Getting stuck & Doc's Inner Demon Destroyer

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Just a quick update...

 

When we had gone for what I would call a direct approach towards " I am

a total fxxking loser " , we just couldn't seem to find a solution for

it.

 

So we tested out being " afraid " of not being a loser anymore.

 

That tested strong.

 

Still, there was some sort of resistance towards changing that.

 

I am going to assume this was a deep part of identity, and there was a

fear of losing his identity.

 

Okay, so he still wanted to change that " I am a loser " , but I guess it

had to be somewhat less intrusive(?), a little less direct.

 

Basically, when I woke up the next day I had the idea to take slightly

different direction.

 

Because he didn't know what to do.

 

So what we ended up using instead was " Even though I don't know how to

deal with this I am a loser problem, I choose to use love and total

appreciation to get a good look at myself and find a valid, worthwhile

solution. "

 

THAT tested strong, in positive form.

 

We had already established a strong anchor for love and total

appreciation, in a specific location, making it much, much easier to

step into that frame.

 

I got a greater sense that time to grow into something new (with

positive, feel good feelings) is an important factor, in a way that

fits what is good.

 

One thing we did was set up taking time, every day, to notice 10

things to appreciate about himself...

 

....and about others.

 

That was a fun learning experience!

 

Gary Graves

 

On May 16, 2009, at 12:55 AM, Gary Graves <xenon6logan wrote:

 

> Hey everybody,

>

> I came across something today.

>

> I'm sure many of you who have done some change work, with self and/

> or others, may have come across this...

>

> And in this instance I am talking more specifically about Energy

> Psychology...

>

> ...Specifically Doc's Inner Demon Destroyer.

>

> First is when you start correcting little things and get good

> results...

>

> ...It's interesting how something BIG will out-of-nowhere peek

> it's ugly head out.

>

> My question is, what can be done when something big and ugly comes

> up and the client really has NO clue of what to install...

>

> I mean ge'ez...

>

> ...just about anything would be better than feeling like a total

> fxxking loser your whole life (at a 10)!!!

>

> It was sort of like a deer in headlights...

>

> ...The mind gets frozen and pretty much blank... And that was with

> holding the neuro-vasculars front and back for several minutes.

>

> Had trouble just coming up with a set-up phrase. All I kept getting

> was " I don't know, I really don't know. I have no fxxking clue. "

>

> This has got me going WTF!?!

>

> I never had this come up before.

>

> What am I missing here?

>

> Is there something else I should be doing first?

>

> We ran through 4 or 5 other things previously, and everything was

> pretty much SOP.

>

> Well, actually I did stop at one point to add in Heaven Rushing In

> at one point, just to get a deep association into a positive, as

> opposed to being disassociated from.

>

> A positive ASSOCIATED reference point was necessary.

>

> That did make a big difference.

>

> Thanks.

>

> Gary Graves

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, Gary Graves

<xenon6logan wrote:

>

> Just a quick update...

>

> When we had gone for what I would call a direct approach towards " I am

> a total fxxking loser " , we just couldn't seem to find a solution for

> it.

>

> So we tested out being " afraid " of not being a loser anymore.

>

> That tested strong.

 

It seems to me that the testing fell into the deep pit of the 4 deadly

psychological reversals.

 

Where they are buried so deep that the opposite seems to be the truth when you

ET...

 

....which is weird from inside the body.

 

So a massive PR tactic should be used AND THEN immediately retest.

 

That'll give the correct answer.

 

John La Tourrette, PhD