that sort of person!) most of the time. This is obviously not good to do. It is the person's own responsibility for their health and for me to give them my best attention during our interaction (and then have my own 'me' time ) I then do my best to let the filing cabinet 'take care' till I next see them. Oops have just seen mention of 'pain in the big toe' under the subjuect of gout - ho hum .... that wasn't intended as any direct reference, sorry! Good to discuss the backgorund issues to healing many thanks Teresa x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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