when you pray wrong you GET what you DON'T want!

[Guest guest]

Doc,

 

The focus needs to shift to what IS wanted vs what is

NOT wanted in order to get the intented result.

 

When she says, " Please see xxx xxxxx emotionally and

physically healthy and interested in a nice woman who

is NOT ME " - the " NOT " gets dropped by the subcon. and

the desire being understood is, " a nice woman who IS

ME. "

 

Instead - she'll get more mileage out of " Please see

XXX emotionally and physically healthy and interested

in a nice woman who is right for him and all

involved. " Something a bit less specific and focused

on the right things that ARE desired.

 

Jason Goughnour

 

--- docspeed2001 <docspeed2001 wrote:

 

> --- In

> , Red

> Woman

> <ahaxta.viv wrote:

>

>

> > Last evening as he was lamenting not seeing his

> children and how

> they must be suffering I truly wanted to B----slap

> him. After I

> yelled at him to get his head out of his a-s and

> stop thinking so

> negatively about his situation and not to think of

> his kids as being

> in distress. I gave him a few suggestions to getting

> his power back.

> >

> > Please see xxx xxxxx emotionally and physically

> healthy and

> interested in a nice woman who is NOT ME!!!

> >

> > Mahalo,

> > Vivian

>

> Well, two things.

>

> 1. Why are you bothering with him? Guilt? Alturism?

> Unfinished

> business? Why?

>

> 2. And, did you know that your hypnotic suggestion,

> they way you gave

> it WILL CAUSE HIM TO BE INTERESTED IN YOU MORE AND

> MORE!

>

> Just curious, Vivian,

>

> Ps. Who wants to help Vivian with a " better "

> phrasology, so she will

> NOT get what she DON'T want?

> That's quite a tongue twister, is it NOT?

[Guest guest]

healingenergies-

essentialskills , " docspeed2001 " <docspeed2001

wrote:

>

> , Red Woman

> <ahaxta.viv@> wrote:

>

>

> > Last evening as he was lamenting not seeing his children and

> how they must be suffering I truly wanted to B----slap him. After

So...the subconscious just deleted the NOT and the seeing the

suffering children just entere the SCM freeely.

 

The BXXXX slap would have been a great brak state.

 

 

> I yelled at him to get his head out of his a-s

 

So what this really did was...buddy had to picture his head first

being up his Axx then had to think about the process of taking it out.

 

> and stop thinking so negatively about his situation

....this bit now had to get buddy thinking about his situation first

and think about it negatively then give the command to stop

 

> and not to think of his kids as being in distress.

....this bit now gets buddy to think of his kids then add distress in

that picture then send the command to not to think of that.

 

> I gave him a few suggestions to getting his power back.

> >

....its really about NOT THINKING OF THE PINK ELEPHANT GETTING PINKER

AND PINKER

 

> > Please see xxx xxxxx emotionally and physically healthy and

> interested in a nice woman who is NOT ME!!!

This one is a bit better since buddy had to think of XXX XXXXX first

then add emotionally and physically healthy and interested in a nice

woman...but then the last bit really added a comparison (which is NOT

me).

 

So the picture is always having that comparison with vivian in the

picture....SO to think of the Healthy person...Vivian has to be in it.

 

Better phrasology....

Start with a break state BXXX slap.

That would get things kick started.

 

Next...depending on buddy's VAKOG preference

 

paint the picture of the kids havings fun at the amusement park.

Kids hair flying in the wind as they ride the roller coasters and

shout in both joy and excitement....imagine the hugs they give you

and when you take that ride with them they hold your hand and jsut

have a fun time with you...

 

....NOW thinking positively about his situation

What does that mean to him? Have him define positive?

Is it getting a new car? Or kids getting new toys?

Or is it getting custody of the kids...whatever it is.

VAKOG it and put it in his fields

 

 

DISTRESS VS EUSTRESS

SO...what is the opposite of a distressful event to him?

Is that the kids just lying around doing nothing?

Is that a life of just boring living? Or is it a life of excitement

and full of activities that just keep one going?

 

JIA

 

> >

> > Mahalo,

> > Vivian

>

> Well, two things.

>

> 1. Why are you bothering with him? Guilt? Alturism? Unfinished

> business? Why?

>

> 2. And, did you know that your hypnotic suggestion, they way you

gave

> it WILL CAUSE HIM TO BE INTERESTED IN YOU MORE AND MORE!

>

> Just curious, Vivian,

>

> Ps. Who wants to help Vivian with a " better " phrasology, so she

will

> NOT get what she DON'T want?

> That's quite a tongue twister, is it NOT?

>