I just BANNEd this huggy feely lady from the UK, what to know why?

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Hi Group,

 

I just BANNED this huggy feely lady, Janice (a fake name) from the UK...know

why?

 

Lately the topic has come up on when I ban, and why I ban.

The following is an actual example of a 3 post sequence of me talking with

" sweety pie " and then banning that sweet lady from the UK, from any of my lists.

 

Did anyone notice Lillie's brillant post yesterday

(mindmastery-essentialskills), or was it today?

 

Well, this is Janice McFee's public reply, a personal attack, to Lillie's post.

 

I found it amusing and inappropiate.

 

Amusing, NOT because it's funny but because of how painful her life must be

BECAUSE OF HER OWN ATTITUDES!

 

INAPPROPIATE because this group has a different energy than hate.

 

My private post to Janice is post #2. Janice's reply to post #2 is Post #3.

 

After you read all 3 posts, and re-read Lillie's post, I'd love for those who

want to, to tell me when and why I ban several people every week, and sometimes

daily.

 

Have fun reading, thinking about and reflecting on the following posts.

 

 

 

 

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<Message #1 is Janice McFee's (a fake name) answer to Lillie's great post>

 

> Don't tell me. You got where you did because of hard work and

> sheer brilliance.

 

> If I should suggest that having a husband helps, or a man, I

> suppose I will not be seen as having much to offer on this list.

 

> Love that lite!

 

> Janice McFee

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<message #2, is my private post to that lady>

Hello Janice,

 

It seems to me that you are attacking Lillie WITHOUT any

provocation, and NOT answering the original question.

 

Then you attack this list saying, " not having much to offer on this

list " .

 

If you disagree with Lillie, please give reasons and specifics. If

you want to talk about YOUR version of " loser's limp " , that's fine,

give reasons, specifics, and maybe a way to help them.

 

If you want to attack me, or this list, give reasons, specifics and

verification processes.

 

Thank you.

 

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<message #3 is her response to my private suggestions>

 

Not everyone in life will make a success of it, or be successful in

what they do. I should have thought you'd know that. Obviously, there's nothing

I can say about that. We live in different worlds, no doubt.

 

If someone is losing out, and they keep smiling, and they continue to lose out,

they will die with no one knowing they lost out. If people keep smiling even

when the world's gone wrong, and they keep silent, no one will ever know. Of

course, if they smile, and then life gets better, it all makes sense, but I will

tell you this, where I live, you don't get ahead unless you let them fuck you.

 

And as long as a woman doesn't say no, she is likely to be unaware of how she

got ahead in life. So how many ex's does Lillie have. And how many girls have

you fucked.

 

Janice McFee

 

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Well group,

 

Not much to say with an attitude like that, is there?

 

Especially in a public forum.

 

Sort of off topic when vented in that manner.

 

Now, what manner could Janice have commented the EXACT SAME THINGS but been

within the boundaries of politeness and respect towards Lillie, and towards this

group?

 

And the topic of HATE is also allowed on this group.

 

A neat topic, especially regarding PROPULSION SYSTEMS...

 

....And regarding BLACK BOXES that hold you back.

 

Feel free to post your comments, suggestions, etc.

 

 

ps. Would I take this person on as a private client? Well, probably NOT. Why

not? Because I always test a person for what they want, and then I test for them

doing what is necessary to acquire the skills they need to get to where they

want to go. She failed the test. Did you notice where I tested her, and how she

failed the test? Look again. It's in the above.