our NEXT STEP in our own maturation WILL ALWAYS SHOW UP!

[Guest guest]

Wow! Thanks for your insights. Without necessarily knowing the

specifics of where I'm at, you made a couple of comments that

confirmed a few things I've been " chewing " on.

 

And you're right...all this radical change is quite thrilling, even

if it IS scaring the sh!t out of me!

 

Thanks again,

 

Ron

 

 

healingenergies-

essentialskills , " docspeed2001 " <docspeed2001>

wrote:

> healingenergies-

essentialskills , " marangneng "

> <marangneng> wrote:

>

> > I guess the reason that I'm here is that I had a life-changing

> >event about five years ago that shook me to my foundation and

made

> >me question who I was and what I stood for. I turned my schools

> >over to my senior black belts and walked away.

>

> This is funny;-0, sort of, even though I understand where you are

> coming from, and I call that feeling, " RETIREMENT! " , which I've

done

> 5 different times now;-(

>

> Let me explain what I mean by " retired " ...

>

> The first time I " retired " (1980), I had made ENOUGH MONEY and I

was

> bored shitless with what I was doing for a living...

>

> ...and my new and evolved parameters of " living " were way outside

> the parameters of that business, so I SOLD IT...

>

> ...and I retired, and just sat back, thought things out, Trained a

> few people in alpha brain wave, studied some NLP, wrote another

> book, trained a few (about 20) special clients one-on-one, blab,

> blab, blab...

>

> ...when I figured out " what exactly to do " next, I then took

> immediate steps to do it. And that was to go after a Ph.D. in

> Psychology.

>

> So I moved to Colorado, blab, blab, blab...(1983-1987)...

>

> AND I cycled that " changing life " process three MORE TIMES since

> then!

>

> In fact, these I now run are a facet of

> ANOTHER " changing life " process...

>

> ...so ANOTHER " CHANGE " is now in progress...

>

> WOW!

>

> I wonder where it's going to take me?

>

> It doesn't matter because it's all fun, exciting AND difficult,

just

> like it should be;-)

>

> If it's easy, why waste time learning it?

>

> > As a result, the fire inside that I feared had gone out forever

> >seems to be flickering back to life.

>

> The only reason the fire inside burns out is because you are not

> feeding it the fuel it needs...

>

> ...and your EMOTIONS will tell you which fuel is the correct fuel.

>

> ...and that correct fuel can only be found by GOING FOR the next

> step, and that next step will show you the step after that next

> step...

>

> >But I'm still quesioning who I am and what

> > I want to do when I grow up.

>

> Good, BECAUSE it is NEVER just one answer...

>

> ...it is usually one answer now, another answer later, and still

> another answer later.

>

> When we grow, mature, and continueing practicing, THEN the next

step

> in our own maturation WILL ALWAYS SHOW UP!

>

> > Anyway, thanks for making me feel welcome.

>

> Ron, I'm glad you joined our little " fun house " .

>

> Sincerely,

[Guest guest]

OK, is the height of scizophrenia replying to your own messages? lol!

 

I'm asking that all you fine folks send some positive vibes my way.

I'm in negotiations for a high-level position with a DoD contractor

and have been visualizing receiving an offer from them that is

mutually beneficial. This is part of my transition out of what I've

been doing for the past 26 years into the next step along the path.

 

I'll be back on the air in a couple days. Going to Vermont to think.

 

Peace and love,

 

Ron

 

, " marangneng "

<marangneng> wrote:

> Wow! Thanks for your insights. Without necessarily knowing the

> specifics of where I'm at, you made a couple of comments that

> confirmed a few things I've been " chewing " on.

>

> And you're right...all this radical change is quite thrilling,

even

> if it IS scaring the sh!t out of me!

>

> Thanks again,

>

> Ron

>

>

> healingenergies-

> essentialskills , " docspeed2001 "

<docspeed2001>

> wrote:

> > healingenergies-

> essentialskills , " marangneng "

> > <marangneng> wrote:

> >

> > > I guess the reason that I'm here is that I had a life-changing

> > >event about five years ago that shook me to my foundation and

> made

> > >me question who I was and what I stood for. I turned my schools

> > >over to my senior black belts and walked away.

> >

> > This is funny;-0, sort of, even though I understand where you

are

> > coming from, and I call that feeling, " RETIREMENT! " , which I've

> done

> > 5 different times now;-(

> >

> > Let me explain what I mean by " retired " ...

> >

> > The first time I " retired " (1980), I had made ENOUGH MONEY and I

> was

> > bored shitless with what I was doing for a living...

> >

> > ...and my new and evolved parameters of " living " were way

outside

> > the parameters of that business, so I SOLD IT...

> >

> > ...and I retired, and just sat back, thought things out, Trained

a

> > few people in alpha brain wave, studied some NLP, wrote another

> > book, trained a few (about 20) special clients one-on-one, blab,

> > blab, blab...

> >

> > ...when I figured out " what exactly to do " next, I then took

> > immediate steps to do it. And that was to go after a Ph.D. in

> > Psychology.

> >

> > So I moved to Colorado, blab, blab, blab...(1983-1987)...

> >

> > AND I cycled that " changing life " process three MORE TIMES since

> > then!

> >

> > In fact, these I now run are a facet of

> > ANOTHER " changing life " process...

> >

> > ...so ANOTHER " CHANGE " is now in progress...

> >

> > WOW!

> >

> > I wonder where it's going to take me?

> >

> > It doesn't matter because it's all fun, exciting AND difficult,

> just

> > like it should be;-)

> >

> > If it's easy, why waste time learning it?

> >

> > > As a result, the fire inside that I feared had gone out

forever

> > >seems to be flickering back to life.

> >

> > The only reason the fire inside burns out is because you are not

> > feeding it the fuel it needs...

> >

> > ...and your EMOTIONS will tell you which fuel is the correct

fuel.

> >

> > ...and that correct fuel can only be found by GOING FOR the next

> > step, and that next step will show you the step after that next

> > step...

> >

> > >But I'm still quesioning who I am and what

> > > I want to do when I grow up.

> >

> > Good, BECAUSE it is NEVER just one answer...

> >

> > ...it is usually one answer now, another answer later, and still

> > another answer later.

> >

> > When we grow, mature, and continueing practicing, THEN the next

> step

> > in our own maturation WILL ALWAYS SHOW UP!

> >

> > > Anyway, thanks for making me feel welcome.

> >

> > Ron, I'm glad you joined our little " fun house " .

> >

> > Sincerely,

[Guest guest]

[ snip ]

>

> > As a result, the fire inside that I feared had gone out forever

> >seems to be flickering back to life.

>

> The only reason the fire inside burns out is because you are not

> feeding it the fuel it needs...

>

> ...and your EMOTIONS will tell you which fuel is the correct fuel.

>

> ...and that correct fuel can only be found by GOING FOR the next

> step, and that next step will show you the step after that next

> step...

 

Hey Doc,

 

I don't quite understand exactly how to implement this, and it is

important to me. In another post, you mentioned how various people's

personalities affected their use of the marketing systems you taught

them. So I'm curious...

 

....because the Byron Katie's of this world are into 'ending the war

with reality' and 'accepting what is', and most of what I do I'm

driven to do because I don't 'accept what is'. Apparently, if I let go

of all my resistance to 'what is', then the right course of action

will spontaneously arise through 'non-doing', or I'll go broke and

starve to death, whichever comes first.

 

....and then some of my emotions will tell me not to do some things

because I'm afraid of them. But maybe the secret to success is

'courage', and 'self-discipline' and making yourself do things even if

you don't feel you want to. Cos EFT will change your emotions in a

heartbeat... so how do I know which one to change?

 

....or maybe I should just 'follow my bliss' and perhaps the next step

is to sit on the couch and drink beer... but that doesn't seem right

somehow.

 

Ah, if only I had a 'burning desire for riches' it would all be so

easy. But life is often a conflicting mass of desires for different

things, leaving no single strong direction.

 

So any more specific how-tos on finding the fuel and feeding the fire

would be very welcome...

 

Phil

[Guest guest]

, " Juan M.

Mercado " <profesormental2004@a...> wrote:

 

> Hope this helps. There are a lot

>more where that came from. Do these.

 

> We are through with this reading.

>(I just love them Edgar Cayce readings!)

 

> Juan

 

Nice process Juan,

 

Has anyone else noticed YET, that all my posts are " readings " ?

 

 

[Guest guest]

, " Juan M.

Mercado " <profesormental2004@a...> wrote:

> Hi Doc; all!

>

> >Nice process Juan,

> >

> >Has anyone else noticed YET, that all my posts are " readings " ?

> >

> >

 

> And from now on I'll notice and conciously use my newly

>named " reading " state! Thanks for noticing and telling me Doc!

 

> Sincerely,

 

> Juan M. Mercado

 

You are welcome.

 

[Guest guest]

, " Juan M.

Mercado " <profesormental2004@a...> wrote:

[ snip ]

>

> Find someone to do it for you or create taped inductions using your

> metaprograms. Easy if you treat this project as if you were going to

> reprogram a client. Use all 3 perspectives (you, person your doing to

> (you) and meta person (you again!).

 

[ snip ]

>

> Hope this helps. There are a lot more where that came from. Do these.

 

Hey Juan,

 

Thanks for your help, I appreciate it.

 

As is so often the way, posting my post got me thinking about the

problem. And when I read your post, I thought: 'Hmmm, this is good

advice, I know these things intellectually, so why don't I do them?'

 

What I figured out was exactly what you posted above: 'Easy if you

treat this project as if you were going to reprogram a client.'

 

Because what happens is that I don't notice the subtle build-up of

negativity changing my daily state - the creeping pessimism,

frustration and other junk that builds up. Until before you know it

I'm stuck in some terrible state and cut off from all the good things

I know how to do.

 

Sure enough today I got dissociated enough from my state to consider

it objectively and do some rounds of EFT. Now the pendulum swings back

in the other direction.

 

Time to implement daily state monitoring and if I find it less than

entirely positive and optimistic, do some drills to correct.

 

Thanks for your help old son,

 

Phil

[Guest guest]

, docresults

<docresults@h...> wrote:

>

[ snip ]

>

> When you really do get to a place of " accepting what is " or " ending

the war

> with reality " a few thing happen.

 

Hi Houston,

 

Thank you for this, it's interesting. Just out of curiousity, how many

people do you know who actually live like this in contemporary Western

urban society for longer than a week?

 

Please understand that it seems so far removed from what I'm used to

as everyday human experience that it is difficult to imagine or

comprehend. But then I started to have my doubts when I read Eckhart

Tolle talking about how he spent two years sitting on park benches in

states of unalloyed bliss. It's not that I doubt the possibility or

even necessarily the value, I just have a hard time seeing how it

works out. I guess it's because I've always believed the point of life

is to mature by getting stuff done, and this seems to be predicated on

the idea that what you do is much less important than how you feel

while you're doing it.

 

I'd be interested to know what you think.

 

Cheers,

 

Phil

[Guest guest]

Hi Phil,

I hope you don't mind be butting in and answering. I've just been

listening to Ken Wilbers tape set called Kosmic conciousness. Ken

is one of the leading writers and " philosophers " in the area of

nondual/acceptance of what is, and you can do a lot worse than read

one of his books about it. Anyway in his tape set he gets asked the

same question and his answer is very very few. something like less

than 1% of anyway living today.

 

I don't think that it needs to be that way though, there are ways of

entering into that peace that are getting faster and simpler than

any other time in history. You can work with byron Katies methods

and in a few hours experience profound states of unity, peace

acceptance of what is. Her methods are very simple but equally

profound. When I first started working with her techniques I felt

like I had woken up from a 15 year tantrum. incredible feeling.

 

Chris

[Guest guest]

Hi Cris,

 

, " hunter.cris "

<hunter.cris@w...> wrote:

> Hi,

> what is a tower of power and how do you anchor to it?

>

> Cris

 

The Tower of Power is something like the Circle of Excellence only

amped up and even more strongly anchored.

 

Doc does have a course on it.

 

It's damn good too.

 

You can Google " Circle of Excellence " + " NLP " to get an idea of what

it is.

 

....And of course always ask, " How else can I use this? "

 

At one of the last seminars of Doc's I had the privilege of

attending, Doc took something like the Tower of Power, melded it to a

few other techniques, and turned it into a vehicle of change so

powerful no one could even think of a NAME for it.

 

Something like " Shatter Your OLD Image Of You And Replace It With A

NEW YOU With GODLIKE POWERS!!! "

 

That may be a little overboard. OR that description may not even

BEGIN to do it justice.

 

All the best,

 

-Mark

[Guest guest]

" PILLARS OF POWER " !!! " PILLARS OF POWER " !!!

 

Not Tower of Power! That was a funk band in the 70's...

 

And I have the video on my shelf right here.

 

PILLARS OF POWER, of course...

 

....And I'm NOT talking about Jim's " pen " ...

 

-Mark ;-)

 

(Thanks Doc Vetter.)

 

 

, " Mark Holt "

<severian6@h...> wrote:

> Hi Cris,

>

> healingenergies-

essentialskills , " hunter.cris "

> <hunter.cris@w...> wrote:

> > Hi,

> > what is a tower of power and how do you anchor to it?

> >

> > Cris

>

> The Tower of Power is something like the Circle of Excellence only

> amped up and even more strongly anchored.

>

> Doc does have a course on it.

>

> It's damn good too.

>

> You can Google " Circle of Excellence " + " NLP " to get an idea of

what

> it is.

>

> ...And of course always ask, " How else can I use this? "

>