Guest guest Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 creative_energies , " kahunamaker " <kahunamaker> wrote: creative_energies , " Pat Burke " <esyoga@c...> wrote: > does anyone have any suggestions for 9 year old who still wets >herself? My niece seem to not pay attention to " need to go " , gets >absorbed in something and wets herself while awake, family life is >stressful ... > many thanks, Pat Very easy to fix. Do a bit of unconscious conditioning when he goes to sleep. This is how it is done. Let him fall asleep, then wait about 10 minutes... Now sit by him and softly speak to him... ....tell him how much you love him... ....Then start speaking as if you are him, saying positive things like, " I wake up with a dry bed " ... " I wake up with a dry bed " ... " I feel great about my self " ... " my unconscious mind knows when it's time to go, and it will awaken we quickly and easily, and it is so! " ... ....even though it's much better to keep the statements short, simple and positive... " I wake up to a dry bed " ... ....and continue those positive statements for about 10 minutes, being sure to talk slowly, to to talk softly, and to only talk in positive term in either the Present Tense, or in the Present Progressive Tense. When they are in the sleep state, AVOID any mention of negation, ie, " I don't wet the bed " . The unconscious mind does not process negations, so that statement, for anyone asleep, or that does not have the mental development of an adult will translate it to... " I wet the bed! " For the past times, help him install other concepts besides shame. This is easily done with statements that " reframe " the " accident " into a " learning experience " ... More on this later if wanted. John M. La Tourrette --- End forwarded message --- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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